Singles & Dating - 13 November 2007

i am really dressed up and last night i asked him what he wanted to see me in since we haven't had time alone in 2 months he started get offensive and he said that i was trying to make him tell me what to wear and the truth is i just wanted to know what he wanted to see me in. Do you think he has a problem and he thinks that if he tells me what to wear he is too controlling?

2007-11-13 04:25:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Well there was this guy I really liked, turned out he was a jerk, but it was really out of character for him. So i always think that he'll come back to me. I haven't talked to him in a while and I'm fine about it, but sometimes I still think of him...
Well last night I dreamed that he came to visit me at my apt. like he used and he was hugging me, next thing I know we went in my bedroom and somehow Were on the floor making out, so I shut the door with my foot so my roommmates wouldn't see us. well after a while I started to take off his shirt when he said he had to go do something really quickly. well he opened the door, some annoying roommates came in my room (they weren't even my real roommates, they were random girls) and they got all comfortable. when the guy came back he just looked at them and got on my bed and told me to come lay with him. so we were just cuddling and i was just rubbing his arm and chest until he fell asleep. but then the girl in my room made a loud noise that

2007-11-13 04:24:29 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would you stay in a relationship where you came home after a hard days work, found out that your husband had...sure, spent the day with the kids...but spent most of it sitting in front of the computer, on the phone or sleeping. That when you came home...there is a mess of dishes in the sink, the kids havent eaten yet...and that your husband had yet again spent most of the paycheck you have given him on thing he didnt need. Add that fact that you havent been intimate with him in almost 6 months because he just didnt feel it was important...yet was all your fault.
Let me ask you....how many of YOU would have a problem with that? How many of you would start to feel selfish because you want more? How many of you would start daydreaming of what its like to be in a working relationship?
How many of you would think about what life is lik on the other side of the fence?

2007-11-13 04:21:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Maybe you're friends with that person, you have moved on ...do you still think or hope that maybe someday things will change?

2007-11-13 04:18:03 · 14 answers · asked by Bebe 2

We've been together for about 6. Since the beginning of the relationship he's always depended on me. We're both college students. I do have a weekly income, he doesn't. He refuses to find a job. He has tried a lot of places but because of his past, its difficult for him to find a job. But he did work for a company for approx. 1 1/2 before we met and I'm pretty sure he can get another position with them. But because he thinks he's too popular around campus, he refuses to apply again there for work. My past relationship has been similar to my current relationship. Am I wrong for not wanting to be with him anymore?

2007-11-13 04:17:27 · 49 answers · asked by ? 2

2007-11-13 04:16:23 · 2 answers · asked by oNe LuV 2

i really do hate guys. they keep hurting the gurls, i loved this guy who said that i meant the world to him, i really loved him, when guys say that they love the gurl do they only say so cause they wanna get her??!! i ended up kissing this guy,my first kiss, although am so over protective, i didnt allow him to have sex with me. he asked me alot of times, the thing is now he is ignoing me, i swear i didnt do anything i called him to know what's up he said we will talk later, and he never called back i msged him and he didnt answer, he blocked me! , what the hell is that, can anybody be that heartless!!!!cant he break up with me by telling me that, instead of ignoring me in that stupid way?? what should i do?. i feel that i have been used, (he is 24 and am 20)

2007-11-13 04:16:00 · 4 answers · asked by shatha f 1

2007-11-13 04:08:09 · 9 answers · asked by PAMELA H 2

mainly want answers from guys..can they be attracted to a girl and only want to be friends? be honest with yourselves here..

2007-11-13 04:05:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

when women talk about 'tall, dark and handsome', how tall would you want your man to be?
is it anywhere between 5,10 +, (because i am 5,10), if not please tell me whats tall,
i just turned 16 do you think i have a chance to get any taller?
thanks alot

2007-11-13 04:04:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

honestly. all they're made of is pure fat. who wants to grope that??

2007-11-13 04:02:58 · 2 answers · asked by Halley T 2

Don't cry for me
For we will be
Reunited once again
It may be hard to leave
But you must
Get back to
Your life
It may be hard
But please
For our sake
Please don't cry
You know I love you
And we will be
Together once more
So don't shed
Those tears
For this deep sorrow
Will soon pass
You know that
I'll always
Be in your heart
And you
In mine

Here's another

This emotional pain
Is way to great
Why does it
Hurt so bad
All these
Looks of scorn
Endless
Emotional pain
It's a
deathly pain
Plucks at the
Heartstrings
Making you
Weep at
Every little thing
Why does it
hurt so bad
When I'm torn
This way
I cry for
The emotional pain
For it is
Too great
To bear

2007-11-13 04:02:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

And in trying to attain these rights, they become nags.

2007-11-13 03:58:14 · 10 answers · asked by Neil 7

Last month i broke it off due to him not being there for me.
I mean...he's a great person but his priorties weren't straight.
He would choose to get a XBOX 360 game before making sure we didn't need anything. Now he's texting me talking about he knows he messed up. (Let me tell you...this wasn't the first time we left each other for things in that nature), he has a horrible attitude, doesn't trust me, doesn't like to communicate about situations (he rather go at the mouth instead of talking) and i basically fell out of love. I put more than 50% in this relationship and felt like i got 20%.
I just want him to understand i am okay alone and that i can do it. (Basically i was) and that i want him to just leave me alone.
I have texted him this already and he is very persistant. Please help.

2007-11-13 03:39:34 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Miss Self-Sufficient 5

I have this boyfriend and we've been dating for over 3 years and I really love him but sports are a big part of my life and I love watching football, basketball, whatever it is, and my boyfriend hates watching sports. I know it sounds stupid but sports are a big part of my life...... what do I do?

2007-11-13 03:34:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you start dating a new girl when is it appropriate to have the relationship status talk? When would it be too soon for her to bring it up? Just to figure out where it's going, are you exclusive? Wait a couple months, around how many?

2007-11-13 03:30:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been in a relationship with this guy for four years now, and we both really love each other. I would like to think that he's THE ONE for me, but I am having second thoughts. Are you supposed to just know when he's the one, or is it normal to be having doubts? Like I really love the guy, and I know how much he loves me, but I'm confused. And I don't wanna just break up with him (in case he is the one), but at the same time, I am prolly wasting my time if I realize a couple years from now that I don't wanna spend the rest of my life with him.

2007-11-13 03:29:01 · 22 answers · asked by Doll♥. 3

Girls notice the problems with the relationship faster than boys and they understand better sometimes to. I dont get that

2007-11-13 03:27:05 · 42 answers · asked by top_notch_sagittarius_chic 2

The guy has been dating his girl for 5 years. He really enjoys when my children and I all hang out togther. He seems to be a really nice guy who goals in life.

2007-11-13 03:23:31 · 7 answers · asked by Just asked 1

What quality is it that when a certain woman walks in the room, everyone just pauses? Other than physical beauty?

2007-11-13 03:21:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I dont wanna look deparate so i stopped greeting him on messanger. He greeted for a while, then i greeted for a while as well but he never greets now and i dont wanna greet in case i look desparate. We haven't spoken in ages should i break the ice this time and see if he greets the next time? But then again i greeted the last few times. What if he doesnt greet the next time, id be so sad!

i dont wanna give a bad impression of myself to him but want sumting to heppen esp cos its long distance.

NOTE: this is NOT anonymous, I know the guy...he moved so thats why we chat online

2007-11-13 03:19:34 · 9 answers · asked by Blair Waldorf 5

I am in a relationship with a man who is 14 years older than me (im in my 20's). Anyway I have never felt this way or been treated this good. Is anything wrong with the age differences and what are some of your age differences in relationships or marriage?

2007-11-13 03:14:46 · 13 answers · asked by j.j.l 1

whats the best way to flirt without not looking desperate because apparently my method isn't working.... so whats the best way to flirt and get your attention? please help

2007-11-13 03:14:00 · 27 answers · asked by jisby13 2

I'm 21 and have a wonderful son, I've met someone who I feel I can love and will accept my son, The only thing....I barely have 4wks out of the realtionship. I will like to be serious with this person but at the same time I'm 21 and I feel like i'm now just starting a new life.This new person is 31 yrs he has everything any women would want, a house, a career, great family, the looks, smart, and so on. So do I.....should i give in? or just wait and enjoy life right now???

2007-11-13 03:05:08 · 24 answers · asked by yoanacancino 1

I seem to enjoy sex alot more than most women and some men. I think it about it constantly and am always horny. After sex I always want more and can keep going. Any suggestions?

2007-11-13 02:59:04 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

A guy virtually chased me to get my phone number and then calls me to arrange a date, but says he'll phone back with the arrangements for time and venue etc. Then he doesn't phone.

Then 4 days later calls me again to request that I go to meet him where he works that night (he's a bouncer) as he'd like to get to know me better!!!! before taking me on a date. I refuse coz 1) that's the whole point of going on a date and 2) I don't fancy trying to talk to someone whilst they're trying to work and 3) I'm not dropping everything at the last minute to go out with anyone, so he agrees to take me on a proper date but then wants to know if he can come back to my house, which I refuse point blank, so he agrees to take me out for a drink, but says he'll call back to make arrangements.

Amazingly, I haven't been holding my breath waiting for his call, as something tells me that it's not coming, but what is he up to?

I mean I'm finding his behaviour really, really bizarre and bemusing.

2007-11-13 02:58:53 · 19 answers · asked by Louise H 3

I was in a relationship which my ex bf controls me.. a long distanced relationship.He wanted me to promise him not to talk or look at any guys, dress decently ( no short skirts, no tight shirts, no sleeves with big holes), & not to swim or play basketball. He said he was worried about me and he didnt want other guys to look at me.He even told me to dress as ugly as possible. He told me to wait for him and he'll be back to marry me.I did all that for him but in between i broke few promises. We quarelled but eventually we got over it. Then, we broke up when I only complained that he has no time for me. The reasons are I don't understand him, his family will never accept me for my character. What did I do wrong? I did all that he said & report whatever I do through sms every minute of my life. I cried for a year and now he has a gf but why did he contact me & still flirts with me? He makes me feel bad about myself when he ignores me or put me down.I still love him. Should I stay or leave?

2007-11-13 02:53:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Would a guy that I was talking to and dating for 2 months make me a hit it and quit it the first time we had sex? He answers all of my text messages and the morning after we had sex he sent me a text saying he had a nice time with me last night and that we're still cool. But, everytime i ask him to hang out, he says he has to watch his son, which is a typical response from him even before we had sex. Help! What does this mean???

2007-11-13 02:53:15 · 10 answers · asked by J 1

i have been with my baby for 6 months...... he is a wereslter and he goes away to wrestle and i joke around with him about being with other girls and wanting other girls that are prettier and skinner than me. he isnt cheating but would that make you want to cheat on your gf and would that push you away and possibly runin the best thing that has happened to you? how does it make you feel and what would you say to your gf if she kept doing that?

2007-11-13 02:48:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a strong feeling that my boyfriend of 8 months has been playing me.. However, I can't prove it because he's such a good liar and he's really good at covering up everything.. he lies to everyone about little stuff that doesnt even matter (compulsive liar).. He got a new job, but its kind of far away.. i dont know which girl he's cheating on me with but i think its either of them below:

1. his sister's bestfriend (who is still in high school.. he's 20 and the bestfriend is 15/16) *this is who i really think he's cheating on me with*

2. this girl.. a "friend" from church who's "friendship" he has been hiding from me..

3. his ex (he said she cheated on him), whom i happen to know txtd him at like 3 in the morning.. and he ended up calling her and they talk for like 3 hours..

4. this girl from work that he eats lunch with.. he claims they are just friends

I have absolutely no idea how to prove it, to catch him, before i break up with him.. any ideas???

2007-11-13 02:47:39 · 35 answers · asked by aloha 2