i have a man for 5 yrs. we have been living together for 2 months. he is so boring, he don't take me anywhere, don't want to have sex, don't wanna have conversations with me. when he comes home from work all he does is watch wrestling and i clean the house, take care of my 3 kids, and cook for us.. i need some attention. should i go out with one of my hot employees.
2006-09-14 08:59:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Are you married to this guy or just live with him? If you are not married then have him go on his way. You see how things are now that you are living together and are these your kids or his? I would not cheat on my man being married but there is no use staying with a guy that now you know what he is like now that you have lived together. But on your part also you should be there for your kids and not need to party alot but you do need a night to yourself every now and then too. Plan a nice time with this guy some night and get a sitter for the kids.. like a surprise date for the two of you. Sometimes we girls need to be the leader in this situation. Guys tend to get comfortable in there homes and become home bodies.
2006-09-14 09:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by bugjuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not. Try to open up the communication with him. You're far away so maybe start with sitting in front of the TV during the commercials to have his attention 2 min. Try to involve him with the kids or better involve them with him! Look, daddy is having fun watching TV... Unless you have a 24h wrestling channel, you may find some periods were he would be more open. Be sure not to put him on his gards, don't judge or point fingers but show him how you feel!
2006-09-14 16:05:52 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow you sound just like me! I was in this same situation all i can say is if you are not happy and after talking to him about things and he doesn't see a problem or chooses not to change then it's time to move on. Don't cheat though. It seems to me you won't be together for to much longer from what you are saying.
2006-09-14 17:07:17 · answer #3 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. In 20 years, I have never strayed.
You need to get into see a marriage counselor and start working on fixing the relationship. When you choose a marriage counselor, ask them if they are an advocate for marriage. If they answer yes enthusiastically, it's a good start.
2006-09-14 16:06:58 · answer #4 · answered by Otis F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him before you make a huge mistake, if he doesnt change his attitude towards you, threaten him with you leaving, if that doesn't work leave before you cheat on him.
If he finds out you cheated, all the blame will be on you regardless of him not caring for you. You know how it is.
Think straight, you dont want to disapoint your kids. I wouldnt want my kids to hate me for lying.
2006-09-14 16:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by natarrenata 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't cheat on my spouse. If I were you I would tell him how I feel and see what he thinks about it. Maybe he has a good explanation, or maybe he's seeing someone else. Find out.
2006-09-14 16:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by Dasja L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to cheat, you shouldn't be with the one you call your man. Don't be a deceiving hoe, just break up with him.
2006-09-14 16:02:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce/ separate first just for formality sake. . . .won't like to be a whore would you? You have three children remember that...By thee way, does this hottee have a girl
2006-09-14 16:07:57 · answer #8 · answered by she 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! i cant believe u wanna cheat....y not just talk to him about it? tell him what u need and want....if ur so unhappy leave him dont cheat.
2006-09-14 16:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by mr_fury666 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not!! leave the relationship. do not lower your self to that! be the bigger person and stand up for your self and what you and your children deserve.....
2006-09-14 16:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by NolaDawn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋