ok well my guy doesnt give me all the attenton i need i have tried talkin to him about this, but hes hard headed and stubborn and says hes not gonna change for any woman. so i got back on personals (where we met) and put my ad back up just to read what people say and maybe chat. but NOT to meet people, i know it sounds wrong but in my mind it was innocent and i just wanna chat . now he is furious and thinks my feelings for him are a lie because i made myself "available" to others. what do you think am i at fault or should he just give me more attention and not be mad at me just for chatting.
2006-09-14 10:31:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You are not getting what you need from this man! What you need to do if find someone who does care about your needs! Or you can just go through the rest of your life without getting what you need. Does that sound better? I think you were really looking for more, don't you. Or admit that chatting could have led to more, had you found someone interesting.
2006-09-14 10:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your both at fault. He for ignoring your feelings and you for like he said making yourself available for whatever reason. If you're unhappy in a relationship you do one of two things: you either stay and work it out, or you just get out, but you by no means allow a third party, whether it be a male, female, amomphridite, animal or computer, to come in and tremble whats already shaky ground. Regardless of how he was treating you should have let him know period and vice versa. You shouldnt subject yourself to something you dont life and nor should he. If you wanted attention, you got it now, are you satisified?
2006-09-14 17:44:45 · answer #2 · answered by Free_Spirit 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think neither are at fault just tell him that you told him that he didnt give you attention and u wanted to see what others said, nothings wrong with that. He has to trust you if he doesnt trust you then he isnt worth it anyways
2006-09-14 17:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by Tbaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are at fault for putting your ad up. He is at fault for not coming to middle ground. You need to start to ask yourself those old questions again. Sorry.
2006-09-14 17:35:30 · answer #4 · answered by James S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop all this.
Leave.
Start Fresh.
I this guy is not worth it, woman...
you need to wake up and stop what you are doing...
take a cold shower, clean yourself, take a wake, go watch the stars at night, get a college degree, learn something...
Go and speak to someone old and wise, and take sex out of your head...
2006-09-15 22:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by skystriker65 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats sooo bad! thats as bad as when my EX was collecting girls ph #s, not to call(yeah right) just so he could get the extra attention. shame on you.
2006-09-14 17:43:54 · answer #6 · answered by qt pie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yo at fault
2006-09-14 17:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by GJA 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋