I do not feel comfortable with that, yet, I have agreed to it. A part of me is still not trusting her and I am imagining sex going on between both of them. Another part of me wants to trust her ao I've agreed to it eventhough the thought of it kills me.
Her take on it is that she feels a need to connect with her old friends...
2006-09-14 07:41:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I believe the only time one should connect w/ an ex if they have children w/ each other (for the purpose of the child)... the need for her to connect means that she still have unresolve issue to stay connected to this indivual.
To have a new relationship is to start anew, not to have what you use to have and expect you to except it .
I usually don't take sides but, I'm on your side w/ this one.
I don't know how long she separated w/ this person and how long you two been dating since the breakup. that does play a role for her need to stay connected, and the nature of her break up for her to be connect, but regardless of all that. I think that you should let her go, although it may be hard for you if feeling for her.
If she really into to you and love you and the relationship she has with you it would be just that.
it's her lost not yours....so move on to someone that will commit themselves to you....not to unresolve issue of their pastime......it's wrong...to stay
2006-09-14 08:14:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal? No it is not normal. Would she want you to keep a "platonic" relationship with your Ex?? She should be focusing all her attention and time on the relationship she has with you. He is "old news" or should be. Maybe you should rethink this relationship. Sounds like she is not over this person and this could eventually have a very negative influence on you. And just how much will she be seeing this person? Is this girl worth all the energy and discomfort she is causing you? Rethink this relationship. It sounds bleak, at best. Good luck!!
2006-09-14 08:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What she is asking is not normal or even reasonable. Tell her you have changed your mind, and if she insists on keeping a relationship going with her ex, dump her and find someone who likes and respects you. She doesn't seem to do so. Good luck.
Chow!!
2006-09-14 07:56:19 · answer #3 · answered by No one 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NEVER agree to something you not comfortable with.
Yes it is normal for women to have unrealistic expectations about their exes and want you to just deal with it.
Put your foot down and let her know it is NOT acceptable.
2006-09-14 07:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those friend relationships never work out. If she is honest and isn't doing him. she'll soon dump him completely. It's too easy to go back to familiar territory, if you know what I mean .
2006-09-14 07:51:02 · answer #5 · answered by joy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Remember that women attach emotionally to a man she has had sex with. This doesn't mean she is going to cheat on him with you... but it means that by virtue of having had sex... she feels close to him...
Its a hormonal thing.
2006-09-14 07:43:47 · answer #6 · answered by Use my Yahoo! Avatar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her, if you catch them cheating dump her.
2006-09-14 07:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her.
2006-09-14 07:52:08 · answer #8 · answered by laura_jean216 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
DO WHAT YOU FEEL IS COMFORTABLE TO YOU
2006-09-14 07:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Jack born 4/5/09 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh hell no
2006-09-14 08:47:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋