Etiquette - November 2006

Considering that people smoke, gamble, drink, overeat, etc. in public and that some of these activities directly affect others around them what is the big deal about thumb sucking that has people so perplexed?! I believe if people actually thought about it instead of playing back thoughtless paradigms that they'd all be cool with it. And don't tell me how it's only done by children, lots of adults continue this gently habit but do so secretly because of societal ignorant attitudes. What's your opinion?

2006-11-19 23:08:39 · 23 answers · asked by lazurm 3

2006-11-19 23:01:34 · 5 answers · asked by marni 1

2006-11-19 22:54:28 · 20 answers · asked by Norm 1

Having friends over for dinner. What should we talk about beside our personal lives?

2006-11-19 22:53:47 · 8 answers · asked by Darlin 2

2006-11-19 21:34:05 · 14 answers · asked by big_al225 2

I frequently travel by train in London at rush hour and am a little unsure of who is more deserving of a seat. I know you're meant to give up your seat to the elderly however of late, I have noticed that people often give up their seat to anyone over 50, yet I don't think that is old, I would rather reserve my seat for someone who clearly needs to sit down not just someone who has a few grey hairs. If I was 50 and healthy and some snotty 20 year old offered me their seat I think I would be offended more than grateful to think that they thought me unable to stand.

What do you think, am I being selfish or are other people just too nice???

2006-11-19 20:55:49 · 18 answers · asked by valleylaydee85 2

I'm thinking about giving a 35 years-old guy I've been dating a wallet for Christmas. Could you help me figure out which style of wallet to buy for him? Tell me what kind of wallet you find easy to use. Was it half-folded long way, billfold (the kind which fit in the back of your pocket)? Or was it longer, check book style (the kind which fit in the inner jacket pocket)? Did have a pocket to put coins? I would appreciate it if you could provide me as much detail as possible, including color. Thanks!

2006-11-19 20:14:50 · 5 answers · asked by Sweetie 3

2006-11-19 19:48:13 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2

I have a friend who talks really too much, you can't imagine, sometimes i wish to tell her to "shut up" but that would be rude so how can i tell her politely?

2006-11-19 19:02:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Specifically guys - it's not something people talk a lot about but there has to be ways that are better than others. Standing up, sitting down, front to back, back to front.

I can't believe I just asked this question and got removed. Are you guys kidding me? It's a very valid question

2006-11-19 17:49:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been noticing it a lot....

2006-11-19 17:38:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-19 17:11:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you seriously be truly offended if one of your BEST friends secretly thought you were a lesbian and later found out about it? Offended enough to stop talking to them. And want them out of your life for good? Rememeber you guys were like family.

2006-11-19 16:51:08 · 17 answers · asked by Licha 1

I have a friend who is celebrating 50 years in the US from Hungary. What would be a good gift or memento to give this gentleman?

2006-11-19 16:39:36 · 2 answers · asked by n8ivCaliGrl 3

Music often makes me feel hyper or more sexual, as long as it has the right kind of beat. WHy does music make people feel this way?

2006-11-19 16:29:57 · 6 answers · asked by myka bellisari 1

I have notice some people answer a very good answer with a studip answer. For example, I posted a question like this...
Why are people so mean when it comes to breeding dogs?
I got answer like,
Well I know a few dog breeds and they seem really nice. My question had nothing to do with breeders it had to do with people being mean when it came to breeding dogs.

2006-11-19 16:03:56 · 17 answers · asked by lilbit_883_hugger 3

what book? by whom? why did it influence you?

2006-11-19 16:02:41 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-19 15:42:25 · 14 answers · asked by micky 1

and I was recently offered a great position and have put in my 2 weeks notice. This co-worker has my home phone number and keeps making statements about how we are going to "keep in touch". (She has my phone number because I gave it to her before I knew how crazy she is! oops) How do I gradually send her the message that we are not friends without confronting her. I need to keep on good terms with her--my field is small and we have mutual friends. Please be realistic, thanks.

2006-11-19 15:23:44 · 12 answers · asked by RacW 1

Dog Fleas and Christmas on the Side

Tail wiggles as lots of jinggle bells play,
waggles as smelly feet pass rotten rags;
Shiny nose stirs as crispy lights go scream,
expands, contracts as Mr. spits a nag.

Plastic covered seats, I love to lie on -
when found at midcreep, a blow to the fur,
sends my poor spirit away to the dawn -
where I lay outside the welcoming door.

Tail wiggles as young candles light the night,
waggles as cans open for a cold feast;
Shiny nose stirs to illustrate a fright,
wrinkles at a feline, an angry beast.

Time to retire and lie where the cold dwells,
not on soft, lovely plastic covered seats
but on a dreamy corner where walls meet
and tiny friends take on a big banquet.

2006-11-19 15:17:46 · 3 answers · asked by sir rowr 1

2006-11-19 15:07:18 · 29 answers · asked by asheslovesjoel 2

If a parent is inviting over friends to spend the night and might need to use a child's bedroom, should she/he let the kid know before the guest is invited (NOT FOR PERMISSION, JUST A HEADS UP)

2006-11-19 14:55:46 · 16 answers · asked by kleptomaniac3 1

I quit my job because my boss yelled and screamed at me and other employees and i have a bad temper when people yell at me. is there anything i can do to keep him from yelling and screaming at other employees even though ive quit?

2006-11-19 14:55:13 · 14 answers · asked by a_j_8946 1

How would I improve my story telling skills? I sometimes want to tell my story so quickly that I dont have the right worlds to explain it. I know that means i ought to slow down, and i have a good vocab i just dont quite know what to do.

2006-11-19 14:45:04 · 5 answers · asked by myka bellisari 1

2006-11-19 14:40:54 · 5 answers · asked by ??? 2

I want something special but I don't want to look like I'm trying too hard. They care a lot about me and are very supportive eventough I don't know them very well (they live abroad).
Any suggestions? Please!

2006-11-19 14:12:06 · 12 answers · asked by VBB 1

Don't ask why, but I really just don't feel like going through the whole hassle of shopping and buying gifts or even receiving gifts this year. I wish I could tell everyone I know just to not bother this year, but would they all get offended?

2006-11-19 13:55:48 · 6 answers · asked by s_e_e 4

What is the nicest way to tell her to be quiet? The matress squeaks, she yells, and he just makes gross noises....I am trying to do my homework!!!!!!!

2006-11-19 13:49:05 · 16 answers · asked by Tanya 2

I am going to celebrate my 25th birthday (5th after marriage) next month. Every year I invite about 25 to 30 close friends and celebrate in new and new styles (western style with drinks and dance). I have exhausted all common styles. My husband wants it to be totally new style this year. The style should be new, different, surprising, funny and exiting. Give suggestions.

2006-11-19 13:26:03 · 11 answers · asked by cathydimond 1

Tell us which you use at home.

Thank you!

2006-11-19 13:17:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous