when he even looks in the direction of another female it makes me mad!!! is that normal.
2006-09-14 08:02:50 · 24 answers · asked by (_O_) ass after prison 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
of course b-cuz he should b payin attention 2 u n not other girl since u r his girlfriend!!!!right????
2006-09-14 08:05:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. The reason why you look mad is because you feel like you aren't good enough, that you aren't attracting your man to you like the other girls. Of course you want your guy looking at only you, doesn't always work that way though. What I say is "he can look, but can't touch", talk to your guy if it really makes you upset and see what he says when you confront him about checking out other ladies when you are together, and if he really cares about you and respects you, he'll stop or at least not do it when you are around. All guys do it though, but remember, he didn't choose some other girl, he chose you!
2006-09-14 15:06:50 · answer #2 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal? you mean for women or for a mature adult?
I'm not sexist. Women are inherently more insecure by nature. Can't argue that. There's healthy jealousy and there's unhealthy jealousy. Yours sounds like the bad kind. If you're so unsure of your man's loyalties then either he's giving you that vibe or you have issues. Do some self-reflection....see where your own insecurities stem from and work on them. That way when you feel jealous, you'll know it's him and not you.
2006-09-14 15:08:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as a symptom of insecurity. "you can look, but you can't touch" is a good old saying for a reason.
I draw the line at leering-my man can admire another woman-so could I. She's attractive. We both might notice. No big deal. I might notice a hot guy. No big deal. If he were to look( and stare) in a way that disrespects me, that's leering, and that's a different story.
2006-09-15 14:07:33 · answer #4 · answered by phoenixp_snbw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not normal. Alot of women are like that, but its rediculous and not normal. Thats like saying you would be perfectly happy if his eyes were gauged out but then the only problem with that, he couldn't look at you and see how pretty you are. Come on, he is with you.......... you getting mad at that is only you saying how insecure you are in yourself and believe me......... men find that annoying and very UNattractive. You want to lose him, you want him to run as far as he can get from you....... then stay that way, otherwise........ get you some self confidence and realize he is with you and you are worrying for nothing. Blessed be.
2006-09-14 15:07:12 · answer #5 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal (meaning most are like that). But it isn't healthy.
Your boyfriend will check out other girls. He just will. It doesn't man he finds them more attractive than you, or that he's planning on making a move on them. And if you get married to him, he will keep doing it. And if you break up with him and go out with someone else your new boyfriend will check out other girls to.
That's what guys do.
2006-09-14 15:06:52 · answer #6 · answered by Isaac H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a little crazy. Every man is aloud to look, but that's it. Are you saying that you never look at another guy?? If so, you're lying. Who cares about what he looks at, as long as he doesn't do anything. It just sounds like you are VERY insecure in yourself and your relationship to get that pissed off over something as trivial as looking.
2006-09-14 15:06:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is normal but not necessary men are programed different than girls.they will always look. some may even act on it some won't know your man.lighten up a bit.do you look. and it is rude anyways to look at other girls when your right there.ask him to look when your not around out of respect to you.
2006-09-14 15:08:55 · answer #8 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he checks them out you have the right to be totally mad but if he looks in their direction just tell yourself the only girl he wants is you
2006-09-14 15:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by carissa b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal, but don't freak out on him! Men are going to look, just ask him to do so tactfully. If he is rubbernecking in your presence then you should sit him down and tell him to knock it off!
2006-09-14 15:05:39 · answer #10 · answered by Jo G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
makes me mad to and if he is really looking at another female as in checking them out dump him that is a sign he will never be faithful and that you aint enought for him to look at
2006-09-14 15:09:55 · answer #11 · answered by Lauren D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋