When I was in America back in 1999 I was sexually assulted by an employer. I took him to court but the jury found reasonable doubt and he got off.
I made friends with a guy called David while I was out there (lived there for 2 years). He and I were like best mates (but nothing more). We wrote to each other a few times after I came back to the UK and then at xmas, I went back out there to stay with him for a few weeks.
While I was there he told me (in a 'it's no big deal' kind of way), that he is really good mates now with the wife of the bloke who assulted me.
The facts/issues are:
1. He knew this women before the assult, but he knew how horrible she was to me while the case was going through.
2. I don't live in the USA, she does and he does obviously, so is it fair to ask him to be loyal to me as I live so far away?
3. He still claimed to be my best mate when I was out visiting, so how can he justify being friends with her?
Should I still be mates with him? What do u think
2006-08-25
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Easy Rider
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