My boyfriend and I live together and we love each other very much. We're having a baby in March and things couldn't be better with our relationship. Here's the thing... everytime I have a dream about him, it's always a bad dream. Either I'm mad at him or he's cheating on me or breaking up with me. I don't get it. I'm so happy with him but my dreams aren't. Can anyone help me with this?
2006-08-25 03:26:39 · 12 answers · asked by kate92979 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
More than likely your under alot of stress. Your pregnant and your worst fear is your boyfriend leaving you and your stuck raising the baby all by yourself. Thats why you have dreams like that. It's nothing to worry about, well unless it actually happens. but if he loves you enouph he wont leave you :)
GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-08-25 03:41:57 · answer #1 · answered by Proud2bgoth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is nothing. You can look in a 'dream book', but from what I gather, you are afraid that maybe the baby will tear you two apart, or make you fight more. It's normal, everyone has that fear deep in their subconsious, as havving a baby is a very big step.
Just take some time out of your day and talk to your guy. Make sure you have everything, and you both are physically and metally ready for this baby.
Good luck
2006-08-25 03:30:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would guess that you have some unresolved trust issues. My first instinct would be that those issues are with him (how is his record?) and then with the Male Role Models in your life. It would be normal, if you grew up seeing your mom not ever having a committed relationship, to be fearful of that pattern continuing in your life.
When we dream the same dream or same type of dream over and over that means there is something there.
Here is a question for you.....
If you "love" eachother very much then why aren't you married? Doesn't your baby deserve to be born into a marriage with committed parents? A husband and wife?
Maybe the answer to that holds the answer to your original question...
Best of luck babe :)
2006-08-25 03:47:42 · answer #3 · answered by Ponderpink 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there is a deep feeling in your subconscious that makes you think that now that you're pregnant your boyfriend will leave you because he can't take the responsibilities. It's normal to be insecure of yourself when you have a good relationship. You feel that you don't deserve it and often imagine that you are being used. These feelings are expressed in dreams and because of your pregnancy there could be some side that make these dreams. Congratulations by the way.
2006-08-25 03:33:57 · answer #4 · answered by Faust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A person’s life is full of dreams. Dream can be about one’s ambition which he gets fulfilled with the passage of time thru his own hard work, intelligence, good planning and with the blessings of Almighty. Another is day dreaming which is really not a good habit and can be controlled with one’s will power. But what about the dreams a person experiences during sleep. Do they hv effect in our real life? What do they mean? What is their interpretation? The person asks to his friends, elders and seniors in his social circle. Sometimes he gets satisfactory reply and sometimes not. These days Internet is a rich source of information. So one does not need to depend on others for one’s dream interpretation. The Yahansmaniac Community member suggests the following.
http://dream-interpretation.readabout.net/
http://www.psychicguild.com/dream.php
http://www.insightful-dream-interpretation.info/dream-interpretation-free.html
http://www.edgarcayce.org/dreams/freedreaminterpretation.asp
http://www.spiritcommunity.com/free-dream-interpretation.htm
http://www.handresearch.com/hand/Evolutie/dream-interpretation.htm
http://www.dreamdoctor.com/
http://www.divinedivination.com/dreams.html
http://www.dream-guru.com/free-dream-interpretation.html
http://www.dreammoods.com/
http://www.spiritcommunity.com/
http://www.network54.com/Forum/106909/
Please visit the above pages to find the interpretation of ur dreams and to satisfy ur different queries about dreams. I hope, it helps u.
2006-08-25 18:57:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When things are very good I think we sometimes worry about whether they are going to stay that way or not. That is probably the cause of your bad dream. Don't let the dream worry you.
2006-08-25 03:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by Jabberwock 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one your pregnant so your hormones and brain patterns are off. Females tend to worry more as well in there dreams. Pick up a dream analysis book it will tell you all about your dreams and dream patterns.
2006-08-25 03:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by DeaconFrost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe youre scared about the baby,afraid it may change thngs between you. You know your hormones are all over the place right now,I think deep down your just nervous,its natural to be nervous,even though things are great between you sometimes our inner fears come out in dreams.
2006-08-25 03:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of time when we dream, we dream about our biggest fears happening. ie.. like cheating, breaking up. No need to worry..
2006-08-25 03:29:25 · answer #9 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably wishes you treated him somehow differently. Your current way of treating him might seem nice to others or to you, but I dont think thats what he wants. Ask his friends or relatives about him.
2006-08-25 03:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by acnexus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋