Family & Relationships - 2 December 2006

There is this guy in my class who I really like, but I have no chance with him. I know who he likes, and she likes him back...But, He already knows that I like him because a friend of mine told him(I'm kinda mad at the friend), and I think I need to talk to the guy a like. I don't know what to tell him, but I really feel I should talk to him about it...please help me!!

2006-12-02 08:31:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please don't just say be yourself. Because I am reallly shy around guys, and thats not myself but I just don't know how to not. I just want some techniques.

2006-12-02 08:31:22 · 9 answers · asked by Liz♥ 4 in Singles & Dating

My question is im pretty good at attracting women so that the let me makeout with them with in 30 minutes of meeting them at a bar. But after we kiss, i freeze up and i dont know what i am doing. How do i take the kiss in the bar to my bedroom? any tips playas and playettes?

2006-12-02 08:29:32 · 8 answers · asked by Answer man 1 in Singles & Dating

What kind of hints will shy guys drop if they like you?What kind of hints should i give him that i like him without acting all desperate and clingy and attached?We both are in highschool,he is a grade older than me and is super shy around girls he likes,but he has a lot of girls that are his friends.We have a lot in common,same shows,music,friends,etc.What kind of hints will he drop and what kind of hints should i drop to show i like him?I
I'm pretty outgoing,but we both haven't really had a real relationship?

2006-12-02 08:29:05 · 5 answers · asked by jayjay 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 08:28:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend got her first boyfriend about 2 months ago and shes very excited about him but she completely ignores me when they're together.... he pays more attention to me than she does. l'll be at her house and he will just show up and they'll start makin out on her bed like I'm not there.

2006-12-02 08:27:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The worst part is, he doesnt get how much it hurts. He did this befor about 3 months ago, we went out all summer and for another half a month into school, but we dont go to the same school and he is a grade younger. the first time he dumped me i didnt get an answer as to why or anything. this time, i havent seen him in 2 weeks and ive been asking him to go do stuff [movies, mall, friends,etc.] but he 'couldnt' or just didnt respond and kept asking to talk to a frend of ours[kind of the frend in between, if u kno] i still really love him and in total we've gone out for just over 4 months
bottom line, how can i get over this or at least not have it hurt me so badly?

2006-12-02 08:27:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 08:26:43 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a girl friend, i love her and she does, but i care more about her than she does ! and iam afraid about her than she does! she doesn't ask about things where i feel its big like when iam driving in the rain she doesn't even say takcare in driving ! is it more confidence or that she's not really caring !
when she describes her sister husband i feel like she likes his character too much which makes me feel jelus and hate her sister and her husband !
alot of stories, but is there is a way to make sure of that she loves me for real as i do .. are we will be good togather as husband and wife......

2006-12-02 08:26:35 · 12 answers · asked by bayhell 1 in Singles & Dating

Really, what do look for? Everythang. I need guy's to tell me! Please and thanks! <3 ;-)

2006-12-02 08:25:56 · 15 answers · asked by Ali 2 in Singles & Dating

If you went out with a man and his sexual performance was more of a sprint than a marathon, how would you address the problem without hurting his feelings?

2006-12-02 08:25:49 · 27 answers · asked by Stripper 3 in Singles & Dating

Because a woman just got out of a long term relationship and didn't want an exclusive relationship, a man and a woman start talking about having a friends w/benefits relationship.

She says she isn't sure but finally says she really wants to be with him but is is nervous because she hasn't been w/anyone other than her ex for a long time. She asks him to be patient with her and go slow. He says okay.

They were talking about seeing each other that night but when she asks he then says "no it wouldn't be a good idea". She asks what he thought she meant when she asked him to go slow and be patient. He said he thought she meant continuing slowly as friends before having sex.

2006-12-02 08:24:36 · 7 answers · asked by j t 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a 10yr old granddaughter, & I'm having a hard time thinking of good gift ideas for her. She's at that age that I really don't know what she's interested in anymore. At age 10, she is no longer a little child, but she's not a teen yet, either. She's a middle child (older brother is 16, younger sister is 6).

The last time she stayed with us for an extended visit we read a book to each other, & worked on some children's crafts. She'll soon be starting her 1st yr playing b-ball for her school. She is a creative & fun-loving child, but I also believe she has a inferiority complex, partly because she's a tiny bit overweight, & her little sis takes the limelight. I doubt if there's a gift out there that will help her with that though!

We're low-income, living on DH's soc. sec., so we can't spend a lot. I figure around $20-$25 is all I can afford for each of my grandchildren. I have more than 3 grandchildren to buy for, plus everyone else on my list.

Any suggestions?
Donna

2006-12-02 08:24:07 · 4 answers · asked by dlcarnall 4 in Family

This new kid came last year. A few things happened between him and my friend but I found out that he liked me and not her. A lot of things happened and he was my first kiss. It continued for the rest of last year. Before the kiss he had 2 girlfriends and always looked and flirted with me. This year we kissed but i never made out with him because we weren't going out. I told him this and things happened and he stopped talking to me. I talked to him a few times on the phone and the convos. weren't what I wanted. We ended up fighting and now we don't even talk. He has a girlfriend. But I always catch him staring and when he is around her and sees me, he will kiss her and stuff like that. He told one of my friends something that makes me think he doesn't like her and just wants one thing. I don't know what to do. HELP!

2006-12-02 08:22:41 · 4 answers · asked by littlenikki57 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy but i want him to notice me and start talking 2 me..should i just start talking to him or make myself over so he notices me?

2006-12-02 08:21:48 · 18 answers · asked by Brittany-x 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean love you with all their heart and soul. And did you appreciate it or walk all over them?

2006-12-02 08:21:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was so shocked!!! She's PREGNANT!!! Omfg I ask her if her mom knows, she was like No her momma didn't know and i was scare about her cuz her mom was always drunk and having a bad tempers all the days and she been doing a laid affair with a radoms of mens i was scare cuz her mom might hurt her if her mom finds out if you have any advice please IM me at blondeluvspink2010 i'm online !

2006-12-02 08:20:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been married for almost 3 years now however I want to get a divorce. My soon to be ex husband is going to file the papers in January. Does anyone know how long it takes for the divorce to be finalized? Does anyone know how the process can be any faster? Please help I really just want to get this divorce over with. Thank you guys for all your help! Take care.

2006-12-02 08:20:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well last yr when i was in 7th grade i wrote him a note and put it in his locker and he never returned it?? i mean i have liked this guy for a yr now and i really want to go out w/ him how do i ask him out cause well i'm kind of shy around guys...when he's around i can't even say hi. i know sad so how can i???

2006-12-02 08:20:07 · 2 answers · asked by Kallee n 2 in Singles & Dating

He is brutal, a maniac and rarely home in time and does not provide for the family yet you still saty on. What keeps you going even when you can clearly see that he wont change?

2006-12-02 08:19:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after our makeup she keeps sending little hints about what they have done in the past that i wasn't aware of.

2006-12-02 08:19:45 · 19 answers · asked by madmommamojo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was straightforward with this guy that i just wanted to be platonically friends when I started to feel that he wanted to be more than friends... he was ok with it.. he said it was cool... now the other day he asked if i ever thought about him and i being more than friends... should i stay away from him? i don't want anything more with him than just being friends...

2006-12-02 08:19:12 · 6 answers · asked by lala15 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend started out as best friends when we got together i stopped using drugs for him i was quite addicted and now have been coke free for about a year. while in my partying days i had sex with a few people he knew and thay all said i was amazing in bed so of course assumed i was the truth is though that i basically just used to lay there and get ******. im to embarassed to tell my boyfriend this now he thinks i dont like having sex with him because i dont iniciate and im not as good as ppl said the truth i dont know how to iniciate i never had to i love him and im scared i might lose hi if i dont get better in bed

2006-12-02 08:18:59 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Theres this guy i love a lot.
But im scared to be with him im scared
hes going to turn into every other
guy i dated and like yeah i dont want
to loose him

2006-12-02 08:18:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've never been in a relationship. I've never even kissed a guy! Is this unusual? I have this really close group of about 10 friends and probably six or seven of them have never kissed a guy either. but then there's the others who have had sex, etc. Im just wondering if its really unsual to be my age and never kissed a guy before, or been in a relationship. help!

2006-12-02 08:17:48 · 18 answers · asked by Anna 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-02 08:17:07 · 8 answers · asked by Sushi C 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't really want to talk to my boyfriend right now. i don't know why. i still love him and all but i just dont feel like talking to him. i just want to be mad at him for no reason.

2006-12-02 08:17:00 · 4 answers · asked by jEN 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy so much. Problem: he’s my ex boyfriend. He likes me too but right now all we are doing is just messing around….physically. and I want our relationship to not be all based completly on physical attraction. I don’t know how to word it to him. I have no idea how I could even start. Because we aren’t going out. There is no real relationship. But I just want to be more than that and I don’t know if its healthy for me to be waiting around for him to just ask me out. I’m just shy and I’m willing to wait and I know that’s not right….advice please

2006-12-02 08:16:42 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

for the past 6 years we've done the family thing, we would like a bit of time for just the two of us but we've got mums to think about. Our siblings are tw*ts who do whatever they like at Christmas but I dont want my mum to be on her own or my girlfriends mum to feel left out.
Any suggestions please?

2006-12-02 08:16:41 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Men - would you date a woman who is still a virgin, and wants to wait until her wedding night? Why or why not?

2006-12-02 08:16:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating