I have a court mediation soon. I am plantiff. Who does the most talking? Lawyers or me?

Answer 1

your lawyer will do most of the talking, don't volunteer any answers, speak only when your lawyer tells you to, and only answer the question... nothing further.... good luck!

Answer 2

It depends on the mediator.

When I do mediation, I only let the actual parties speak. If they want to consult with their attorneys, that's fine, as long as the attorneys don't disrupt the process.

The goal of mediation is to have the parties reach a resolution that is acceptable to both of them, a "win-win" solution. Too few attorneys are taught to think in those terms, and as a result, attorneys can sometimes interfere with the mediation process.

The process of mediation is to allow each party to express what is important to them, and to get past the emotional entrenchment that usually results from such a conflict. Once they can separate themselves (and the other party) from the issues, they can address the actual issues without getting wrapped up in the emotional turmoil again.

Then, by identifying the goals of each party, the mediator can help the parties craft a solution that addresses as many of both parties' goals as possible. A solution that both parties can live with. It doesn't always work. But that's the objective.

Once the agreement has been sketched out, that's when the lawyers become useful, to evaluate the agreement from their client's legal perspective before it is signed.

But as I said, each mediator has their own style. Court mediators sometimes defer more to the lawyers because of their shared legal background.

Either way, the mediator will lay out the rules at the start of the session, and you can always ask questions if you have any concerns. The mediator is there to help you reach a solution that you are comfortable with, not to tell you what to do.

Answer 3

It depends on your situation, if your case involves a lot of money, I mean enough money that you can't afford to get the short end of the stick in this deal, then by all means, get a lawyer, not necessarily one for litigation but maybe just for counsel. If it's an amount that can be settled in a small claims court, than you might be better off dealing with it yourself and not have to worry about any legal fees.

Answer 4

its always best to let the lawyers talk. they kno the lingo and are there to help u. but if u really feel u need to say something then ask the judge if u can speak on ur own behalf after ur lawyer is done or if u think they didnt do a good job at explaining ur side. cuz they hate rude people.

Answer 5

If you've hired a good attorney, he or she will do the most talking. Be sure you meet with him/her well in advance so they can advise you of what to expect when the court date comes up. Always keep you eyes on your attorney while in court too.

Answer 6

if this is a civil court... when I was an intern only the lawyers talk in the beginning, then youre brought in to consider settlement offers

Answer 7

that all depends if u trust ur lawyer, u know if he is looking out in the best of interest for u and not himself for further information halla at me at [e-mail] or 832-265-5492 name jojo ill school u so the lawyer doesnt screw u over.

Answer 8

Mediating does not have lawyers.

The point is to make an agreement without them.

Answer 9

going through same thing now... the mediator will go back and forth from your room with you and your attorney to the room with the defendant and their attorney , you attorney will advice you on everything..... keep your head up.... my is a wrongful death , not sure what yours is Good luck and don't be afraid

Answer 10

Geroge will do most of the talking,