The day after our engagement party, my fiance broke up with me and left me for her married boss. He has a wife and 3 small kids. She won't admit to me that she left me for someone else, but still wants to be friends. Its been a few months now and she has changed jobs and he has moved out of his house. I still love her and want to tell her that I still love her in hopes that one day she will wake up. Since the breakup she told me how she didn't realize how we did everything together and how she misses my family. I am a forgiving person but I have enough self-respect not to fall for this again. I have been out on a few dates but I don't get the same feeling I got with my ex. What should I do?
2006-09-14 08:02:22 · 10 answers · asked by b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
thats realyl tricky.. follow your heart is all i can say. make sure shes actually sorry if she comes back.. and forgive, but dont forget. you may have trust issues at first but if you really love her everything will be okay.
good luck
2006-09-14 08:05:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time will heal your damaged heart yet she have damaged your heart already, are not you afraid she will be able to broke your heart back?? So she do not ignore that she performed a stupid mistake and misses you, yet even as she left the 2d day it shows that she doesn't love you the way you want her and yet she is selfish... She did not even imagine two times about the way you want her and yet she left with a married guy with 3 little ones.. What does that allow you recognize??? i'm confident you in a state the position you're so perplexed.. There are issues that we may be able to forgive and there are issues that we received't forgive for hurting us.. She ought to understand merely because her personal little dream or affair end does no longer advise she come crawling back to you.... i desire even if you makes a call will make you satisfied... In my opioion you derserve so a lot more beneficial and a lady that fall in love with you thoroughly
2016-10-16 00:38:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal to still love her. You can love a person and not be with them. She walked out on the relationship and left you with unanswered questions... how do you go through with an engagement party one night and turn around the next saying you don't want to marry that person. She knew before then and her timing sucked! I feel sorry for you because it isn't an easy road whichever way you go.
2006-09-14 08:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her that you still love her. But don't make yourself sound needy. Let her have her space but also let her know that you still would like to try to work things out. If she decides that she does want to get back with you, make sure you tell her how you feel. That it will be hard for you to trust her again and that she needs to earn your trust. Good Luck
2006-09-14 08:09:04 · answer #4 · answered by amanda725_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres plenty more fish in the sea u may not feel gr8 at the moment but u will get over her! she ain't worth the bother
2006-09-14 08:05:57 · answer #5 · answered by Hazel t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait for her to make up her mind about what she wants in life and find out if she is still seeing her boss or ex boss
and good luck
2006-09-14 08:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by sunshine girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should forget her bec.she was never made for u and u should move ahead
2006-09-14 08:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by don 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it more time..it will get better....you don't need crap like that you need to be wanted, needed and loved in return...don't wait on her.. move on to someone willing to be all that and more..
2006-09-14 08:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by Ken and Wendy M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she a trifflin a s s heffer....u should move on buddy....its guna b hard....but worth it n the long run!!!
2006-09-14 08:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget her.
2006-09-14 08:04:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋