Family - December 2006

enterprise or family or lover or other things ?

2006-12-22 11:56:09 · 5 answers · asked by jjbctvzm 1

i yelled at my bor and he call me mean!

2006-12-22 11:53:13 · 6 answers · asked by cuilte_babe_101 1

can any one give me some advice

2006-12-22 11:49:46 · 16 answers · asked by joejoe_midnight_smokey 1

still live at home, i am 24. I pull my wieght wround the house (cooking and cleaning since my mother is the most undomestic person in the world). I have 3 younger brothers...19,21,23.

It seems like NO ONE has a house key and since we all work different hours i seem to be the one home while all of them plus my mom come home and knock on the door and ring the bell. I try to ignore it cuz its annoying. I wait like 4 minutes before i go downstairs and pretend i was in the bathroom or shower. My mom gets mad, like it is my responsibility. My brothers even call me at 3 in the AM to let them in! I try to ignore the calls.

I sent my family a nice email and suggested that everyone try to remember keys or have them made becasue it i have become the one responsible for letting them in. Instead of being supportive, my mom acts like a b*&^% to me and tells me she doesnt even want to talk about it. Unbelievable.

Should i ust hop in the shower whenever someone starts knocking?

2006-12-22 11:47:44 · 10 answers · asked by stephasoris 4

I have inlaws that I HATE!!
My husband seems to think it is his job to help them out financially when they are in trouble!
How to I make him realize that it is not his responsibility and make him stand up to his dad and tell him that he needs to get a job instead of always complaining about it to us?
I have only been married 6 months and I hate his dad so so much he is such an asshole! does any else relate to me ?

2006-12-22 11:36:12 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2

Apparently, every Christmas day, there are people admitted to emergency rooms and an abnormal amount of domestic abuse calls because people flip out and hurt themselves or somebody else trying to get kids toys out of the packages fast enough...
Kids today are so spoiled and expect such instant gratification that they rip the wrapping off the package and can't be bothered with all the twist ties, or assembling things, or inserting batteries, etc., so Mom or Dad have to do it and they are already stressed beyond belief just getting Christmas together to begin with....
They just lose it, or end up cutting off a finger or poking themself in the eye....
Am I the only one who finds this a little too much?

2006-12-22 11:35:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

My mother is about 45 and has been home maker since my father started his own business and it was doing well. The business is going through tough times, so my mom had to start working everyday again after about 13 years of just being a house wife. Obviously, this puts a lot of extra stress on her that she wasn't used to having to deal with. On top of that, my little sister is 14 and is going through that "im better than everyone" phase which isn't helping mom's stress level. I could really use some help on this one.

2006-12-22 11:20:26 · 6 answers · asked by Michael N 2

Certain things about them make you believe they don't have much money. They are buying Christmas gifts for kids (you assume they are for thier own kids). When the woman goes to pay you notice several small things in her purse that they are not paying for and a new toy sticking out of the mans back pocket (still in the package). Do you:

1. Call security
2. Ask to see a recipt for the items in the purse and the man's pocket.
3. Let them go.

2006-12-22 11:16:05 · 8 answers · asked by Jack H 1

The people here are really snotty and I have to deal with it for at least a year!

2006-12-22 11:05:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

me and my baby father has been going through drama for a year now( that's how long we been apart), and he wants our daughter to go over his house sunday(christmas eve) , but anyway I don't want her to go because he told my ma that when our baby cried over his house he just put her in the play pen and let her cry her self to sleep, so am i wrong for thinking about saying no? , he can come over here to see her though. Help!

2006-12-22 10:59:24 · 3 answers · asked by twiggy_vienna_love 5

ok i am 15 and my dad and i are always fighting over stupid stuff. but it wouldnt be bothering me as much if it wasnt EVERY NIGHT!!!!!! and i try to please him by doing everything he wants me to do but he still finds sumthin to gripe about. like when i became a cheerleader he didnt say congradulations or anything but he did find sumtin else to gripe about. to make matters worse my mom takes his side and so i get screamed at double. so i am really really mad cuz i am always in trouble for NOTHING!!!! so give me some advise on what to do about this.

2006-12-22 10:51:58 · 19 answers · asked by STiLL<3HiM 2

My sister is 11 years old and my brother is 13 and they still believe in santa. should I tell them theres no santa or just wait till they find out on there own?
I mean like my brother kinda beileves theres a santa but kinda doesent believe theres a santa.

2006-12-22 10:47:17 · 10 answers · asked by bearcatz_07 4

should I be mad and hurt?

2006-12-22 10:37:10 · 8 answers · asked by bunkysdaughter 1

What should I get my boyfriend's parents for Christmas? His mother loves crafty things and taking pictures, but also gets stressed a lot...

His stepfather is a carpenter, and I don't know too much about him except that he's nice.

I'm sixteen, and I'm not rich. I want it to be personal. Besides, they have money to go to spas and restaurants. So what should I do?

For his mother I was thinking of making a lovely journal to which she can put pictures in...

...And she has plenty of lovely pictures of him.

Thanks!

2006-12-22 10:28:24 · 5 answers · asked by cadence_lost 3

Whenever my family gets together my sister starts to bring up stuff that embarasses me. I must admit I was sort of a brat as a child, but no more so than most normal kids; we didn't get along very well as kids. She always brings up things that I did when I was like 12 years old (or even younger!!!) and we are in our 20's now! She brings up things in front of family and friends that either make me look like a bad person or embarass me (or both). I don't understand why she would want to do this...how can I get her to stop this without getting into an argument with her? I have brought it up to her in the past but she just says that I am freaking out about nothing...I guess I feel like she is being sort of passive-aggressive. Why would she want to make me look bad in front of others? We get along really well now that we're adults, but when we spend too much time around each other (like we will be this week for Christmas!) this is when her behavior starts. How can I deal with this?

2006-12-22 10:27:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's not doing so well in school.

2006-12-22 10:21:04 · 4 answers · asked by abenajjarine 2

I miss my dad who passed away on the 27th of December 2004!.
At 82, he was around for the best parts of my life. He made us all jump to attention, not literally, but his presence. He certainly made the Earth move that night.

2006-12-22 10:13:47 · 6 answers · asked by Old Man of Coniston!. 5

when i was about 9 or 10 years old, my parents always used to yell at me for being too shy and not socializing with the kids in my class. but i at least used to smile and be polite and participate in class. and the other kids in my class class thought i was quiet, but friendly. now by younger brother on the other hand WAS A LOT WORSE at that age. he never used to say a single word, never used to smile, or be polite, and never participated in class. he always had a sad and gloomy face, and practically was silent. my parents NEVER yelled at him for this. why is this so? it's really not fair.

2006-12-22 10:10:48 · 9 answers · asked by starbucksluvrxoxo 3

If a minor get's kicked out of his home by his parents, what can he do, if he has no family around?

2006-12-22 10:00:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

had went on a trip to see my sick in health grandmother in the midwest traveling from San Francisco to St.Louis.And when I arrived there, my aunt called me to let me know she wouldn't be able to pick me up,and she told me to catch the bus, closer to the town, then when I got there, some of my cousins were there and they just looked,keep in mind I hadn't seen any of these people in thirthteen years, supposedly they were upset at the fact that I never visited them, and they were upset at the fact that I waited until my grandmother was on her deathbed, so everyone was sort of upset at me, for that reason, then I left which was bad because my grandmother was dying and I should have stayed by her side, and then my family was even more upset at me calling me bitches, and to never contact them again.My aunt who was supposed to pick me up, kept saying you think you a celebrity, you think you all that.And I'm like damn, they really dislike me for not coming back to visit,How do I deal with t

2006-12-22 09:55:55 · 7 answers · asked by Taylor 1

My mother and father in-law have treated me with disprespect for the last 7 years. My husband did not have a real close relationship with his parents before we got married other than a few phone calls on the holidays or seeing them on the holidays. I come from a real close family who talks about every other day. After we got married I always initiated get togethers, etc.... his parents rarely called us after we got married on a regular basis or came to visit us, we went to their house for the holidays and that was pretty much it. Everything was always on their terms, holidays usually. My husband wrote them a nice letter explaining how we wanted to be close etc and his mom assumed I wrote the letter and wrote a nasty letter back to me about how I pissed her off and she thought the letter was stupid and that she was cancelling christmas with us. This was last year. I wrote her a letter in response to her nasty letter about 7 months ago and havent heard from them since. what now?

2006-12-22 09:53:50 · 10 answers · asked by karlee 3

2006-12-22 09:50:41 · 7 answers · asked by LoVeAnGeL_BabyV 1

2006-12-22 09:46:34 · 18 answers · asked by Shawn M 1

Last night a mixture of emotions overwhelmed me. I went to a hockey game with my best friend and her guy. They are so close and i know im extremely jealous and third-wheel like, but i never show it. We stayed there later than planned, and we also slid off the side of the road. I was suppose to attend my friends party, but my sister unexpectedly came home. Things at home were way too chaotic and i had to beg to go to this party from my bipolar father, and my sister was drunk and poured alcohol all over the house and was about to set fire to it when i had to restrain her. She came at with a knife also. After that i just left to go to this party. My friend said i was the most ******* self centered person and i really hurt her feeelings ( i was 3 hours late). She blew up at me and now turned 15 people against me. wtf . so i went out with a friend later, along with two other guys. This guy tried getting on my and was majorly drunk and we didnt ahve a ride anywhere. my friend started

2006-12-22 09:35:13 · 3 answers · asked by kat 3

my mom and i are debating if should have one or not ANSWER QUICK!

2006-12-22 09:31:52 · 22 answers · asked by Loretteeeee :) 1

So I have this aunt who is a true brut. Everyone knows it. She decided out of the blue ten years ago that she didn't want her family to be involved with the others anymore and completely pulled the plug on all gatherings. Well, a few years back, again out of the blue, she became this family woman and was right back at the gatherings acting like nothing was wrong. Anyway, she and I both conincidently bought puppies this summer. At our July 4th family gathering (at her place), our pups played really well together. So, at Thanksgiving (again at her place) I figured it would be fine for them to have another play-date. Since we only live a few blocks away I asked her if after everyone had finished eating if I could bring my pup by to play. She made me look like an idiot in front of everyone, making this disguisted face, shaking her head and saying "No, I would rather you didn't." I was floored! So, with X-mas being at OUR house this year...any thoughts on how to get back at her while sweet?

2006-12-22 09:30:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok i will set the scene for you. A mother & daughter goes to bingo and another daughter walks in and they see her and then that daughter goes and sits down by herself and the mother does not even ask for her to come and set with them.
They are there in that building for 3 hours and not once does that mother come and ask the other daughter to come set with them. (Because daughter A does not like Daughter B should the mom be picking sides?)

The daughter that sat alone finally got up and told her mom that she was dirty for being this way to her and her mom was speechless and turned around and walked off. There was only one table in between the mother and the daughter.

What do you think of this? Should daughter B even have anything to do with her mom?
Thanks

2006-12-22 09:29:54 · 11 answers · asked by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7

my mother in law and father in law have been staying with us since Oct 2006 to help my brother in law. The living situation is becoming uncomfortable because we live in a very small house there is always conflicts about using the restroom, taking showers etc. My son is feeling very uncomfortable and so am I. My in-laws expect for me to do everything housework, cook, etc and work outside the home. There is even fights over a bag of chips I gave my son some chips and my father in law got mad because they were his chips. Me and my husband pay all the bills and buy groceries and share everything with them so this really hurt my feelings and made me angry. Pls help

2006-12-22 09:10:41 · 12 answers · asked by angelina o 1

My mom just lost her job today. I know that she is going to come home all gripy and ready to get mad over enything. I've been cleaning the house, spottless, but she will still find something to get mad about when she gets home. When she's mad, she acts likes she's 4yrs old and throwing a tantrum. She'll hate everything for the entire weekend +. It's allmost Christmas and I don't want her to be like that. No matter what we do, comfort her, clean, say we love her, stay away from her, she will still HATE everything. She will act depressed and it will seem like theres nothing we can do for her. I really don't want her to be so mad during Christmas time. Not to mention she is a little hatefull to my dad, brother and I. NOTHING makes her smile. What do I do to make her feel better? I hate seeing her like this, it allso makes the rest of the house so depressing.

2006-12-22 09:09:00 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

80% of her conversation is highly negative, she is constatnly irritable and angry at the world. We dont live in her town so I usually spend 3 to 4 days in a row with her and my husband. She talks bad about people, talks bad about African Americans in the south and she has even talked bad about latin people in my face (I am mexican). I try to stay calm and just ignore it, but it gets to my nerves sometimes, sometimes it really drains me.
I dont want to just cut ties with her as I know is important for my husband and find it really rude to just never show up in her home.
How do I deal with this?

2006-12-22 08:51:48 · 24 answers · asked by Alejandra 1