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Cruelty to animals or children- mistreats or abuses children or
animals, thinks cruelty to animals or children is funny, brags about
this mistreatment, sees nothing wrong with this kind of behavior.
Verbal abuse- calls you names, puts you down, threatens you, makes
fun of you alone or in front of others, tries to make you look
stupid in front of others, criticizes you, puts down things or
people you like, talks to you in a way that is not respectful.
Believes in traditional gender roles- believes men should be in
control and powerful and women should be passive and submissive,
believes the man should always pay for the dates, believes men
should be the decision makers, sees men as more important than women.
Has a past history of battering- has a history of bad relationships
and always blames the other partner for all the problems, has been
physically, emotionally or sexually abusive in past relationships,
has a history of fighting.
Threatens you with violence- does she/he scare you? does she/he
break, strike or throw objects? does she/he own weapons? does she/he
make threats of hurting you or those you love? does she/he use fear
to control you? does she/he use threats of violence toward
him/herself to control you?
Use of force during an argument- does she/he physically restrain you
from leaving when you want to or from doing what you want? does
she/he punch, kick, bite, slap, pinch, hit, or throw you? does
he/she hurt your pets or things important to you to get at you
during an argument? does she/he stand in an intimidating manner
(tower over you etc.) during an argument? does she/he not give you a
chance to say anything during an argument?
2006-09-11 08:09:01 · 8 answers · asked by confused j 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
wow, u ask the questions u already have the answer to, get out of it leave and don't look back cause it never gets better until the person admits that he/she has a problem and gets help. DO NO CONTINUE TO BE THIS PERSONS DOORMAT!!! run as fast as u can.
2006-09-11 08:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by ndemby05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you put up with it if you know it's not going to stop? You only get what you deserve. It is up to you take control of your own life, be your own boss. No one can treat you better than you treat yourself.
2006-09-11 08:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Branded with the Dark Mark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE LEAVE LEAVE. and if u love him LEAVE. I know it is hard I was in the same place u are and I got out and have now found a GOOD man and have got married to him. I know u say u love him but u are to scared to leave their are to many things that u can do to get away. PLEASE LEAVE HIM U DON"T NEED THIS.
2006-09-11 08:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by hfleming_05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this a qustion or are you just posting your thoughts on abuse?
2006-09-11 08:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the question? are you saying that you're in this type of relationship? if so, get out. if not, what are you asking?
2006-09-11 08:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by JuJitsu_Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... it will never stop. And who knows why you put up with it... only you can change it.
2006-09-11 08:21:44 · answer #6 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what was the question
2006-09-11 10:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand?!?
2006-09-11 08:12:31 · answer #8 · answered by .vato. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋