First off. I am 16 year old guy, almost 17. Second... I am having these feelings towards another guy in my class; first gay feelings I have ever felt. I was fine tell I first layed eyes on him; it is like he made the gay inside of me come out. Now I am having feelings towards other guys and my intrests in girls has been slowly fading (Not to mention stress is constantly bulding inside from holding these feelings inside, my family is hardcore christian and is against gays, and my friends crack jokes about them all the time) I don't talk to this guy, but I alwayse do stare at him; occasionaly he looks back but quickly looks away. I want to know if there is any 'non' creepy way to approach him?
2006-09-14 10:14:44 · 6 answers · asked by Jared J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay, this is an update on some of the answers I have gotten. I have dated at least....5 girls in the past two years. I don't know what it is, but I just can't stand them for too long. I would love them as a friend but anything more is asking for too much. But I can see me dating guys and having a relationship going farther.... Right now I am dating a girl, and I am not so sure about her. She is nice and all but I don't feel the same way she feels about me.
2006-09-14 10:41:03 · update #1
Was there any non creepy way to be approached before you met him? If you used to like girls and still do, I'd say you might just find him attractive and that's okay. Wait it out, hormones can do strange things. If you don't want to wait it out, ask him what he'd think if a friend confessed to him that he was bisexual. That might "water " the creepiness down. Once you know the answer to that you can ask another question that will take you one step closer. Remember homosexuals are still the minority and chances are he's straight.
2006-09-14 10:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by tyreanpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your question is 'How can I tell if I am gay?' At your age you will probably have many mixed feelings but only time will answer the question. If you like the guy you mention, get to know him in a non-sexual way and see what happens. At the same time don't give on girls. Remember, life can be really cruel either road you travel.
2006-09-14 17:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by chickenger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, just because u have thoughs doesnt make u gay. If u r having emotions 4 this guy that different. I would date a girl or 2 before u tell any1. It happens 2 every1. Wondering what it would be like with the same. Just don't lie about it. My ex lied about I found him on a website. It really hurt me.
2006-09-14 17:21:40 · answer #3 · answered by for_runner0 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First u need to get yourself to a counselor and get yourself straightened out You do not want to be queer. It is immoral, perverted and against Gods laws. Go to a clergy person for help. Get on your knees and ask God to help you so that you can get the help you need. You do not want to be gay. It is terrible.
2006-09-14 17:24:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be careful. People can be so ignorant these days and might want to do you harm. Is there any way to find out from other people?
2006-09-14 17:20:10 · answer #5 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him...
2006-09-14 17:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋