How do you get over someone eventhough it has been years since you seen or talked to them?

Answer 1

Good God you people need to move on!!! Go out and date other people! Get a hobby! Adopt a pet to obsess over! Why waste your life wishing for someone to come back to you?!?! You're just going to die sad and lonely, regretting that you didn't live your life the best you could!

Answer 2

I dont think its always possible. I have a special place in my heart for all of my exes, no matter how "wrong" they were for me.

I also remember this very simple logic:

If we were really meant to be, we would have never broken up, in the first place.

I think its healthy to miss lost loves, but its also important to not give up on new people, and new relationships. Theres someone out there for everyone- probably someone who will remind you of all your exes put together, some of the good, and some of the bad- but it will be a great package!

Dont give up!!! This is a smaller world than you think!!! I mean, SHES REALLY OUT THERE!!!!

Oh and PS-
One way to be sure that a relationship will fail, is if its based on some kind of fantasy person, so try to be more accepting of others flaws, and you will see more perfection in them than you ever imagined!

GOOD LUCK!

Answer 3

I have the same problem after 30 some years. Crazy but true. Dumped my high school sweetheart for no good reason and regretted it ever since. I tell myself it was probably best for her. One thing that helps most is that I think about the two boys I had with my wife (ex now) and how they would not have ever been if things worked out different back in high school. Have to take what you've got to work with and be grateful for that. If it wasn't meant to be......

Answer 4

Time heals all.. It sucks, but eventually you can love again. You need to go out every chance you get and meet some new people. Your friends are the key to getting over someone. I know you want to sit at home and not do anything, and just think about what could of been, but it's better to go out and try to have fun.. She/he will be back if it's meant to be. for me it was lots of beer, clubs, random girls, and friends, and 4 years later i can honestly say " I am completly over you"........ but if he/she is not there because you cheated then I hope you enjoy the pain.......

Answer 5

Just have to deal with it or find someone new. Most likely that person has moved on as well. I went through the same thing with my ex and it sucked really bad. But things happen for a reason.

Look at the positive side, when you meet your next gf you'll quietly thank your ex for walking out. God brings people into and out of our lives for a reason.

Answer 6

I've never gotten over them, I just learned to cope with the fact that they are not with me. I think that is the answer, but then again, there is always the possibilty of getting over them once you meet someone else you care about, It hasn't happened to me even when I did find someone, but your position might be different.

Answer 7

Therapy

Answer 8

If you aren't over the person and you haven't seen them or talked to them in years, you need to look yourself in the mirror and yell "I AM NOT A PUS*Y!" ten times every morning.

You need to take back your power, the power to choose how you feel. You can do it, I have faith in you. No seriously, I do.

Answer 9

I don't think you ever get over some one you cared about. I am not over some one dear to me....Many Many years ago.... Its good to think of how they smiles or walked and the crazy things they did. I don't dwell on it but every now and then poof its there in mind .

Answer 10

you may never get over someone....i was with my highschool boyfriend for 12 yrs and broke up and now iam married and have been for 8 yrs.....but there isnt a day that goes by that i dont think of my ex.....in good ways and in bad......sometimes i still have dreams with him in it..... kinda strange when you would never get back with the person how you still think about them every so often....