Is it bad when you put your boyfreind before yourself, without even thinking about it because you love him so much? Like He's #1 to me. But I'm not number one to him. HE's number one to him. Am I being unhealthy my having him as my #1?
2006-06-21 10:30:33 · 7 answers · asked by Green Tea Happy 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Yes, it is nice to love someone but never put anyone over yourself...If you invest too much time and effort in a relationship but for some reason it ends, you have been put in a decificit, so don't do that....
You should be number 1 to yourself.
Good luck and have fun!!!!
2006-06-21 11:19:34 · answer #1 · answered by slickkittykattwhopurs 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's okay! Many people put others before themselves. You should be your #1 because when when no one is there for you...you will always have yourself and God. Make your boyfriend a close #1, but not quite. It's alright to love someone so much that you do more for them than for yourself, but ask yourself how many others do that for you? Selflessness brings about many blessings, but take care of yourself first!
2006-06-21 17:36:09 · answer #2 · answered by allknowing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only be putting him #1 if you are his number 1. You sound like you have lost respect for yourself and letting him run over u or use you... if you are in high school, this is normal. if you are older, you need to figure out what is important to you, and rethink your priorities. do something for yourself for you- you should be number one, unless you are married. sounds like you'd be a good wife one day.
2006-06-21 17:35:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always be first in your life, no matter what any one or any religion says. You are your number one priority, becuase if you're gone, then you have no priorities...
Also, don't be the traditional girl. Take charge!
2006-06-21 17:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by a girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is unhealthy, you ALWAYS have to be your #1, even if it's by the tiniest margin. don't neglect yourself, especially for a man. find yourself and don't let go again!
2006-06-21 17:34:07 · answer #5 · answered by maria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES DUH
you should be your own number one. he wont be around for ever and then what?
sounds like you have low self esteem.
2006-06-21 17:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no what it is is you are the kind of person that cares alot about others before yourself
2006-06-21 17:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by Butterfly_Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋