Singles & Dating - 13 November 2007

I was wearing lingerie and he turned me down and told me this. Now I'm kinda butt-hurt.

2007-11-13 17:28:20 · 26 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3

I recently found the man of my dreams, and I've never in my life felt as close to marriage and family as I do now. In fact I'm pretty sure my boyfriend is going to propose soon, and I'm ecstatic. I've never been so happy, and I feel like I've finally found the love I've been looking for.

Yet for some reason I've begun having dreams about all my ex-boyfriends. Every relationship that led me up to this point. I don't have anymore feelings for any of my exes and some I haven't seen or heard from in years. So why am I suddenly having dreams about them instead of my future husband? Any ideas?

2007-11-13 17:27:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so i am really popular at my school and have been since freshman year. the thing is that now im feeling stuck, i have tons of popular freinds who are actually nice and get invited to all the big parties but im not making progress. Like most of the popular girls who are my freinds hang out with the jocks who im not really freinds with cus i dont play sports ( i broke my neck 3 years ago) so its sometimes akward but everyone still likes me. If your popular please tell me wat u do to get noticed become more popular. I dont just want to be cool anymore i want to be the most popular guy in school. How do i get ther? And dont critizice me , i kno it sounds stupid to some people but i HAVE to be the center of attention...so keep your negative comments to your self

2007-11-13 17:25:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 22, he's 42. We've been friends for a couple of years. A few months ago he told me he's cared for me all this time. He's smart, successful. I'm a cashier who has no idea what she wants to do w/her life.When we've discussed life/family things he's always said how he feels we're equals. I don't see how.

He's supportive emotionally and has offered me assistance financially(I thanked him but declined). He asks me about his new house, decor tips, what kind of things I'd prefer.Has said he wants to spend his life with me, said he loves me. He's said and offered everything a girl could want.
My fear is if I accept his feelings, and get invested what if I lose him? He's in great shape, but if years down the road we're together and something happens to him I'd be left alone in the middle of my life.
Losing a grandmother or friend is 1 thing but fear of *possibly* losing a partner when in my 40s-I don't think I'm strong enough. Is this reason enough to not try the relationship?

2007-11-13 17:22:50 · 32 answers · asked by Seriously, Passionately 2

2007-11-13 17:21:56 · 17 answers · asked by Peace =) 4

this guy asked me out and i said ok but then he told me he wants to have sex with me. And I told him i would like to stay until i get married to have sex. And he was like i don't want to pressure you but i don't want a relationship without sex and seems he lost his interest in me totally. Is this kind of guy a player or what?

2007-11-13 17:20:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

we talked for 4 hours and had fun but i said we should end the night, he hasn't txt/call me since then so i texted him today and told them that i would like to see him again but still he hasn't respond yet. is he just buying time or not really interested. HELP

2007-11-13 17:19:37 · 17 answers · asked by zigzag1223 1

2007-11-13 17:18:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex insists she accomplished this feat, but I don't see how it is possible. I think she was just trying to make light of one of men's greatest achievements.

2007-11-13 17:17:48 · 12 answers · asked by Ralishev 1

2007-11-13 17:15:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I been with my BF for one year...his Pakistani and I am from north Africa. everything was good until I find out that his a gang member and his stuck with them.I gave up everything my body my soul, my job my Family. my Friends. I even changed just to make him happy I do everything that could do for him. he used to say I love u and I will never give u up .. only u or nobody....he used to say I am a man and I do what I want no body have power over me except god.. then last week he completely changed . he didn't call me for two days. before he used to call me.every five minutes...my parents are making my life hell. they say Ether us or him... I choose him..I didn't have any explanation why did he do that.. I asked him.. he told me he own a lot of money to his people. and he doesn't want to hold me.. and want me to move on... but its hard for me.... I cant do that he wants to be my Friend but I cant... he calls me today telling me that he loved me and his Ganna be with me the whole life..and everything Ganna be okay...I dont know what he want me to do... he give hope again. I love him.. we make out. please help me.. I am lost

2007-11-13 17:14:11 · 8 answers · asked by I_belong_to_me 3

when your making out?

(i dont need to know... i know where mine go... ;) but i was just wondering...)

2007-11-13 17:08:00 · 12 answers · asked by pantalonsurlefeu2 1

my boyfriend is sick, and we usually hang out afterschool behind a building that is secluded and we can talk. if he comes 2 school tomorrow, i wanted 2 do something 2 comfort him, something 2 make him feel better, when just sitting around, something without talking. does any1 have any suggestions on what 2 do 2 make him feel loved, secure, safe, and comfortable? and how do i do them if hard?

2007-11-13 17:06:23 · 8 answers · asked by honey 1

I had this topic debated in my philosophy class and I just wondered what people thought.

2007-11-13 17:00:15 · 11 answers · asked by flatfoot 3

I like a male bartender who works in a very busy bar-how do I get us started?
It's a busy dance bar and I've been in 1-2 X a week the last 3 weeks.The first time we "met" we instantly pressed our heads together over the bar to hear each other...another time I flirted with him and asked what drink does the sexy bartender recommend. He actaully seemed shy, his eyes dropped but there was also another wopman he was serving at the same time. Last few times I didn't order from him purposefully, but I smiled and he waved hi.We defintely are aware of each other It's hard to tell if he is wary or shy or what. I have a lot of attnetion from men in this club and I have defintely demo'ed to him that other men like me,are dancing w me, etc. but not making out or leaving w anyone or anything like that... I don't want to be so crass as to fling my number at him or s

2007-11-13 17:00:10 · 1 answers · asked by violet femme 1

last year i was super close with this kid danny. but then he started to have feelings and i didnt, and we had a falling out. he got a gf after that and they dated until just a few weeks ago. since then, we've started talking again and are now on good terms (were both jrs in highschool now). we hungout for the first time the weekend after he broke up with his ex, and somehow ended up just being chill and cuddling. for the first time i thought that maybe i could see myself with him.

but okay so this past weekend, he basically ditched me twice. he asked me if i wanted to hangout friday but when friday came he suddenly said that he couldnt.. then the same thing happened on sunday. he apologized and all, but it was weird since he was the one who asked to hangout both times in the first place. then at school today, he didnt even look me in the eye. so weird. whats his deal/why is he acting like this? do you think he genuinely wants to pursue me or is just hoping to use me as a rebound? ...

2007-11-13 16:55:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was with my friend, my friends cousin, and his cousins friend. We were watching a movie in his cousins room and i was sitting on the bed and so was he. We were sitting kind of, not really close to each other. But during one part, he tapped my shoulder and pulled me down a little until i was laying he his lap. Then he put his arm around me and we just stayed there for a bit. What was that all about?

2007-11-13 16:45:17 · 13 answers · asked by aethermist5 2

2007-11-13 16:44:49 · 9 answers · asked by Romeo 3

I think my bf may be cheating on me or just like another girl a lot more than me. he deleted his pics with me that we took & sent a msg to a friend that said "I just told ___ that i like her" and im number 5 on his top friends on myspace & shes number 4. today he posted two pictures of them together on his myspace, a little too close to me. am i being over-jealous or should i be worried,.

2007-11-13 16:35:22 · 9 answers · asked by JustAnotherGirl 2

Okay here's the deal: This girl comes up to me at a football game out of nowhere. She's obviously drunk and she goes on about how she thinks I'm stalking her all over campus and that she finally wants to meet me. Then she gives me her phone number.

I've never seen this woman before and I'm pretty sure she wouldn't have approached me if she wasn't drunk. Should I call her or should I just wait and see what happens? She was cute though

2007-11-13 16:30:13 · 16 answers · asked by NONAME 1

ok
today i got this love note from this guy who really likes me
but in the note he was like
"why do you hate me, why do you ignore me? i go home and think of you and write all these poems of you, but never give them to you cuz i think you would laugh"
(this is not the whole note, there is more to it)
but my friend wont tell me who it is
and he sounds real nice
but i have a lot of guys who i am friends with but i dont like them
and i have a lot of guy friends who i want to go out with
HELP!

2007-11-13 16:29:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend still hangs out with his ex and it bugs the hell out of me because I know she still has feelings for him.

He tells me he hangs out with her so it's not like he's hiding it. He even goes to her on-campus apartment to hang out. Sometimes he takes naps on the couch. ~_~

He's told me time and time again I'm over reacting, but I'm not so sure. They went out for a year before breaking up, then shortly after we started dating. I've hardly interacted with her. The only time I've really seen her was at an anime convention where when she found out he was dating again made a whole lot of drama happen, pretty much ruining the con for me and him, and quite possibly a few other people.

I'm very insecure about myself since I have very little dating expierence. He tells me they are just friends, and he's not even attracted to her anymore...but I dunno...

Am I overreacting?

2007-11-13 16:21:39 · 42 answers · asked by Neko05 2

I felt really bad about it, and gave it back to her the next day. I saw that she was in the park every day. Of course, I'd spent all the money. But, she's got her personal stuff back.

So, do you think I'm a bad person?

2007-11-13 16:20:06 · 13 answers · asked by treefrog 4

Originally we were to be friends w/ benefits, but I'm not quite sure what we are right now. It's been discussed that we are sexually monogamous, but can date other people. The other person encourages me to do but told me they can't handle seeing more than one. When we do hang out, I'll cook for them, they'll spend the nite, we'll go to dinner, to movies, parks. We talk 2-3 times a week and maybe hang out once a week (very busy work schedule). We've been seeing one another for about 2 months. They often remind me that they are not even potentially ready for a relationship, but we interact in dating/relationship ways. They say "I'm not looking for more than what we already have" which to me seems very relationship-like, but there is not commitment on either side. I'm very confused. Right now I'm ok with it - I mean it's only been two months and I really like them. I could see my feelings growing in time, tho. Should I go by their actions or what they are saying? Move on or wait it out?

2007-11-13 16:17:40 · 1 answers · asked by nonstopguy007 1

KAYS SO THERES THIS GUY IN MY SCHOOL (RYAN W.) AND MY FRIEND(JENNA) ALWAYS SAYS HE DOES LIKE ME! BUT i'm always like sooo just because a guy makes you laugh, tries to flirt w/ me, stares at me,and tries to look cute doesn't mean he likes me!!! RIGHT!!!!!!!!! please tell me wate boys do to show a girl he likes her!!!!! and what i should do!!!!!!

2007-11-13 16:16:24 · 3 answers · asked by Best_singer_in_the_crew! 2

my bf and i were messing around and we wound up with our pants down. he had his private part on top of mines but not in. he then cummed and it got on my private area but not in me. he never inserted his private part in me but im scared that i will end up pregnant. will i get pregant? please help, i dont know if i will. im so scared right now. he tried wiping his *** away with a towel and he cleaned my area but im afraid a little bit got in me while he was wiping it away, i dont know if thats possible. is there a chance i might be pregnant? he never stuck his thing in me but the fact that he cummed over my area is freaking me out. my bf is a nice guy because after he had cummed I curled up and cried. he was very caring and held me tight. i then took a shower and when i came back to my bed to lay down, he had called he boss and told him he was not going to work. he said if i did end up pregnant that he will be there for me.please help, im so scared. thank you all.

2007-11-13 16:15:47 · 8 answers · asked by Debbie 1

I really like this girl's personality and enjoy talking to her, but I'm only attracted to her once in awhile. She has naturallly curly, frizzy hair (which I am just simply not a fan of) but she straightens it every once in awhile, which looks drastically better on her. I wish she would just get it permanently straightened, how do I politely tell her to do so without coming off as an rude jerk?

2007-11-13 16:10:01 · 15 answers · asked by Debonair 1

My girlfriend of 7 months now, was feeling down because her ex (who she dumped and chose me) is getting engaged!, i wanted to know why she feels down especially she is with me know, and she shoudlnt care, she said "We were supposed to get married by this time, but it didnt work out, and i know i love u but he is my past and he affect me in a way", well she says he was enganged too soon, and she was shocked esp. after he told her that she is the greatest girl in the world and he will never marry after her......is that normal?, help me figure out what is happening?

2007-11-13 16:07:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm a new bikini model, but i've always been self conscious of my smaller chest. usually asian girls don't have as large of chests as others, but luckily i still got into the modeling industry. i've just started out modeling, but i'd like to know what you think of me. please and thanks!

2007-11-13 16:04:12 · 26 answers · asked by babygirl joyce 1

what does it mean when a guy you like says"can we be together but not date?" he said that because i cant date cause of my parents

2007-11-13 15:59:30 · 4 answers · asked by bianca 2