I want to overcome my fear I want experienced answers and the real life issues behind hidden fetishes!! What to do from asking him to how what to use and when it stops hurting!!! please serious answers only!!
2006-08-25 03:44:45 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you probably werent relaxed enough the first time because you weren't ready. Also, you'll need extra lube as well. If you're comfortable with your partner, just bring it up and ask him if he's interested. If you don't think you can just come out and ask, say it in the heat of the moment and if he's not interested, you can just say that it was "sex talk". Most likely, he'll be into it as well though.
Good luck, and remember to relax.
2006-08-25 03:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by Mandy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Use a lot of lube and make sure you talk to your partner about it he can take his time which may help out some too then also it helps if you have the agreement that if it hurts you to bad that both of you stop. When it starts to hurt ask him to hold still till you become accustomed to it and for you to let him know when to go further. If it hurts really bad don't make the mistake and yank him out of you that hurts even worse then to just keep going in my opinion
2006-08-25 14:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by anon a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL!!! THE THE ANAL SEX....?
First of all u have to be ready for it.Don't do it ur being pressured.
Secondly u HAVE to be RELAXED. Tell him that he has to talk to u while he is trying to enter u.
Third use a oil base substance like pure coco butter or baby oil for easy entry.LOTS OF IT!!
Last butt lol. not least breath out every time as he tries to (force) push/put it in. It will hurt but it gets better!!!
Make sure he washes after ur done!
P.S.
remember to relax, breath, u try to control the entry and lots of oil/coco butter (KY/anal ease doesn't work) soft music!
GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-08-25 11:06:07 · answer #3 · answered by dj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to prepare yourself is to do it yourself a few times,use something smaller than your hubby...or use your finger's and plenty of ky jelly for lube both inside and out..it could get messy be prepared for that..take it real slow and only take what is comfortable then progress slowly..it will take your breath and make you go oooooo aaaaa until your spincter gets used to being stretched but it is worth it,an anal orgasm is much more intense...enjoy..ps.never go vaginal from anal for health reasons.
2006-08-25 11:27:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use KY gel, have your man lube you up real well. Then have him slide it in.
You can't force two dry things together without some kind of friction. But the gel (jelly) will lube you up nice, and it would feel much more pleasantly for you......wish I was your man.
2006-08-25 10:50:43 · answer #5 · answered by John M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i used to want to try lol but my friend was tellin me how it can make it where u cant control when u go to the bathroom (sorry its nasty but u asked) n stuff like i guess if u do it wrong or sumthin but i heard it was real good and i wanna try at least once...but its gonna hurt like hell..so ive heard and ur not gonna be able to do nuthin boutthat its like havin sex the first time its gonna hurt ur stretchin
2006-08-25 10:49:55 · answer #6 · answered by dixie_gurl872005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you do talk to your doctor about all the related health problems that you could face in doing that. It's not healthy, and if your boy friend isn't happy with the correct hole then where will his perversions end?
2006-08-26 01:17:00 · answer #7 · answered by AirborneSaint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lotsolube and patience....you can't just jump in there and start bangin....it must be a gradual, and slow process. the giver needs to really try and understand, give time for the receiver to adjust. If this is done right it can be interesting
2006-08-25 10:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by l00kstwice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ain't nothing u can do.. it's gonna keep hurting until ur anal canal is stretched to fit his penis comfortably like a vagina... use some ky jelly, tell him to go really slow, and do not enter u completely....
i've tried it to... it hurt like a mother and that was the last time...
2006-08-25 10:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need someone with patience and a good numbing cream. Try anal ease.
2006-08-25 10:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by kitty cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋