Singles & Dating - 13 November 2007

My husband is 24, hes very much into computers, but he just bought himself a new computer a month ago, and i just bought him a fossil watch and wallet in august, WHAT WOULD BE A GOOD CHRISTMAS PRESENT? he already knows mine please help! Thanks

2007-11-13 19:46:05 · 14 answers · asked by Mrs. Nolan 4

you reckon i got a chance?

hehe

2007-11-13 19:30:11 · 1 answers · asked by dreammuncher 1

i wanna marry him. he always tells me whenever im ready he wants 2 be married...btw hes 21. the thing is i feel weird to be engaged so young and the first one in my class...i wanna wait till at least one person i know my age is engaged before i get engaged....is that a really bad reason 2 wait. or do u understand?

2007-11-13 19:30:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I was the perfect girlfriend, actually he told me I was the best. I loved him like no one else, I listened to him, I cooked for him, I snuggled with him, I made him laugh, we had a blast when we were together, living together was fun too, so why did he break up with me over 4 hours of distance when he was in love with me too? I am soo sad and can't seem to get over it. Not to mention that he already is dating another girl and having fun while I feel I wasn't good enough.. HELP me.

2007-11-13 19:22:47 · 14 answers · asked by irish_red_93 2

1. she has just found out that she may not finish her university degree because she has already failed a subject twice and may not be given another chance
2. she recently met a guy ( on the net) within three days met him, and on the first date itself she lost her virginity to him
3. the sex was un-protected. the guy has had 3 - 4 previous sexual partners
4. she has a lot of issues with her body image (she is a bit overweight).

She's a strong Christian & has always said "no sex before marriage" and now she's just lost her virginity to some pretty much 'unknown' guy.

I don't know what I can do to help her. Please give me your comments.

2007-11-13 19:18:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-11-13 19:16:05 · 4 answers · asked by looka 1

how do you make him understand that three wemon is too much

2007-11-13 19:15:16 · 8 answers · asked by docsdreamlover 2

lol i know that sounds stupid. but what is the big issue with teeth? i mean come on girlies, im really fun to be with, just i just wont smile if it offends you so much, lol

trust me i dont bite, well i might .... hehe

2007-11-13 19:13:27 · 19 answers · asked by dreammuncher 1

I call him at least 4 times in one day. If I dont call, he wont. He says he loves me, I want to believe him but, I've been in a relationship like this, for 2 years, I was playing the same role because of the financial pressure on the guy and the moment I stopped making contacts, the relationship died. I love this guy and believe he loves me so I wouldnt want a repeat of what happened to me last year, neither do I want to waste time in a relationship that is being sustained by me. I am a woman, shouldnt be the one sustaining a relationship, should I? I should be the one receiving attention, not the one paying it. I shouldnt be the one making all the efforts for it to work, should I? I am tired of playing the man's role. I wanna take my place as the woman, but he doesnt seem to understand. How do I go about it?

2007-11-13 19:12:36 · 3 answers · asked by Loved 1

A month ago I met a great guy; we clicked instantly & 1st date lasted hours. It was amazing how comfortable we felt w/each. He told me he wasn't playing games, this could b special & didn't want to jump into anything 2 quickly -he wanted to get 2 know me better. Our 2nd date was as great -we spent all day 2gether The whole time held hands & cuddled. In shops he held me close, held my hand & hugged me. We went back to mine & had a great kissing session but still decided to wait....but he wanted me 2 play w/him. In between our dates we constantly texted each other & chatted on phone. His text 1st flirty; then naughty....on our 3rd, we still had amazing convos & laughs but he seemed distant & reluctant 2 hold my hand or cuddle. After the date he didn't text. I waited a couple days then text him- his reply asked why I was quiet. I replied "I sensed u needed space & stepped back 2 give it 2 u-u r amazing & I don't want 2 crowd you xxx". I haven't heard from him since. What happened?

2007-11-13 19:01:48 · 21 answers · asked by M.Y. 1

i realy like this boy in my schwl we talk alot but im affriad he thinks im only interested in being freind coz we just muck about coz thats all i feel comfortable doin any ideas?

2007-11-13 18:59:57 · 2 answers · asked by emma w 2

What is it about men trying to pretend that they don't like a women when they have already told her that they do. Why do you all do that? What is it with the game playing and the tests that you put us through....is that to see if we are worthy of being your girlfriend?
Why is it that men try to pretend in this situation?

2007-11-13 18:52:30 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm pretty popular. Blond hair to my eyebrows. Blue eyes. Pretty strong. How do I know if i could be considered cute?

2007-11-13 18:42:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

What if.... My sister's friend who lives across the street who I've known for over a year has a hot older sister I just barely started talking to.... She's just turned 16 and is a sophomore and I'm 17 and a half and a senior. Given the fact that my mom calls her little sister (my little sister's friend) "part of the family" and she is a year and a half younger, do you think I should make any moves? Or is it risky....

2007-11-13 18:41:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I went to a concert with a family friend, and I got plastered. He was sober, but we hooked up. Now he will not speak to me, unless he has to. He will only visit if he knows I'm not there. We have known eachother for two years, and always got along pretty good. What can I do to get rid of this awkwardness?

2007-11-13 18:29:45 · 6 answers · asked by yayaquack 4

Ladies you can answer also....

I was on the phone with my love today, and well I was just telling him about how this guy tried to get my number and told the guy no but I would take his. Now I also told my guy that I didn't even have my phone with me and that I was just saying it to get the guy out of my face which is the ABSOLUTE truth. It's not like I told him, "I gave this hot guy my number today", I was just telling him how persistent the guy was. Anyway, now he thinks I go around taking guys numbers and call them, I told him I wasn't and he was just like whatever. my question is this,

Should I just have kept what I thought was casual conversation to myself OR is my guy over-reacting.

We are at a stage where we are trying to avoid conflict, but if I am not wrong I will just let this pass.

2007-11-13 18:29:25 · 30 answers · asked by Tnisha 1

My girlfriend of about 6 weeks was telling me that in her past relationships, when they get to about 5 months long, she pretty much ends them right there because she all of a sudden feels scared and like shes suffocating and doesn't want to feel committed. But she said she likes me a lot and wants to somehow end that problem with me, but is afraid that it's going to happen again. She basically hasnt been single in a few years because she starts dating after she breaks up w/ the other guy and is never really serious at all with them. Today she was thinking about the commitment issue for a long time and how she could maybe get over it and "grow up." All she thought of was maybe being single for awhile and then somehow realize something and be able to appreciate her relationships more. But I like her a lot and dont want her to be single! i know she doesnt either, and really wants to somehow find another way where she can get over that issue. theres gotta be some other way...PLEASE help!

2007-11-13 18:21:57 · 7 answers · asked by Zach N 1

there are times when we have people who are attracted to us and are giving us attention and care.most times we are not into these people though we enjoy the attention and the love.How do you feel when these people finally get other people and are happy (assuming you didnt accept their love)
do you feel jealous of the people they are with?

2007-11-13 18:18:50 · 8 answers · asked by niko 1

presented you with my credentials, a degree from Flinders University of South Australia, what would you think?

2007-11-13 18:18:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

All of the women I've dated (all 2 of them) have been very caring and attractive. Problem is, eventually after we've been dating awhile she will escape to the bathroom only to leave it 10-15 minutes later with a very unattractive smell. Sometimes there are even poop stains in the toilet. I really want to marry a woman who doesn't do this. Advice?

2007-11-13 18:15:36 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been friends with my Ex lately. My Little brother was not feeling well he made an effort to call him visit him, and after that he bought some groceries for my mom. He has been telling me that he is still in love wth me but there somethings he wants to sort out first. We talk everyday and my phone is full of his messages.. We had a bad break up and i'm not sure if i should really trust him again. Last weekend we ended up having sex cos he had spent a night over my house.That was before my little brother got sick. And now he is coming on me even stronger. I love him but dont want to get hurt again.

2007-11-13 18:12:47 · 2 answers · asked by kadhimba 1

I've gotten to be pretty good friends with a guy, but I always wanted more from the beginning. We hang out a lot in groups and from my perspective, it seems like he flirts with me like crazy (eye contact, touching, compliments, stares, remembering conversations), and he has told me that he thinks I'm pretty. His actions don't really suggest that he wants to be more that friends though. He's had the opportunity to ask me out but hasn't, and doesn't ever try to get me alone with him or make a move or call me just to talk. He has several female friends and he's naturally a talkative, friendly, touchy person, so I can't tell if he is deliberately flirting or if he is just being friendly. He also complains about being single all the time around me, so I don't know if that is good or bad. I don't want to tell him how I feel because he could be oblivious to the signals I've been sending him and that could make our burgeoning friendship awkard. Could he really just want to be friends? Why?

2007-11-13 18:06:59 · 26 answers · asked by desertrose571 3

i have liked countless guys because of how smart they are simply because intelligence attracts me. if he's good looking then all the better..just wanting to know how many others feel or have felt the same way at some point in their life?

2007-11-13 18:05:22 · 13 answers · asked by delicous 1

I called this girl whom I hadn't seen in a two months. Anyways, she called me saying she misses me, and it got me thinking that I kind of miss her too. So I called her back a few days later asking if she wanted to do something in the afternoon. She said no, she couldn't that she was busy. But she asked me to call her later that night.

It felt like she was blowing me off, so I didn't bother calling her that night. She must've realize I was a little upset because she texted me saying "Lets go for dinner next week".

Was she really busy? Didn't want to see me at that time? Or just plain blowing me off?

2007-11-13 18:04:47 · 14 answers · asked by Visine 1

(prolly asked a few billion times b4 hehehe)

2007-11-13 17:41:45 · 6 answers · asked by philliclay 1

2007-11-13 17:40:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mom is hellbent on finding someone who will take care of me and my kids. I am just fine being single and I don't want a relationship where I'm a stay at home mom, I enjoy working and being able to handle all my finances. My mom is quite old fashioned and is constantly trying to hook me up with men that will take care of me and my two kids. How do I put it to her gently and make her see my point in a nice way?

2007-11-13 17:38:46 · 16 answers · asked by lexichic66 3

I've heard sex is different than it is in reality and its nothing like the real thing. but i would guess you use the same positions and movements? Whats it really like and how can i make sure i am atleast half decent, what are the do's and dont's etc, im expecting to with a girl ive been seeing for a while now.

2007-11-13 17:37:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my girlfriend are taking time from each other. its only been a day. When she said she wanted time, I didnt call her from that point, I just let her have her space. Well, this morning she called me and I said I though u wanted your space? she said yea but i still want u to call me. I was confused. today before i went to work, she called me and said do you miss the sex? i said its good but im not gonna sweat over it. then she said question, what if im pregnant? i said ill be happy. i said why did u ask that? she said no reason. then earlier tonight she called me feeling sad and crying, and she said im afraid your gonna find someone else and it will be too late. i said are you ready to get back with me? she said im almost ready to get back with you. she said tears come to her eyes when she thinks about me. If she feels that way then why doesnt she get back with me? P.S. we took time apart cuz we both had cheated on each other, and the relationship was kinda rocky.

2007-11-13 17:34:07 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have a boyfriend but i am still a teenager and i don't want to have sex because i feel there are just too many risks

about our relationship-------

he is Black and i am Iranian (Persian)

and im 15 (almost 16!) and hes 16

he has actually helped me quite alot because i have just moved to the hood in nyc and he has helped me get comfortable there (i have never lived in a hood before)

now whenever my boyfriend comes or i go out with him i have to admit that i tend to dress pretty sexy and be flirty with him

i just love the attention he gives me

also i lie on top of him alot and we makeout while he's touching my *** usually and we play wrestle ALOT

hes always uhh complimenting me on my "assets"..........u kno like he says im "thick"

but i was wondering am i making it harder (no pun attended lol) for him to go without sex or would it be more like a better than nothing sort of thing for him

o and we've been together for around 2 1/2 months

2007-11-13 17:28:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous