We just broke up becuz it seemed as if everything just went haywire. No infidelity. Its just like we cant stand one another anymore. What should I do? Besides talking it out.
2006-09-11 13:17:15 · 7 answers · asked by SexyBrazilianBrina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Things fall apart because communitcation stops and also because people bring expectations into the relationship. When expectations are not met, people get disheartened which in turn can shut them down or set them of into nagging. You can talk things out now but both of you would have to be honest and admit whatever expectations you both brought into the relationship, otherwise, it's like pushing sh!t up hill with a toothpick. Everyone has unmet needs, it's just how you react to those needs being unmet that counts. No one is perfect and it's not up to you to fulfil your partners every wish, thought, demand and vise versa. When two people can come together and acknowledge that neither one is perfect and that at some point down the track, you will let each other down and that's it's ok for mistakes and differences in personalities to live in the relationship, then you can be accepting of each other, but the two of you have to go back to step one and be honest about your hopes for the future. Good Luck :)
2006-09-11 13:30:06 · answer #1 · answered by Linda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try counseling. But you can't make anyone love you. Talk it out and see where it goes, but counseling may be the only way to find out truly why things went haywire.
2006-09-11 13:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by KB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Counseling
2006-09-11 13:18:51 · answer #3 · answered by lol_des 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens when your not right for one another. Think of it as a blessing and move on. You said it yourself, "we can't stand one another anymore." Best to move on with your life now. Good luck.
2006-09-11 15:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by older&wiserforit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should just let him go. Sometimes things like this happens. You love the person but your just not in love anymore. Take this a life lesson.
2006-09-11 13:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by elementsoflife06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People just grow apart. What do you want to do? Do you want to try and save it because if you can't stand one another, what is the use.
2006-09-11 13:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by sarah071267 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him and come with me.
2006-09-11 13:18:46 · answer #7 · answered by oscar_8x8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋