My fiance and I have been together for 4 months. He is the father of the child I'm carrying and I was his idea to marry this soon. I do love him and want to be with him. Do any of you think it's a good idea or should I wait until later on?
2006-06-21 10:54:50 · 10 answers · asked by Mrs. Tucker 1 in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
Marry any time you wish. Decide, and do it. It's personal.
In the 'old days' it was better to be married before the child was born because of the perceived stigma of 'illegitimacy'.
In the modern world, there is really no such thing as an illegitimate child, but in fact, societal mores still 'insist' on using such an absurd label.
The 'actions' of the parents may be 'illegitimate' within those 'standards' or 'rules' or 'laws', however a child is conceived in innocence WELL within the confines of the laws of nature.
2006-06-21 11:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by fiddlesticks9 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get Married Before So Baby Can Have Last Name
2006-06-28 10:17:29 · answer #2 · answered by Michael C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait....get your child support up front. R U 4 real?4 months and you''re having a baby? I would be real worried about digging anymore holes for myself. Would like to know how it's going for you in a year.
2006-06-21 11:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by curious115 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say marry in August unless you have some major issues that need to be worked out. It would be for the best.
2006-06-21 10:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make any hectic decisions while your pregnant and your emotions change from day to day.....U can always get married after the baby is born and there is less stress
2006-06-28 03:53:59 · answer #5 · answered by summertime_cutie05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead with your plans and marry. Better now than later.
2006-06-21 10:58:30 · answer #6 · answered by Simmy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey if you both know you love each other, want to be together and want to spend your lives together raising your child together, then what the heck is the problem??????? GO FOR IT!
2006-06-21 10:59:00 · answer #7 · answered by shire_maid 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and get married
2006-06-28 03:58:29 · answer #8 · answered by K SHINE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say wait, a baby really changes things...
2006-06-21 10:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him...marry him
if you have the slightest doubt that he's not the one...wait
2006-06-21 10:59:49 · answer #10 · answered by ronny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋