Mental Health - September 2007

i lost my brother who was my best friend almost 3 years ago and I still cry all the time over it.
when does it stop hurting so much, i know i will always feel a lost but will i always feel sorrow too?
thanks

2007-09-16 14:29:35 · 11 answers · asked by 3 girls call me mommy 5

Ok, for like the past year i've felt like everything i do is wrong and my friends and family would be better off with out me. Well the main reason i feel like that is because my friends are always talking about how much they hate this other girl and yet while she's around they act like her best friend because they know that nobody else likes her and they feel bad for her. Because of that im starting to feel like they secretly hate me as well. I've thought about suicide quite a few times but i would never actually do it. I do cut though and i really wanna stop however i cant tell my mom or my aunt (who i live with) because my lil sister threatened to kill herself a few weeks ago and i dont want to make them have deal with 2 potentially suicidal kids. My friends wouldn't take it seriously if i told them because a lot of people at my school cut because they think its "cool" or w/e. How can i get rid of these feelings and thoughts??

2007-09-16 14:25:39 · 19 answers · asked by cdr dsw = <3 [11/1/10] 4

like all of a sudden i randomly got more confident, how do i express it so i don't seem "fake"

2007-09-16 14:23:04 · 2 answers · asked by Tudor Lady 1

Every year around my birthday I get depressed about getting older. Any suggestions that don't involve, drinking or drugs?

2007-09-16 14:22:13 · 34 answers · asked by woodbutcher21 3

what happens on the first visit? I can't go without knowing something.please help

2007-09-16 13:18:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

- How do we recognize the disorder in children or in adults?
- What might we see or hear?
- If we have this disorder how would it make us feel or think differently than someone who is not struggling with it?

2007-09-16 12:44:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

have spoken to him, he said that he would look for help he didnt, he lies a lot about his addiction for me, at work, he is ashamed of it, but he dont stop. we have been married for 6 years, when i met him he said that he hated drugs, but later i found out he was addict to crack cocain, he has been addict for more than 15 years. Is there hope? have a 1 year old baby girl and we are always alone, my family doesnt leave in usa. i dont talk to my friends about it. What should i do, go look for help for myself? Try to help him, how can i help him if he doesnt want to help him self?

2007-09-16 12:34:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

it's only a question! That some peoples's answers are just entirely too long? I've answered long but not near as long as some people that take about 1/4 page?

2007-09-16 12:16:42 · 10 answers · asked by Kat 5

There is going to be a baby in the house; so I'll be up all night and I need to be up at 6 in the morning and I don't tend to feel tired till about 11pm. Please tell me how I should manage!

2007-09-16 12:03:26 · 4 answers · asked by J.Martin 1

Being a reserved person is starting to really affect my life.. I dont have many people in my life to talk to and have fun with....and it gets me kinda depressed... I'm not used to getting myself into social situations that get me to interact with people. What can i do to be different.. It seems so difficult in my depressed mind...

2007-09-16 11:39:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend was taking Klonopin and Lexapro in the USA due to anxiety disorder and depression. Also had a therapist in the USA. She just flew to Japan to live for 5 years. The medication will eventually run out and she want to find a therapist as well. Where can she get a help?

2007-09-16 11:34:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-16 10:48:56 · 6 answers · asked by peanut44 4

2007-09-16 10:38:08 · 7 answers · asked by julia h 2

2007-09-16 10:12:07 · 3 answers · asked by rosiethopkins 1

from what i read your feelings are either hate or love and they change alot or everyday towards a person. i know this is part of the illness symptoms. my father has bpd. he has done alot of horrible things to me and maybe only 10 percent good things but i really want to know, does he and has he ever really loved me at all? please tell me. though you dont mean to do these things and cant control your feelings towards your close people deep inside do you still really love them. im so confused and upset i really would like to know comin from a bpd sufferer what you feel. thank you.

maybe my question may come across stupid to you but i may be wrong with what i asked i want to understand how you think so i can understand myself better.

2007-09-16 10:04:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-16 09:47:36 · 4 answers · asked by mmuffkin 1

How Does One Go About Snapping Out Of It?

Comment About Anything On This Subject, All Views Are Welcome!

2007-09-16 09:40:27 · 14 answers · asked by Incognito 4

& then they tell me, worry about getting better & ignore the diagnosis. I think that's a bunch of bull! How don't I have a right to know my diagnosis, so that I CAN get better? My doctor is trying to diagnose me with bipolar because I say I'm irritable. But my irritability is part of my anxiety disorder. & then she said, "If the temper tantrums continue, let me know." What temper tantrums? Irritability doesn't equal temper tantrums.

2007-09-16 09:21:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-16 09:04:36 · 7 answers · asked by Deenie 6

i'm shy and quiet n i wana be loud n funny like i am at home but it's so hard cus i hav no confidence and self esteem i'm always comparin myself to others and i worry and stress about lil stuff i wana please every1 and prove ppl wrong i think so much nothin works idk who i want to be in the sterotype world idk what i should concentrate on i'm 14 years old i feel paranoid about every1 like their goin to ditch me n stuff i don't give myself much credit it's hard to like myself i feel so lost idk where i belong idk where to go i feel so insecure i blame everything on the ppl i love idk how to get over stuff that happened i'm too scared to talk bout stuff i've been through and what i'm going through bout it to some1 idk wher to begin cus there's so much stuff i feel every1 hates me pls help me

2007-09-16 08:52:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i just cant stop, i have no more stress, pain or depression in my life... or so you could say, i no longer want to be gone from the world... my only friend from kindergarden cuts too, the rest of my "friends" do it too; only all them feel pain when they do it! i feel no pain before or after i do it, i just feel guilt when they see the scars because i tend to write words into myself. when i feel the guilt i just want to do it more, i cant tell my parents because both will knock the living sh*t out of me and i dont trust counslers because of previous problems which started the cutting in the first place,

2007-09-16 08:15:07 · 13 answers · asked by Sorika 4

I'm a twenty-two year old male. When I was younger I had a sexual experience with a cousin of mine. I was around twelve and he was around four or five. Basically we had all of our clothes on and he was ontop of me humping me, and i put my hands underneath his pants and proceeded to grab his but. That is all that happened. This memory fadded within time and has recently come back. I know I'm not gay or bi. I'm actually engaged to be married. But with this repressed memory it's like now everytime I see a child I think of this experience. But it dosn't plessure me, it makes me sick to my stomach. I don't want to have these thoughts anymore. I don't want to feel like I'm gay or a child molester when I know for a fact that I would never do anything to a child. I'm just so confused and angry, because I want to get rid of this memory and stop thinking about this experiece whenever I see a child. It is driving me crazy because I want to be happy and enjoy a healthy life.

2007-09-16 08:11:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-09-16 08:09:42 · 18 answers · asked by Mr-Kay 7

i've noticed that every time i do something i start to feel weird like idk can't really explain it but it feels weird
like i will be talking a friend my head will start to hurt and i start seeing dizzyness and i just come back again it always happens everyday i never had it is it just me?

2007-09-16 07:38:35 · 7 answers · asked by BaBoo♥ 1

Her father comitted suicide and
My mother died five years ago and it has been so hard for her
she is in denial ! she wount listen to me. Everyone tells her she needs help! she is an adult!

2007-09-16 07:32:19 · 20 answers · asked by larson4boys 4

if someone undermines you with belittling jokes and won't stop when asked, is that a bully? (both adults in their 30's)
-when you tell this person they can't be in your life until they quite making jokes at your expense because it embarrses you, especially in front of other people and he starts yelling and swearing that 'you have issues'.

I know it is verbal abuse and emotional abuse because it edventually gave me axiety attacks over time and tore at my self confidence.

What when is mistreatment called abuse?
When is mistreatement called bullying?

Where is that line drawn?

2007-09-16 07:01:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

By putting you down i mean sad, lonely and miserable.

2007-09-16 06:54:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Where do you go when the emotional pain of your own life and that of others is just too much of a burden for you?

2007-09-16 06:30:12 · 6 answers · asked by Praire Crone 7

For details, enter (Targeted Individual, TI) into your Yahoo ANSWER 'Search for question'.

Can certain effects claimed by many 100s of TIs around the world be detected, measured, and recorded. I believe they can be. Don't we, as concerned citizens of America and of the world, have an obligaton to find out the truth concerning claims made by so many human beings, TIs? I think that we do. If it is true what TIs claim about targeted effects they suffer, then don't we have a moral obligation to determine the truth of the matter and to have those that perpetrate such acts, appropriately punished? I think so. Then I challenge the mental health community to take the first step and conduct scientific based sleep studies on a group of TIs. Based upon my own research, I am confident that if carefully orchestrated, a sleep study would expose certain externaly projected energy fields that are common to most TI's, affecting both body and mind, remotely, from a far.

2007-09-16 06:19:26 · 4 answers · asked by Bob D1 7

is this weird...i know a lot of people do it.
i use to do it when i was like 5 or 6...im now 19 and ive all of a sudden started picking my nose again.
i get really stressed out if i can feel my nose blocked so i HAVE to pick it.
Alot has been going on in my life lately, could this have contributed to my sudden desire for a clean nose :S
i also pick at my nails and try and get the split bits off.
This is really weird, but i always check my cats claws to see if they are brittle and if they are i pull the brittle bits off and clean his claws.

i never use to be so weird and obsessed like this...until the beginning of this year, a lot of things started happening and i was diagonsed with depression and thyroid problems.

i act like a psycho to every male that gets close to me, i will act like i dont care and once he isnt interested or shows little signs of non interest i go completely psycho and just cant stop trying to get him to like me..

what can i do to stop being so weird?

2007-09-16 06:16:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous