My crush at school moved. I have been really sad lately because I miss him so much! It's been like 2 or 3 months now but I really miss him. He wasn't my bf but he told me that he liked me. We couldn't go out because he told me on the last day of school. I don't know what to do because he was my life. He was the one. Sometimes when I here certain songs I just start to cry. Plus I see him everywhere so that doesn't help! School just won't be the same without him. I sure am gonna miss his smile and laugh:( My friends don't really understand but he was truely the coolest guy in school to me.
I know that some of you are gonna be soo cruel and just say suck it up but I've already tried. Do any of you have tips to help me feel better. I bet some of you have gone through the same.
Thxx
2006-08-24 15:22:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
girl, i feel your pain, i had a super huge crush on this guy, but i was the one who ended up leaving, and him and me liked eachother. but you know what i did, i never let go, i did move on, i did go out with someone else, but you know what, im still in love with him, because he litterally was the man of my dreams. the best advice i can give you is to litterally pray to god that you and him can meet again. try this, go to one of his old friends and ask him for his number or e-mail, or anything to everything of a way to contact him. never let go of the man you love, esspecially if he is the perfect man.
god bless you girl, i will pray for you too, and if my advice works, let me know!
2006-08-24 15:33:06 · answer #1 · answered by angela k 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh my gosh. yes I went thru the very same thing a few years ago in middle school. I went 2 a private school that went all the way up 2 the 12th grade and there was this guy that I had a huge crush on. @ 1 point I thought he might have liked me but I was 2 scared 2 talk 2 him. I had been @ that school for 6 years and I was leaving then so that was my last year. That had been his first year so that was the only year I got 2 go 2 school w/ him. Like u r now I was so heartbroken. I felt like such a loser 4 being so upset about it 4 so long (I was upset 4 like a year and this happened back in 2003.) but let me tell u somethin. don't feel like a loser like I did. u r not a loser no matter what anyone might tell u he just meant a lot 2 u. but understand that it is possible 2 get ur life back. do things that r really fun and hey maybe u'll try out some new things and discover a new talent u never knew u had. but yes I went thru this b4 and I'm not depressed about him anymore. and I haven't seen him since and I don't even have a crush on him anymore even tho it seemed at the time that he was the only 1 for me like u said. so yes it is possible 2 move on. Now I'm having another situation kinda like that w/ another guy=( but hey someday I'll get over this 2. u can email me and u can talk 2 me more if u want. hope I can help.
2006-08-24 22:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by 77684 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a lot older but still have trouble losing a girl. Losing someone you really like is hard. It feels like being rejected. The best thing to do is to get involved with activities to help get your mind off him. This will give you an opportunity to meet new people. There might be somebody better that you miss because you are wanting somebody you can't have anymore. It is hard but you are young and will have many other chances. I fell for a lady who was flirting with me like crazy, was told she loved me to death. She got told she could not go out with me because she worked at my doctors office. I have not recovered yet but she got pregnant 5 months later and is married now with a child. Some people get on with there life while some people don't move on and hurt forever. Don't be the one who hurts forever.
2006-08-24 22:31:33 · answer #3 · answered by marissa'sman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you keep in contact with him? Do you have his address/e-mail address? Have you heard from him? If this relationship is meant to be, both parties need to be making an effort to keep in touch, keep building on the relationship. If that's not happening, then my suggestion would be to get busy at school, after school activities, write in a journal every day, be open to making new friends of both sexes, basically know that you're a good person, worthy of love, and that you will find the right people to fill your life with love and fun when the time comes!
2006-08-24 22:31:54 · answer #4 · answered by maxamillion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i do understand that feeling. in time that feeling will subside but until then when youre down just think about all the good times you both had together. maybe someday you two can meet up again think about that. Do you have his address, if so write him stay in touch that always helps too. Give it time, dont forget him just take sometime and hang with your other friends and maybe they can help you feel better. goodluck take care:)
2006-08-24 22:32:38 · answer #5 · answered by star63_19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sadness is for the loss of someone you liked. While he did not die, you are feeling empty because he is gone. I suggest phone calls, IM's, perhaps even a visit. If he is truly the "one", that will stand the test of distance. Keep in contact as much as you can, but spend time with friends and enjoy that.
2006-08-24 22:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by united9198 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I highly doubt that he was "the one" for you. You really need to get over it honey, he's gone. It will be extremely difficult to hold a relationship with him anyway. Just move on to other guys who are within your reach. If you give it some time and other guys a chance, you'll forget about him and be much happier.
2006-08-24 22:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww thats sad! My crush moved to to quebec and Ill never see him again and when I hear certaine songs I cry to. But if it helps just try to think of some happy memories of him when u saw him at school or when he talked to it works for me. I hope this helps:(
2006-08-24 22:27:16 · answer #8 · answered by Hockey gurl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I sort of know what you are going through, i don't have any classes with my friends, so that made me sort of depressed. Eventually you just forget about it. I'm not trying to say you should just forget about this person, but maybe you will find someone that means alot more to you. i hope that made you feel better.
2006-08-24 22:28:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i love my girl with all my heart, however, we can't really be together because her parents hate my guts. we've had to deal with this a lot. she's also fixing to move to the opposite side of the state.
can't you call him???
if you don't KNOW his #, can't you look it up? you do know his name, right?
do you do a diary or anything?? if so/not, you might consider doing one for/about him. how you felt, if you saw him, if you got to talk to him... and so on.
just because he doesn't go to your same school anymore... DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING!!!! if he's still in the city (or country for that matter) you can still be with him! you said he likes you back? get in contact with him... he'll love to do something with you!
btw, me and my Lover do the same thing with songs!
- Silence Dogood
2006-08-24 22:33:36 · answer #10 · answered by Silence Dogood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋