IM 22 is a 37 year old man too old for me??

Answer 1

no! because women mature faster than men. so even though he is 15 years older than you in years in mind yall are the same age! i'm 29 and my husband is 47 truth,love and honesty are all you need to make it work no matter what the age!

Answer 2

Yes, think of it this way. If you are just wanting to date him and get him to buy you stuff, like a house and some diamonds, (assuming you are a woman you will say yes to this) then kick him to the curb after you've got what you wanted, then go for it. If, on the other hand, you are not a TRUE WOMAN and you want a man you can spend the rest of your life with and have kids and all that, then how old will he be when you are 35?...50 yep you got it, and when you are 50?...65 yep you got it and when you are 65, now remember you have just retired....80! Good Job, when you are going to start enjoying your golden years he's going to be bed ridden, think of the grandchildren.

Thats only assuming that you are even looking for that kind of relationship, and considering that you are 22, then I doubt it. So, I say go for the relationship, swindle him out of his life savings and dump him for the pool boy. Take half of his money and assets and destroy his trust and his dignity then sue for full custody of the only thing that he can look at the relationship and be thankful for, and don't let him actually see his kids on his weekends.

Then when he's broken, dirty, drunk and ready to end it all, call him up and tell him your new lover, by this time you would be on the 27th guy since him, has so much more to offer you and the kids and so you are moving to Europe and if he ever wants to see his kids again, he needs to grow some wings.

You know that old story...

Answer 3

Sorry if this look s familiar...

Look at some of the answers on here, some guys seem to be a bit immature, hence why woman tend to go out with older guys, as they know how to treat a woman, and have lived enough to decide what they do and don't want from a relationship.

I really wouldn't place importance on your ages! I started seeing a guy years ago, and we totally hit it off. I was 20 at the time, and guessed that he was in his late 20's from the fact he was a complete babe and looked quite young and from some on the things he said . How wrong was I?! As it turned out, he was 14 years older than me. However, but that time I found out, I had already decided he was the guy for me, and his age was not an issue at all. Four and a half years on, and we are still together. My friends and family have been completely behind us throughout, and I have never made a huge deal over our age gap, and everyone who knows us knows how happy we are together.


If you are both happy, your age shouldn't matter x

Answer 4

Depends on what each of your motivations are, honey. Does he want you because you're young? Do you want him cause he has money? Is he married; children? Have a room mate? Living with his mother? Generally, women your age will get bored with a guy 15 years older because, socially, you don't have alot in common and that means alot in the long run. But you know, if you're just dating the guy, no big deal. You might learn something. But I'd be careful about "giving it up". By the time you're 37, you are usually committed in some sort of way in a relationship. Good Luck.

Answer 5

Not if you are ready for a relationship with a 37 year old man. If he's a bachelor though - he probably likes it that way, so just see it for what it is! If he's divorced with kids, consider the baggage that comes along with that too! There's no right or wrong answer here - only you know if your ready for this.

Good luck.

Answer 6

my husband is 19 years older than me i was only 21 when we met we have been together 8 years now and age has never been a problem there is only one major thing we had 2 talk about and that was children he felt he was 2 old but we now have 2 girls aged 2 and 3 and everything is fine if u love each other than age will not matter

Answer 7

DO YOU THINK HE IS TOO OLD FOR YOU? You are an adult now, so only you can deicded what is good for you.

im 20 and my husband is 32, we have been together 7 years and married for 4, yes i know i was young and he was the bad older man, but we have proved to everyone wrong we also have 2 beautiful daughters, and our marriage is stronger than ever!

i wish you luck and if you need advice, dont hesitate to contact me!

Answer 8

You're an adult, if you feel comfortable with this man and he RESPECTS you, then date him. That's what being single is all about, dating people, breaking up, etc. You can learn from this guy and he from you.

When I was 19 I dated a 40 year old woman and had a blast. I strongly encourage people to date a bunch when they're single . . .

good luck and have fun!!!!

Answer 9

It depends. If you just want a fling, why not. If you are thinking of a real relationship, keep in mind that by the time you are 30, he will be 45. Five years after that you will be in your mid thirties and he will be over 50. When you hit 50, he will be retired. When you retire, he will most likely be dead.

Answer 10

Hard to say without knowing you both, and what you have done with your life so far.

I'm 36 and have a friend thats just 21. I would consider her too young for me as we are at different stages of our lives. I've been married, and she's had one boyfriend since 17.

There's no saying it would or wouldnt be a bad thing, but it's a real challenge to any relationship, especially when you reach the killer question - When to have children!

Answer 11

Well now that you are adult the age thing isnt an issue unless of course your like that Anna Nicole Smith and marry some old geiser worth billions. Other than that i hope he has alot of patience because young adult females are still pretty immature.