I raised my son to always question everything and never go along with the crowd. I wanted him to be an indivdual person. I think this might of worked a little too well. My oldest son has always been very independent. Never wanted anyones help to do anything. He never asked me questions on girls, how to shave, and when I took his training wheels off his bike he didnt let me show him how to ride it. He wanted to learn on his own. Then he goes off to college and Im not sure if this is a good thing or not. Most of my friends kids would constantly call them up and ask for money and help. Him on the other hand never asked for money once. Now I dont have much money to begin with but I would try to help him out by handing him 20$ here and there but he would always deny it. Now he is a senior in college and getting ready to enter the work place. I saw that he was looking at job aplications in Alaska, Montana, and Canada. This worries be because we are from Chicago.
2007-10-22
05:12:42
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Mr. Martini
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