I had a girlfriend who was very passive-aggressive. It drove me nuts! Nothing was ever her fault and she lied alot. She bent over backwards for her friends, family, and even strangers, but dragged her feet when it came to me. She had too much pride to apologize for mistakes and uncovered lies and offered gifts instead. She only had complaints about me when I had complaints about her. I would confront her about something that happened, say, yesterday and she would start going off on me about the past two months.
The message I got from that was "I keep my mouth shut when I'm angry and you should do the same, especially if you're angry at me". I always felt, and still do, that if something is REALLY bothering you about someone, you won't wait until the other person gets mad at you first before you say something. I eventually let her go because I felt she lives in a dream world where she always gets her way, she's always right, and she's above reproach. Totally unrealistic.
2006-08-24
21:10:45
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