I have a guy friend that I used to be really close with but now that he's dating this other gril we haven't been very close all I want is my best friend back or should I just move on and replace him. some of the **** he puts me through is saying that I'm a skank, *****, and saying that if I had the chance I'd fu#@ him which isn't true at one point I did like him but now that they've been together so long I 'm happy being friends. but this ***** is obbsessed that I'll try to steal him. what should I do? He's an amazing guy when she's not around. but today is example when his gf was threating to kick my *** and he took her side I understand their together but he can do soo much better than her even though he doesn't know it!! please help!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-02 14:06:27 · 6 answers · asked by sexycowgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sorry girl.... Its time to let go for now. And lets hope this friend of yours will realize in time what he has done. But I do want to warn you, for them ( I mean for guys at least in general...) it might take quite a while.
I suggest you find yourself another guy to hang around with, the kind who would take your side no matter what.
2006-08-02 14:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by sexy_mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience my best friend was best friends with my now boyfriend. I think it is a territorial thing with girls because her and I started fighting when they would hang out and they had some what of a past as far as kissing and stuff. I finally got over it and do not mind them being friends because if he is gonna cheat it is more likely to happen if I nag all the time. Maybe you should talk to the girl. Let her know you are never going to cross the line and are no more than friends, but if he is calling you out like that maybe he doesnt deserve you as a friend. No guy should ever speak to a girl like that especially a guy who is supposed to be a friend. Let him know that too. Let him know that it is disrespectful to speak to you like that and that if he wants to remain friends with you maybe he should not say such nasty things. Also he needs to let the girlfriend know that he is not choosing sides but you two are friends. She doesnt sound like much of a lady if she is threatening to kick your ***.
2006-08-02 14:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been there and trust me. Even though you think feelings are over they may not be. I was involved with someone who was
also my best friend. I told led towards just being friends. When by himself he was great but then he took advantage of it. Thinking I will always be there but when I requested him to be there for me when I needed he wasn't there. Let him go girl you will be find, remember the good times and move on
2006-08-02 14:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you have been traded in for another girl that puts out
it is time to move on
2006-08-02 14:11:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with a other guy and make him jelose
2006-08-02 14:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by acruz43206 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the cowboy....why do you put up with verbal abuse?
2006-08-02 14:15:27 · answer #6 · answered by sweet ivy lyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋