Singles & Dating - 13 November 2007

i was reading this article where it says that cheating WILL eventually happen in a relationship, therefore we have to get use to it. I showed my friends the article, they said it's ok just as long as they are honest about it. my thing is if the person really loves you and respects you, he/she wont do it! they told me that i dont understand the "game", my response was "are we still in kindergaten?"...am i unrealistic?? is it unrealistic for me to think that my bf/husband shouldnt cheat on me if they truly loved and respected me?? am i asking for too much here??? i jsut want your opinion on this.

2007-11-13 13:04:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's not a shy guy, but only around me, he gets shy apparently... We haven't hung out yet, but his friends and my friends are planning on going for lunch one day.
I tried talking to him today, and he answered me, but then stopped the conversation... I know he likes me because he told his best friend (who is good friends with me) and he also told my best friends too....
How can I get him out of his shell!??! What should I do?

2007-11-13 13:03:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

just wondering, is it vanilla, berry, fruity, flowery? u name it!

2007-11-13 13:00:03 · 9 answers · asked by Let_it_go 2

Why do Mature Older Woman cheat on there Husbands for Younger men ?


I only ask this since im 20 and iv got acouple of mates and they have all hooked up with married woman that have husbands ? Why do Married woman feel they need to do this ? Do you get Fed up with your Husband and just want some fun

2007-11-13 12:59:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is that hot or kind of scary?

2007-11-13 12:57:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my bf are fours hours apart...we both think its goin to work but at the same time...we have doubts...me especially..but i love him! lol

2007-11-13 12:57:36 · 3 answers · asked by beauty iz me 1

can i ask you something........

then the rest is blank, is there anything i can put with this to say to this girl that will make a kind of conversation out of or a little

2007-11-13 12:56:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my boyfriend had his heart broken by his high school sweetheart after she brutally lead him on and cheated on him numerous times. It wasnt a clean break and he never thought he was going to get over her.

So he became a massive player for about two years and just became a man-slut and cheated on every girlfriend he had after her. Then, he met me. We had a rough time getting where we are, but he has never cheated on me and he finally has said I love you to the second person in his life. He plans on getting married and is a changed man.

Lately he has been having dreams about his ex, and her family and in the dreams her family is begging him to come back to her through bribes.

He doesnt look too much into it, but I see his ex all over my college campus and today she made some nasty comment to me. and I am starting to feel, worried and some what irritated by it because I know what a big part of his life she was..... help?

2007-11-13 12:54:48 · 6 answers · asked by boots4939 1

Well me and my BF have been together for 2 years now. To him we're the perfect couple. But to me we just seem too different. Im more of a fast pace person but he's not. I jsut want someone a little more exciteing and who can keep up with me. But if I leave him then I'll break his heart. We're on a break right now and I was talking to one of his friends and apparently he isnt taking it so well. But I seem happier. But its not only him I'll hurt either. My friends and family will miss him just as much. I dont want to be selfish about this. And I love him but Im not in love with him. So should I take the chance and break up with him even though it might blow up in my face. Or should I hope that things might get better even though they havent in the last 2 years?

2007-11-13 12:49:17 · 23 answers · asked by fallingxstars7 2

I'm interested in a girl who lives about 45 minutes away. We live in the same metropolitan area so it would be fairly easy to see each other semi-regularly. Any suggestions on how I should move forward with this?

2007-11-13 12:40:25 · 3 answers · asked by OhHello 2

2007-11-13 12:40:05 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

do you preferrrrrrrrrrr...

straight hair on girls?
or
curly hair on girls?

just wondering. ill tell you what i have later ;]

2007-11-13 12:38:12 · 10 answers · asked by ho 2

Whenever I have sex my partner wants me to be on top.. Im not the best. any tips?

2007-11-13 12:38:00 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay this guy who like always
flirts around me. My friend asked him if he liked me
and he said no.
but he stills wants me to like be really close to him.
And i know he doesn't like me cause hes that kind of guy
that if he likes a girl he askes them out.
And i kinda like him
but when he said he didn't i broke my heart ] ;
so should i still become close to him???

2007-11-13 12:37:55 · 7 answers · asked by Shelley V 1

my friend has a major crush on my boyfriend and wants to ask him to go out with her. What the Hell is the world coming to???? what should i do???

2007-11-13 12:36:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I m dating right now and just went through more than several rejections. They were all airheads, gameplayers, and just plain mean and insensitvie. People keep telling me that there is someone out there for me. Where is he?
I need to hear from you men that you're not all like that!
Where are you?
I can't find you !!!!
J in San Diego

2007-11-13 12:34:24 · 16 answers · asked by Dawn 2

how many guys out there know the difference???and how come they dont practice making love, only having sex.!!!??!!

2007-11-13 12:33:18 · 32 answers · asked by angelita 2

Okay so this guy comes up to me and says "do you know what this means" and he was like doing a push up looking thing while sitting. I think it means Pitching a tent, A saluting soldier or w/e. What does pitching a tent mean?


Wait, am i right so if a guy looks like hes doing a push up while sitting down like his hands are doing a push up in the air does it mean that "its pitching a tent" cause thats what someone said.

2007-11-13 12:30:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well, lets face it, the holidays are right around and the corner and you don't have anyone to share it with (yet). Do you feel depressed and awkward when your family asks you if you're bringing anyone home with you? Will you scramble to find someone or just let it be and wait for another time? What will be your course of action?

2007-11-13 12:28:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay well i want to buy handcuffs and whips and chains and that kind of stuff for me and my boyfriend to use on christmas (: but the only store that has that kind of stuff is this store Spencers thats in the mall and ware everyone can see my buy it, i don't want to feel weird buying it or be rejected for being to young to buy it. Im 13 going on 14. and im not sure if you have to be a certain age to buy that kinda stuff. Do you know? And also if my mom asks me whats in the bag, what am i suppose to do?

2007-11-13 12:27:49 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so i went out with this guy last year. big mistake. we were best friends then everything got akward after we broke up.
we kinda forgot about it, but now i am really confused. right when we started talking a lot again,
he pretty much ditched me for the 'poular' crowd at my school...
now he hasnt even said a word to me for 3 weeks. whenever i try to talk to him he doesnt even looka t me and he rolls his eyes like i am a freak of nature or something.

i see him staring at me out of the corner of my eye though, all the time.
and he flirts with other girls whenever i am around and brags about them.

i guess i still like him, but hardly at all because of what a jerk he is being.
i miss us being best friends though.
does he not even care???


whats going through his mind?
did he forget about me?

2007-11-13 12:26:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 18, i nvr took sex ed bc i was in special ed and my parents dont tell me anything ive had to find out every thing from internet and friends and i need help

2007-11-13 12:23:32 · 21 answers · asked by sammi 7

Whenever I see a beautiful woman, I feel depressed and sad because I am instantly convinced that I do not have a chance in hell with her. And what can i do to change that?

2007-11-13 12:22:22 · 24 answers · asked by Count DiMera 2

My little brothers been into this one girl for the past month now. But he dosent know what his first move should be. Help him out b/c hes getting on my nerves.

2007-11-13 12:21:33 · 1 answers · asked by alyssastroud 2

So he's smoked pot all his life, seriously. I met him like this. He's a sweet guy, love him. Together for over 15 yrs. The other day he walks by and says..."I think I'll stop smoking soon". Im scared. hes a demon when he doesnt smoke. He's pleasant and easy going after he gets his smoke on. Now I dont smoke yet it doesnt bother me that he does. Im afraid we'll argue more...

What do u think?

2007-11-13 12:20:01 · 5 answers · asked by Best Mom!! 5

2007-11-13 12:17:37 · 5 answers · asked by mcied150 3

Okay i see that girl every morning in the subway going to work. It doesn't matter what time i get on it, she is there almost every time. We don't talk or say anything, but every time we see each other we smile. I don't know what to say to her. I feel if i made a move between all these people i am going to embarrass her.
I need some ideas!

2007-11-13 12:15:44 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Am i normal??....I get pissed off when i come home and discover that my boyfriend has just masturbated!---also i woke up this morning to discover he wasnt wearing his boxes because he took them off to masturbate in the night when he couldnt sleep??-----hello, WAKE ME UP THEN!!....HELP

2007-11-13 12:15:39 · 30 answers · asked by OLAY 1

okay there is this kid p.t and iam falling for him his mom and my mom are bestfriends and i would feel awkward going out with him should i ask him out anyways ?

2007-11-13 12:14:44 · 4 answers · asked by soccerplayer359 1

I want to meet from other country?

2007-11-13 12:13:58 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous