Other - Family & Relationships - 19 August 2007

I have always worn pantyhose with my skirt suits for work each day at the office. Needless to say, with me dressing that way, my hubby developed a pretty intense curiousity about it. As I was getting ready for work one day, I asked him what the fascination was and he told me that he found it alluring and sensual when I wear pantyhose and that he was curious to experience that feeling. So I hiked up my skirt, eased out of my sheers, handed them to him, and told him to slip them on. I let him keep them on for a few minutes and he went absolutely crazy over the way they felt, which I thought was kind of neat.

Now hes asked a few more times recently for me to let him wear them again. I don't want to deny it to him because of how fascinated he is and how much he liked it that one time. I'm thinking if I can limit it to a few minutes around the time we go to bed, we could have fun with it. Was I wrong to do this? How should I handle this?

2007-08-19 15:06:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

How many times a day do you tell your significant other just how much you love them? How often do you truly show it? Just a question to make some people think.. I know I myself don't do it nearly enough..

ps.. Michael, I love you!!!!!

2007-08-19 14:25:14 · 14 answers · asked by Johanna K 3

My friend just finished freshman year in college. He goofed off a lot in the beginning but in the end pull through with decent grades.

In September a girl he knew was passed out drunk. He is a child a heart (some claim) so he pranked her by giving a major wedgie and sticking a chocolate bar down her underwear.

She eventually found out it was him. Naturally, he denied it. But over winter break, he thought about it and felt extremely guilty about it. He then confessed to her, saying how bad he really felt.

She forgave him, though a little upset he lied about it at first, and said she wouldn't report him.

Then a few months later I think they decided it was best if they didn't talk to each other (wasn't responding to AIM convos, etc.)

At heart he's a good guy, going out of his way to help others.

The girl is fine. She got very good grades, and still parties with her friends :)

He thinks she'll still report him. I think not, seeing she still enjoys life and all. What about you all?

2007-08-19 14:19:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I keep on having dreams about my ex boyfriend. We finish in bad terms and didn't get the chance to leave them in good terms. Could it be since we didn't leave in good terms I have been thinking about him and having dreams about him. We talk and everything in the dream but in real life we can't stand seeing each other.

2007-08-19 13:44:50 · 3 answers · asked by FaBuLoSa 1

I certainly hope not.

I am very proud of the projects that I have completed going into my senior year and have no regrets about that. What is really bringing me down is my lack of simple human contact. I spend basically all my time working alone or with people who are too stressed out to act like easy-going regular humans. My friends are always too busy to get together, I only get to see my parents a few hours a week, and I only get to meet my extended family 1 day a year.

I would love to get out there and out of my near isolation but that probably won't happen for at least another year.

Some people love college because of all the drinking. I hate drinking.

So is this as good as life gets? If so, I can hardly wait for eternity to begin :(

2007-08-19 12:55:02 · 6 answers · asked by Thop ite 2

Thing's about bjs and other stuff that shouldn't be said to another guy. I want to trust her, but I don't want her to know I looked in her phone. She already know's I did before and saw some stuff, I promised I wouldn't again. I don't know what to do!?! Please help!

2007-08-19 12:28:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

whats one of the most memorable things thats ever happened to you?

2007-08-19 12:16:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance and I have a couple of "ex friends" who recently moved next door to my future in-laws. Well the reason we are ex friends is because the girl...aka.Harlot...put the moves on my fiance ...even though she is married and has 2 girls..Her husband has no backbone and all though she has cheated on him numerous times...will not leave her.
This girl is the typical white trash...doesnt take care of her kids...dirty home..no morals..
well my mother in law knows the trouble this girl caused between her son and I. The other day I called mommy dear to chit chat...and dad says...Oh shes outside talking to "the whore" hehe ok not in those words....So I said "Oh poor her...tell her Im on the phone so she can get away from her"
Well he did...and mommy didnt come to the phone...even though she said she would be there in a minute. So finally, after waiting forever, I told him to tell her Id talk to her later.
Now I feel like that made me look bad, like she was more important than me..

2007-08-19 12:03:12 · 1 answers · asked by jamzesmom 2

I'm in my 20's and i feel that i'm going through one of the most confusing phases in my life. My way of thinking, attitude, and beliefs are fully changing again and i'm going through some of the most challenging life situations.

I'm a full time college student frustrated that i cannot get into the major i want. I've worked and sacrificed alot (including a social life and friends) to prepare myself and it's getting very disappointing for me and i want to give up.

I'm having friend troubles - some people i thought i was close to are people i don't want to associate myself with anymore...we're changing and growing apart. I feel like we're in different areas...

My friends and i have gone through a "life shock" when someone we knew/close to us passed on and it's been hard; my priorities have been stronger and it's hard for people to understand them...

I'm a family girl but they live in different states - they are my source of happiness but it's hard to keep in contact often because we're all so busy. I only have 2 true blue best friends but things are changing.

Love is something that i anticipate but not ready for this time in my life and hopefully i'll be blessed with someone when the right time comes...just not now...

I want to be happy and i want feel that "fufillment"...i was thinking of praying and getting closer to God but I'm not very "religious"...i'm just very spiritual and have alot of faith...what else can i do?

2007-08-19 11:58:53 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

okay so it's summer break. i haven't seen this boy since school. so why do i even think about him? i mean i like this boy a lot before but now i don't even have feelings for him. his always on my mind and i'm missing him so much.. and i don't even understand why. yea i know this sounds insane, but does anyone have a answer for me please haha thanx x

2007-08-19 11:32:44 · 3 answers · asked by c r a z y c u t i e 24 x 1

My best friends niece is staying with her along with the parents. The girl is 19 years old, dropped out of school when she was 15, got fired from every job because of laziness A couple jobs lasted only 2 hours. Says she has a thyroid problem, that is why she is about 75 lbs. overweight (I saw 6 boxes of "Little Debbie" snacks on her bed).. Why do parents not insist on making their kids get an education, learn to pick up after themselves, be productive, do something with your life instead of watching soap operas? I cannot imagine what this girls life will be like, to me, she seems doomed. The parents are allowing this to happen to their daughter She even tells her parents to get her drinks from the kitchen, make her a sandwich, for petes sake, get off the couch and help yourself!

2007-08-19 11:14:34 · 7 answers · asked by slk29406 6

This one guy from my school was using my friend through IMing to get to MY feelings, cause I tell my friend everything. It got to the point where I gave him a note asking him out, but he wrote back no. I feel like I was brainwashed. Do guys do this for fun? oh, btw, I didn't know that first part till AFTER I asked him out.

2007-08-19 11:05:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

To make a long story short. I have bitterness in me that I dont know how to get over. I have been to my home country of Barbados for years and it seems that everytime I go I get hurt by my so called friends or family. Like back stabbing and back bitting. My last trip to Barbados I realize its just not the ones who hurt me. But, the Island as a whole has some really bad ways, People there like to talk about other people I mean like everyone. And if your doing good they want to bring you down. If your white its OK but if your trying to make it as a lower income black person your not supposed to. Barbados is a very classes country. Also if your a forgeiner two things happen if your a woman for business or other wise every man just wants to take advantage of you. And this hurts I thought bigger of my country for years & to see the true picture really hurts. I have beknowned my family and my friends there. I live in NY & have no plans to ever go back. Just to get past the bitterness & pain.

2007-08-19 11:04:25 · 3 answers · asked by Ji 1

He said he wants to make love with me but he said we can't do it because it would be very difficult on his situation (having a wife and kids) and he thinks that if we do it then i will become way more attached to him...i don't care if we don't make love as long as we share time/ moments together.. i always think of him.. as in i do think of him every single minute.. i don't really know why i'm feeling this way.. i'm getting married soon to my boyfriend.. sometimes i'm thinking that i only feel this way to mr. married man because i miss my boyfriend who is working abroad.. i'm definitely confused.. i still love my boyfriend and i want to still marry him.. i just want to share time with mr. married man, i am not thinking of pulling him away from his family because i also want to have my own family with my boyfriend-husband-to-be.... help.. i'm confused...

2007-08-19 11:04:12 · 23 answers · asked by ms. jones 1

Doctor Kalia? I want his address.

2007-08-19 10:59:24 · 1 answers · asked by cindy o 1

I am looking for a FREE E-card website to send to family across the blue pond.
Are there any more (s-h-h-h-h!) "Free" websites out here that will allow me to compose, edit and send Birthday E-cards?
His 52nd birthday is coming on Aug 21, so a snail-mail card is far too late by now.
Thanks! :-)

2007-08-19 10:55:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please! This birthday party starts in less than 90 minutes! I am supposed to be in charge of the cake!

2007-08-19 10:48:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you think about who much you want to see and visit with someone, and you can't wait to be with them, but just a small reminder of what that person looks like, or the sound of their voice is enough to subside you for a while. Any ideas on why we are like that?

2007-08-19 10:20:27 · 14 answers · asked by Hot Coco Puff 7

in the parker, colorado area

2007-08-19 09:50:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

this girl asked:last night i had a dream that i was going out with my crush...and that he loved me...does this mean anything.
I've had many about my crush. Was it because it's what I wanted? Only what I wanted, and he never cared? The feelings were way way way way way way too deep to not be true, right? I mean he asked me out but I don't know.
I know I shouldn't be insecure. But I can't help it. He was not a popular, but had a lot of skater friends. I sorta knew them.
I knew what they thought of me. I doubt they hated me, I'm a pretty nice girl, too nice. But I'm different then them.
I'm basically different then most people. Not normal different, I mean different. It's been hard for me.
If I ever get to talk him, how do I talk to him about my guilt. I had felt so guilty, for years, for months I was haunted by the worst nightmare possible.
It was stuck in my head. What about the sadness? And lately the hate for him? Thinking I gave me whole heart to him. I would have done anything for him.
Or almost anything, and to me, it can be a scary thing. The hate, if he never cared at all.
The pain and guilt and sadness. And thinking he left because of me. Thinking I was stupid, blind, dumb. Thinking he never cared at all. I'm a lover not a fighter, I can't say it.
This is my head, being smart, Analyzing. I think he's a good guy, and probably loved me, I hope he did anyways.
He had a gf for a few months. In mid July, they broke up. I'm sure he knows how I feel. If we do talk, end up together.
I'm a little worried, that relationship was important to him. I know he's allowed, I want him to be happy.
But the insecurity in me feels like I'm second to her. He and I have history though. I'm worried if people find out, especially her.
I don't want to look bad. I can't help how I feel though.
For me, there

2007-08-19 09:42:19 · 1 answers · asked by samantha wilson 2

I just started high school and I like ths guy. Hes in almost all my classes. I want to talk to him, but how? don't think he would want to. What do I do? How do I tell him that I like him? HELP ME!!!

2007-08-19 09:08:01 · 1 answers · asked by Shiz-nit; :D 2

After years I have come in contact with girl now woman I admired and loved.Now she is a mother and a house wife and so am I. I just wanted to know whether she ever liked or loved me . How can I know That.

2007-08-19 07:36:25 · 5 answers · asked by karavi 1

chandran...this is the name! what do you think about it? is it a beautiful name?

2007-08-19 07:31:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

the above says it all..

2007-08-19 06:05:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

its this affection you feel for a person of your own gender.its not a romantic attraction or a sexual attraction or anything.sort of a sisterly.brotherly affection.so its not homosexuality but a very strong feeling of love and mark my words ITS NOT A ROMANTIC OR SEXUALL AFFECTION. you always think of the person and you cuddle your pillow pretending it is be him\her and you wish she\he was your own big bro or sis.you are possesive bout the person you really really really love him\her.so anyone else out there who has ever felt this way i wanna know because i feel this way bout someone.

2007-08-19 05:27:36 · 2 answers · asked by mastermind 3

These are usually the same people who complain that they can't afford to save for retirement, pay for their house/cars, pay bills, have no free-time, no vacations etc etc? Fill their lives with so much unnessary BS that you don't even need!!!

For example:

I was at Publix the other day (grocery store chain in the Southeast US) and this lady with four kids said to the cashier (typical woman to woman chit-chat), "I don't understand why our lives is so difficult. Me make a good income but we have no disposable income and constantly stressed out." Well she left and the cashier told me when I walked up and she said," I can't believe that lady has four kids and has the NERVES to wonder why her life is the way it is." I simply told she has more common sense then most Americans (this being a low-piad cashier mind you again).

Are some people so eager to conform to society's ways that they don't get care what the consequences are almost like being in an opium-induced state?????

2007-08-19 04:27:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is like this. I have a distans relationship with a man I love with all my heart. He loves me too very much but it has being difficult to see each other. There are a lot of other things that stand in our way, he is younger than me and is planning to move to live here, but he has to face a lot of things, learn a new language, a new culture, learn to deal with my children when they are here every other week, etc. Still aour love it has been strong. I had hope until a month ago. A woman I know who says that she is a clarvoyant or whatever she may call said to me that our love wouldn't become a fact and that I shuld get tigether in the future with a man a little older than me and I was going to get married to this man.

Now, this made me very sad because I have spent two years fiting for this relationship I have and we are even making plans together. This woman made me feel hoppless, I feel I lost my enthusiasm, my hoppes for a future with the person I love, I feel emptiness. What to do?

2007-08-19 03:54:57 · 5 answers · asked by M. V 2

2007-08-19 03:38:26 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2

My daughters friend done this and my sister has told me that it is classed as paodophellia! Is she right?

2007-08-19 03:06:27 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

Many of the postures are provocative and include her friends.
Her mother is struggling this summer to finish her Master's degree and is a single mother and very stressed out. I don't know how to bring this to her attention without, a) having them both "shoot the messenger" (me), having my neice furious with me for years to come, facing my sister's denial and causing her MORE stress. (We are not close). Please advice . . .

2007-08-19 02:34:08 · 48 answers · asked by apples 3