Last night, a neighbor told me that my next-door neighbor shot himself on Monday. He left a widow and two teen-aged daughters.
I did go over when I got home from work, today, but found a note on the door not do disturb them since they were resting. I can only guess that the visits from family and close friends have been tiring, along with the options they must consider as they deal with what must come next, such as funeral preparations and beyond. In the 5 years I've lived here, I've enjoyed visiting with them, sometimes, but mostly him as we'd discuss our hobbies and interests. They've gathered mail and deliveries during my trips out of town. At Christmas, we'd usually exchange a can of nuts or box of chocolates. Despite such visits and exchanges, I doubt I would be considered a close friend -- perhaps a friendly neighbor. So, what should my wife (since last November) and I do to show concern without being too obtrusive?
2006-08-23
11:36:32
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