ppl...my gal s really not comfortable having sex...but i feel it really difficult wid out sex...i just don know wats wrong..i have been asking her ...but the only answer she give's is...'' I DON KNOW ''...ppl..plz help me...wid this...gals out there plz do tel me wat might be the reason...?and do gimme suggestions
2006-08-29 08:01:40 · 14 answers · asked by get_rich_or_die_try'n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If she won't put it out in the nasty manner you want move on or you will be spankin' your own monkey in a few years while the brats tear up the living room.
Learning English would be good though.
2006-08-29 08:21:30 · answer #1 · answered by BadAdvice 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she might think that all you want is sex. That might be the only reason. If you beg she will get the picture. Make it romantic. Some thing that she will be into. You either love her or lust for her either way make it some thing that she will want just as much as you do. You have to show her that your not only out for a good time that you want to make her feel as good as you do. LIke try taking her out to nice places dont ask for sex. Just a kiss on the fore heard. Leave her wondering. Be romantic. When you think she is ready take her out to a really romantic place where you two are completly alone. Resite some poetry and start kissing her on the forehead then the cheaks. Try to get her to start kissing you as well. If she kisses you then she is ready. For the time being because this might take a while just masterbate. You can't let her know you have any sexual desire for her.
2006-08-29 08:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by unkown 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is not comfortable or ready so be a gentleman and back off.
If sex is more important to you then your girlfriend's feelings, then quit pressuring her and leave her to a guy who will respect her feelings.
If you really care about her, then realize that sex isn't everything and you have your whole life ahead of you to enjoy it. Sex isn't as great as it may seem. She may only be doing it to please you and she may be torn up inside. This will scar her for life and she will always look at men the same. You need to be nurturing and give her the space she needs. When she is ready, she will come to you, but ONLY IF YOU STOP PRESSURING HER.
You sound really young yourself. Why do you want to have sex so bad - peer pressure, are all of your buddies doing it?
There are other things in life besides sex. What about highshool? What about what you want to do with your life? Don't you enjoy her company? Do you enjoy movies or sports? What about picnics or hanging out with your friends? She needs to feel that you care for her. Right now you are giving her the impression that you only want her for sex and that you don't care about her at all. I guaruntee she will open up to you if you treat her like a friend, like a girl, like someone who is important to you.
Lay of the sex. Tug the snake, watch dirty movies. Enjoy kissing and cuddling with her. Show her that you care for her so much that you will wiat until she is ready. And when she is the sex will be 100 times better than you could imagine because she will want it as much as you do.
2006-08-29 08:35:23 · answer #3 · answered by microgrl_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you have to take the time to teach her. She's probably just shy...I went through it and I'm ok now. Some women are like cars, warm them up before you drive them too hard....coax her out of her shell, and she'll be your little wildcat~
2006-08-29 08:06:17 · answer #4 · answered by shynomore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop being a p*ssy
If she won't put out, move on
Remember the simple rules:
1. Bang her by the 3rd date
2. Leave her
3. Move on to the next chick
4. Get in her panties
5. Repeat steps 1 - 4
2006-08-29 08:03:31 · answer #5 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Maybe you interpretation of the English lanuage turns her off.
2006-08-29 08:03:38 · answer #6 · answered by yummymummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just not comfortable. You can either wait until she is or move on.
2006-08-29 08:05:27 · answer #7 · answered by Lexy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is she a virgin ????
&& how long have ya'll been together???
not all girls just give it to anyone
if u really wanna b wit her then wait
and it will happen on its own
STOP ASKING
cuz then she wont give it
2006-08-29 08:08:38 · answer #8 · answered by shinodaluv 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
may be she wants to wait and see if you are not going to leave her right after you do it to her
2006-08-29 08:06:30 · answer #9 · answered by brookie1977m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a life...and learn how to spell!!
2006-08-29 08:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by Jus call me "BUBS" 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋