We have one 3 year old together and he has more kids but they are adults now. The problem is no one in his family likes me nor my son.
2006-09-14 10:40:38 · 20 answers · asked by bigbrowneyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all who cares about his damn family? U want to marry him not them. My bf and I have been 2gether for 10 yrs and we have a 5 yr old half of my family doesn't like him, but they are never disrespectful. His family has to understand that u r the one that he has chosen to be with and they need to treat u and ur son with respect no matter what. I do not know how close u and ur own family r but if family is very important to u then u need to really talk this out with ur fiancee. He needs to know that are things that u will just not tolerate from his family members or anyone else for that matter. It doesn't take much for them to be nice to even if they do not want to, it is a matter of respect.
2006-09-14 10:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by 2good4hem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not what his family wants...it's what you two want. My husband and I were together 11 years and had three kids before we got married. I don't know why it took so long to do it, we both felt that we were already married even without the actual paper. We have even lived in some places that would have be convenient or ideal. Reno NV and Kauai HI so don't ask why it didn't happen earlier, it just didn't. It was a wonderful day when it did though and I guess it just finalized how we felt all along. Good Luck with whatever decision you do make.
2006-09-14 17:49:07 · answer #2 · answered by Erika O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No answer so toss a coin and let fate decide. If you don't like the result go for the best of 3 and then 5 then 7 and so on and you WILL come to the right decision
2006-09-14 17:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love eachother? Do you want to spend the rest of your lives with eachother? If the answer id yes then it is not up to his family but it is up to the two of you. Have you discussed it with him? Do you think that you son would want his mommy and daddy to be husband and wife? If yes to this then it is up to the three of you.
You are already a family, You and Your son are his immedeiate family now, so you need to make that choice without the influence of his parents
2006-09-14 17:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by LondonLou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you have to come on Yahoo Answers then you probably know it isn't realistic at this point.
When you want to get married, it shouldn't be something you ask other people about. It is something you should feel and know.
Maybe after you get things improved you will feel more comfortable about it. At this point it seems there are too many issues that need to be worked out first.
2006-09-14 17:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by I'm alive .. still 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't marrying his family! He must be a pretty good guy, if you have been together 7 years. Can you imagine life without him? If not there is your answer. Alot of in laws don't like who their son or daughter marries, so don't worry about that. And if they don't like their own grandson, then they must be messed up people anyways. Kill them with kindness! Good luck in your decission.
2006-09-14 17:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by Paulda37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 7 years if you don't know yourself and using thoughts that the family doesn't like you???? If you love the guy, marry him..... if you don't love him and are looking for a way out.... walk out and and walk away.
2006-09-14 17:45:04 · answer #7 · answered by AL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can marry him if you believe he is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with, knowing that he feels the exact same way for you.
family problems will always be there no matter what. it is good to be aware of the problems but don't let them dictate your heart because love can solve a lot of problems.
good luck
2006-09-14 17:45:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how do u feel about this guy??
it all depends on you.
do you love him enough, to have all his family dislike you for the rest of your life??
i think you should marry the person you love, with or without the family liking it.
Good luck.
2006-09-14 17:43:59 · answer #9 · answered by Nita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You marry him you marry the family. Trust me on this. I was in that situation and my ex picked her family over me everytime
2006-09-14 17:42:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋