We love each other and want to stay married for ever, but my husband has completely lost interest in and ability to make love. After over 10 years without sex, he says "look, get a lover, I don't mind, as long as you never leave me" Amazed how easy it was - a man of 60 (younger than me) obviously fancies me rotten, so we went to a hotel. After about two hours it was obvious he wasn't going to get more than half an erection. He says (so does my husband) that I'm attractive and have a decent bod. I'm a grandmother but I work out and am not fat or anything. He says he wants to try again, but I've got to dress up (stockings, etc) don't mind, but have already spent hours with husband doing this, and I get all worked up to no avail. Reluctant to go down that route if it leads nowhere again.
I don't want someone much younger, I just want a nice lover of about my own age, who won't want to marry me, just meet now and then to make love. Are all men over 50 impotent ?
2006-09-12
09:07:41
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