we were having a conversation which i tot was going well the n he hung up the phone...i sent him a text later that i was pissed since i did nothing wrong, he said he was sorry but he tot i dictated the trend of the converstiona and that i kept chenging the topic to suit me....im still mad at him. why? is he right?
2006-08-18 01:58:33 · 20 answers · asked by buzzbuzz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He is right, sorry hun.
2006-08-18 02:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by M S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, hanging up on you without letting you know is rude.
If he didn't want to listen and hung up on you, I would not have sent him a text message indicating your displeasure. He did apologize, so he does deserve some credit.
As for you being mad? Unfortunately he might be a little more right than you think, except hanging up the way he did. Make sure when you share conversation that both of you are heard and both of you have the opportunity to speak.
Sounds like you both have alot to talk about, and if you both mutually apologize, things might get mapped out pretty quickly and things will get back to the way they were!
Stay connected... Best of luck!
2006-08-18 09:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you are not a good listener? Some folks want to dictate conversation. It's more interesting to talk about themselves, they don't make the other person really FEEL their conversation is worthy of your time.
Perhaps you do change the subject when things get boring, the conversation is about him, or you talk too much about things that bore him.
Perhaps he is wrong for you and you need someone who is more into you, your feelings.
But honestly, in a relationship, it's good to learn to look at YOURSELF. Are you asking too much or expecting too little?
Good luck darlin!
2006-08-18 09:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by WriterMom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he was hanging up on you because you kept changing the topic of conversation to suite you I suggest you have a look at yoruself you may find this is something you have done for a while and he is sick of it
2006-08-18 09:03:56 · answer #4 · answered by ozi_nut 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From this perspective, your boyfriend is at the wrong side because he could stop your conversation and tell you that you kept changing topics instead of hanging up...that's rude. Ask him to just stop whenever you're doing that and tell you directly instead of hanging up. Best of luck!
2006-08-18 09:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe if you would let him get a word in edgewise then he wouldn't hang up the phone. Maybe instead of running your mouth 24/7 you should shut your mouth and open your ears. Its not all about you all the time.
2006-08-18 09:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by Jacko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not right when he just hung up without telling you why! he should have been honest that he doesn't want the flow of the conversation anymore! anyway, i suggest, you just have to forgive him for i guess, right now, that incident is not a big deal for him now! remember, he's a man! i don't think, you want to gain wrinkles just because of that! cheer up!
2006-08-18 09:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by xieri 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey twin.. well of course ur the right one.. no matter what was the conversation about he should have never hung up on u.. thats plain lame..and next time dont text him.. lol me sarcastic.. and call him back and say "Sorry i hung up by accident" i bet he'll get piss... lol
2006-08-18 09:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by PrincessJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your boyfriend had something that he wanted to say, and you continued to monopolize the topic or the conversation -- so, he didn't get the opportunity -- and got fed up with it.
2006-08-18 09:05:57 · answer #9 · answered by Brian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why you're still mad at him. He is not "right". You both might want to think about the question of whether you'd rather be right, or be happy. Sometimes you have to choose one or the other.
2006-08-18 09:03:29 · answer #10 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since what you're concerned with is who's right or wrong, rather than how you've hurt him, I'm just going to assume that you're as egocentric as it sounds like you are and say that he's right.
2006-08-18 09:04:31 · answer #11 · answered by Maverick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋