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Cruelty to animals or children- mistreats or abuses children or
animals, thinks cruelty to animals or children is funny, brags about
this mistreatment, sees nothing wrong with this kind of behavior.
Verbal abuse- calls you names, puts you down, threatens you, makes
fun of you alone or in front of others, tries to make you look
stupid in front of others, criticizes you, puts down things or
people you like, talks to you in a way that is not respectful.
Believes in traditional gender roles- believes men should be in
control and powerful and women should be passive and submissive,
believes the man should always pay for the dates, believes men
should be the decision makers, sees men as more important than women.
Has a past history of battering- has a history of bad relationships
and always blames the other partner for all the problems, has been
physically, emotionally or sexually abusive in past relationships,
has a history of fighting.
Threatens you with violence- does she/he scare you? does she/he
break, strike or throw objects? does she/he own weapons? does she/he
make threats of hurting you or those you love? does she/he use fear
to control you? does she/he use threats of violence toward
him/herself to control you?
Use of force during an argument- does she/he physically restrain you
from leaving when you want to or from doing what you want? does
she/he punch, kick, bite, slap, pinch, hit, or throw you? does
he/she hurt your pets or things important to you to get at you
during an argument? does she/he stand in an intimidating manner
(tower over you etc.) during an argument? does she/he not give you a
chance to say anything during an argument?
2006-09-11 08:16:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
i have 3 biological kids and 4 adopted kids and none have ever tried to smack at me. they werent cruel to the animals. if they tower over you, pick something up and use it.
i stand 5 2 and my son is 6 4 and i didnt put up with it. now that they are grown, they still know better than to yell at me or try to smack at me or hit the animals.
i think that the problem is that the government has taken away parental rights away and you arent allowed to spank them anymore. and i specify spank and not beat. there is a big difference.
you have to get control one way or another. apparently you lost control for a while and its not going to be easy to get it back. being a parent is not being a friend. its being the bad guy most of the time. say what you mean and mean what you say and stick with it. no matter how hard it is sometimes.
2006-09-11 08:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by lodeemae 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!! Any type of abuse is unacceptable. If you are trying to become a parent, find someone who respects you and who would enjoy raising a child with you. And if you are already a parent leave for the sake of the child.
2006-09-11 08:21:04 · answer #2 · answered by smurfette6183 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so my question to you is why are you even asking this question, I'm sure you are fully aware of the answer already....there is no excuse and no one deserves such treatment...if this is coming from your spouse pack his belongings and leave them on the driveway....if it is your child, a few weeks in Juvenal hall might fix the problem
2006-09-11 08:59:57 · answer #3 · answered by chereeder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why was this posted under two different nicknames?
2006-09-11 08:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by AlongthePemi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please get your child help if he or she is hurting animals this is a sign of a psychologial problem get them help before they grow up to be a psycho murderer
2006-09-11 08:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by dreamgirl4myboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still with him..If you stay there then it's your own fault..GET OUT..
2006-09-11 08:31:32 · answer #6 · answered by Just Dreamin' 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him or her sent to the montel show or maury show
2006-09-11 08:20:08 · answer #7 · answered by Mark 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋