If a girl says "I Love You" very early on the relationship and you're not there yet, do you panic and leave?
2006-09-14 09:24:00 · 17 answers · asked by Belle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
um... tell her! If you don't think you'll ever love her, tell her. But if you will just say it' too early to know that you feel that way.
2006-09-14 09:29:43 · answer #1 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is some thing that has happened to me I had a girl and she was not ready for a relationship I told her I loved her so much then she left. So I don’t think every body can carry pressure the same way and may be he thought that you were playing him he thought you were just making fun at him or some thing and usually girls do not admit that they love a boy ok they can tell their friends but not to the boy until they go in good or they break up
2006-09-14 16:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love you. I love you, I love you! I do! But don't get excited, I love monkeys too!
It depends. I think its a word that is so often thrown around anymore that many of us have a hard time understanding what love is.
There are many kinds of love- platonic, fraternal, familial, romantic, erotic, marital, etc. So when people say :"I love you", I do have a tendency to be skeptical.
How many times do you see people say "I love you" then procede to be abusive in a relationship? How many times to people say these words but act very little on it.
If somebody tells me they love me but doesn't understand me for my qualities and flaws, of course I'm disturbed. Do you love me for who I am, that which you may not understand, or your perception of me? Do you love the idea of security? Do you love the idea of a relationship? Or is it just lust or infatuation?
Love is a process. I definitely believe in infatuation on first side, and feeling strong passions about someone, but unless its fostered by both sides, after all it does take two people to form a relationship, then its only a feeling.
Basically, theres more to love than just a feeling. Love is also a lot more than words. I think a lot of people fail to realize this.
2006-09-14 16:37:01 · answer #3 · answered by coffee_addict 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 points
2006-09-14 16:25:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how early and depends in how the relationship goes
2006-09-14 16:25:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how much early and how 'you' feel about her at the moment.but i don't think one should panic and leave because that's the sign of being a coward.
2006-09-14 16:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by elle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly, depends on how early...
2006-09-14 16:25:10 · answer #7 · answered by Troy S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarilly,maybe she really loves u
it depends on the girl and ur realtionship
2006-09-14 16:29:33 · answer #8 · answered by rednilejewel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some would!! It depends on the person!
2006-09-14 16:25:58 · answer #9 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is true for most men
2006-09-14 16:28:08 · answer #10 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋