Since we had some problems, I sent email to my boy f who is currently living far away, which was about my decision (break or couple) and asked for his decision. Then, I haven't got his reply for 10 days!!! I am thinking of 3 contexts:
- His silence means breaking.
- He currently has some business troubles. If he wanna solve love trouble after finishing his business troubles, why doesn't he drop some words like : " i am very busy now, we can talk about it later".
What is he really thinking? What should I do?
Note: pls don't advise me to call him.
2006-06-22 14:43:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think the no answer IS your answer. It's over.
2006-06-22 14:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by carolscreation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there could be several reasons why he hasn't responded to you. BUT I would think he most likely doesn't care. IF he cared I would think that he'd have been in touch with you as soon as he got your e-mail. Since you don't want to call him, then I'd say you can take his silence as acceptance that you are breaking it off with him. And since he hasn't responded then I, (if I were you) would not even consider going back with him. Being BUSY, well that isn't a reason. Not an acceptable one anyway. Either way Good Luck with whatever you do.
2006-06-22 22:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming he even received the email, he wants nothing to do with you. If he did, he certainly would have called or emailed you back by now. For most men, being far away means freedom. If he truly cared about you, he would be "homesick" for you and would even want your imput on his "business troubles". It appears that he has put himself first, so do yourself a favor and find a man who will meet your needs before his own. It will be tough at first, but you will be glad you did it in the long run.
2006-06-22 21:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I don't think you really want to break up. If you do, you would not even care what he thinks or why he did not reply.
I think you are waiting for him to plead...
If you want to break up a relationship, do it in person, unless your partner is a violent person and can do you bodily harm.
I think you should not wait any longer. Go ahead with your own live. You are not married yet, so start dating other men. Don't waste time. If he does reply in 10 days, he will not reply at all. Unless, his computer crashed and he lost all the mails....The possibility is there but quite unlikely.
2006-06-22 21:59:22 · answer #4 · answered by OnTheTreadmill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would come to the conclusion: that it must not be as important to him as it is to me. I don't think that serious relationships should be taken so lightly or for granted. This is a persons feelings, life, future, etc., that we are talking about. Only you know what happened and how serious it is or was. Only you have the real answer. All anyone else can do is assume what they would do.
2006-06-22 22:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by wilburkee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think his answer is pretty clear he wants to break up. If he was seriously into saving your relationship he would have made time to contact you about it regardless of what is going on in his business life. You are just using that as a justification for his behvior. I think you should consider your relationship ended and move on.
2006-06-22 21:49:47 · answer #6 · answered by butterflykisses427 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mebe he didnt get the email, hehe its always a possibility. You must first understand though that guys are going to take a long time on deciding what to do when its something important, just give him a few more days.
2006-06-22 21:50:16 · answer #7 · answered by Sparky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to move on with your life. Not sure how old you are, but I would bet your young enough for this guy to NOT BE to "Love of your Life". It is painful but let it go, you will have your pride and you will find someone else.
2006-06-22 22:14:52 · answer #8 · answered by B R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some time. perhaps he wants to settle his business troubles before he can decide on what to do in this situation. perhaps he hasn't checked his email lately? its possible. just wait a few more days.
2006-06-22 21:49:20 · answer #9 · answered by brainlessbandit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not thinking, he has someone else, and if that falls through he knows he can go back to you... when he gets lonely again he will send you an email.. if he doenst then he is getting more than enough where he is and doesnt need you anymore..
my advice to you is get ahold of yourself and move on..
2006-06-22 22:03:08 · answer #10 · answered by ibjuscoolin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His silence means breaking.. pride also is one reason why he aint replying.. thats also the reason why you didn't want to call him.
2006-06-22 21:57:11 · answer #11 · answered by rookie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋