okay my ex boyfriend( dated 2 months) is trying desperatly to get custody of his kids from his ex wife.the thing is we were dating and he dumped me bcuz he was not ready to date and have a relationship ( although he told me he loved me and we were taking marraige ) well a week after he stopped dating me he is no0w dating a nother woman .( he suffers major depression and i do not think he was playing me i think he was honest) but now this drastic change came over him he is lying to me ,he is dating a woman who is bi sexual he is a very religous man and so are his kids the oldest (14) hates gays and think they are not huiman and deserve to not live ( not my thoughts ) but a clash of beliefs .he wants custody of these kids and i am afraid for him that this relationship is going to hurt him and his chances of getting custody( the relationship he didnt have on sat this past week but now has yesterday and they are soulmates .) i am worried for him cuz i know he is emotionally weak
2006-09-14 06:42:55 · 3 answers · asked by blackfoot124 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i am hoping he doest lose his kids but the drastic change in his ways to me is an alert to a very big problem he is in counseling and on many meds to not be depressed he has major panic attacks to the point of blacking out.i am scared for him and for the kids they want to bew with daddy but i know the sons do not like the moms boyfriend i just worry this relationship is going to hurt his chance and his relationship with his kids i dont want it to he is a good person and i am not writeing this cuz i am jealous i am over it i am moving on life is to short to dwell .i am just worried about it but like i ask do you think it will hurt his chances and could he be going through some kind of mental aspect of the depression
2006-09-14 06:46:50 · update #1
his wife left him for another man ,well the religon is true he is very religous but i think the depression and stuff is geting to him i am moving on and letting go but i just worry about the kids cuz they are going through hell already i honestly think he is a train wreck ready to happen it wont take much i think to make it happen .i am a worrier by nature and i am getting therapy my self for major depression .i thin k by posting the question i can work it out of my system a lil more( the worry)
2006-09-14 07:11:07 · update #2
you are so kind to think about the kids and his feelings but honey you have to think about you .He will not hear you if he is in love and then you have to ask your self is it love or do he just want to have sex? i mean if he was such a religous man why did he leave his wife,?and why would he date an bi woman ?you have to ask your self that ?
2006-09-14 06:57:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, stop worrying about him and his damage, you need to focus on finding you a man that's not so dysfunctional.
Never look back when you leave a relationship, just move forward.
2006-09-14 06:46:04 · answer #2 · answered by live2ride 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it easly get back with
2006-09-14 06:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋