Everywhere I look I see people who are unfaithful and unhappy in their marriages. Is this what I have to look forward to? I hope to someday have a happy and faithful marriage to someone I love and respect who also loves and respects me. Am I crazy?
2006-09-14 10:46:04 · 18 answers · asked by Sarah 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No you are not crazy. You have high morals which some other people don't share. Keep your standards set high. You will find someone who fits your expectations.
Not everyone cheats in a relationship. You get what you shop for. If you look for high-quality people in a high-quality place you will find what you want. Just be sure to remember that beauty is inside the person - not outside. Some people who are "6" outside may be a "10" inside.
2006-09-14 10:50:53 · answer #1 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not crazy. It is just a normal for a person to want to have a marriage where love and respect goes hand in hand. A person can still be faithful even though the other partner is not. Just because unhappy marriages outnumbered the successful one , it does not mean fidelity does not exist. It depends upon the character of the person, she or he will not be affected by circumstances that surround him/her specially if he/she is a person of integrity.
2006-09-14 11:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by dtmc542006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, it does exist. The people that do cheat are only worried about themselves and instant gratification. As long as you are faithful to your husband and he is faithful to you, you should have no problem. Although there are other things besides being faithful to make a marriage last, honesty is the first place to start. I think people cheat because they aren't willing to try and keep the flame going in there own marriage so the idea of sneaking around and doing something they shouldn't be doing excites them. They want to experience something new instead of realizing they could experience something new with there spouse.
Sorry to drag on about the subject..Good Luck to you.
2006-09-14 11:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone cheats in a marriage, I have been married two years and we are very faithful. We don't believe in things like that, and we take our vows VERY seriously. We work through our small problems and have never really had a huge fight to were everyone in the area hears it. My parents have been married 21 years, and also have a strong and healthy marriage, and neither of them cheats on the other. So yes, fidelity does exist.
BUT, you have to work on other aspects of the relationship to keep it healthy enough so cheating doesn't happen. It is hard work, but well worth the effort.
2006-09-14 11:03:52 · answer #4 · answered by gin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it does exsist!! My marriage is wonderful! You need consideration, communication, respect & compromise among other things as a base to a strong marriage. The immature people are the ones that don't know how to use self control when they meet an attractive person, they aren't prepared for the commitment a marriage needs.
2006-09-14 10:56:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fidelity does exist. I was faithful to my marriage 100%. My wife wasn't however. Of course, she is now my ex. But you also need to know this. Fidelity does not equal happiness.
The best way to assure faithfulness in your relationships is to be faithful.
2006-09-14 10:57:07 · answer #6 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm single yet as quickly as I have been to ever get married returned, there may be NO pc allowed in my homestead!! each and every physique i understand, married and single, have all long gone on there in seek of a sparkling f*ck chum or one nighter or to stay out a fantasy or to interchange their companions!! continually does ensue. that is going on with people who do not even understand a thank you to tutor on a working laptop or pc, or use a cellular telephone, or textual content textile. adult males do not even ought to get a girl some beverages any further, they only hookup at a inn from online guidelines to the inn. I nevertheless won't be in a position to parent why different than via fact they are in a position to, that persons nevertheless even get arried and spend all that money to realize this. in hassle-free terms 50% of all cheat. in keeping with risk slightly bigger, yet what do you wager that people who do not, are spending high quality time with their families and or better half and not on the cyber web??
2016-10-15 00:18:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you aren't. Even though it often seems that way, "everybody" isn't cheating, beating each other up, high on drugs, abandoning their kids, or any of the other things that "everybody" is doing. It's just that happy marriages don't make the news, or get much notice.
2006-09-14 10:58:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive always said if you are not happy and you cant sort things out then leave, dont have an affair, life is too short to be with someone and unhappy, although every body has their ups and downs, it isnt all plain sailing. marriage has to be worked at.
2006-09-14 10:56:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it does. I've been happily married for 8 yrs now with the love of my life,my marriage is not perfect because there's no such thing as perfect marriage but it's great,i have a man that loves me,care for me,respect me,provides for his family, a great friend and he gets all of it back in return.i don't have any desire to cheat on my husband because he loves me and i loves him to much to jeopardize our relationship
2006-09-14 12:19:10 · answer #10 · answered by jolie minouche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋