when we were dating he cheated on me but now he is telling me that he has changed and that he realized what he lost. but their is one BIG problem...his ex-girlfriend is pregnant with his kid, but he said that she wont effect our realationship...i like him ALOT...but I dont know what to do???
2006-06-19 10:12:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
Ok first of all...he hurt you. Why would you be willing to get with that again? Second of all...if you think a pregnant ex-girlfriend will not affect your relationship you are so wrong. She and their child will always be a part of this guy's life. How can he guarantee that they will not affect your relationship. And do you want to be a step-mama? To someone who isn't even with his pregnant ex....ask yourself why he is having a child with someone he doesn't want to be with and then ask yourself if you want that to be you....Don't fall for this one girl. There are plenty of non-loser guys out there just waiting to meet you.
2006-06-19 14:05:10 · answer #1 · answered by Hula Girl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Move on... why would you consider dating a guy who's avoiding the responsibility of a child he helped create. He needs to grow up. It doesn't sound like he's matured any since he cheated on you. It's only a matter of time before he finds someone else regardless if he's with you or not. Cut your losses with this loser.
2006-06-25 20:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can change in 8 months that's rediculous. It's a morality problem and he needs to come to terms with the idea of cheating not the consequence.
2006-06-19 17:17:35 · answer #3 · answered by El Macina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can she not affect your relationship. She is going to have a child which is his. Get rid of him. Move on there are more men out there, and he is just playin a game.
Actually run, dont walk away, and dont look back
Been there done that.
2006-06-20 00:46:38 · answer #4 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater...always a cheater. Forget about him.
2006-06-19 17:15:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a reason he's your ex. Remember it, and stay away...
2006-06-19 17:16:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you tell him this - repeat after me " SUCK AIR BOZO"
2006-06-19 17:19:41 · answer #7 · answered by Boogerman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋