Family & Relationships - 29 November 2006

My mother is a hateful, bitter, depressing woman. She never likes who I am dating,or any of my friends. She wants me to come to her home for holidays, but doesn't want anyone else around, or complains about it if I do invite someone the next day. She says hateful things to me, like why don't you and your son just stay the **** away from me. The chick is nutts I tell ya, she says don't stand on the porch smoking a cigarette the people will talk, oh don't speak to her the people will talk, tell that person to go away I dont wanna talk, she has completely lost her mind. Mind you I am not a child I am over 30, I have my own home, a career and I am a graduate student. I am always buying stuff for my mom and trying to please her and win her affection by getting rid of boyfriends because she says they are loosers, or getting rid of friends until I noticed that that was everyone that I ever datedor knew. I had enough, she said stay away and this time I am tempted to just leave her alone.

2006-11-29 07:17:34 · 5 answers · asked by Jazz 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Dont get me wrong, I love my man. But when we're having sex, he just doesnt last. I mean its rough...I find myself faking just to keep him happy. But to be honest I'm sick of faking, I want the real deal!!! How do I keep him going??? I know we both work long days and are tired when we get home at night but sheesh give a girl a chance! What should I do????

2006-11-29 07:17:25 · 4 answers · asked by Angie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've been together for 4 years and I feel that I have gotten him everything I can think of. Anybody got any ideas of what I should get him this year or do?

2006-11-29 07:17:04 · 19 answers · asked by Mona217 2 in Singles & Dating

okay this is pretty whacky to do but, I just would like to get a wider horizon on this issue. I truly am stuck and do not know which guy to choose to date. Guy "A" is my exboyfriend of 2 years (2 checkered years of up and down), we've been seperated for several months now and he wants us to try again. He truly is a great guy, very caring and loving, he has a big heart, but he just doesn't quite do it for me. I love him but I'm not in love with him, you know?! Next is guy "B", now I just met him a few months ago and I don't know much about him, but to me he's new and refreshing, and no I don't see the same big heart in him as with guy "A", but he is sincere and he does give my heart an extra beat (but I'm sure that's only because things are always sweet and exciting in the begining LOL) anyhow I need help, do I stick with what I know and learn to love; or do I risk it and take a chance on a possible new love?

2006-11-29 07:16:35 · 9 answers · asked by darylann 2 in Singles & Dating

So I ran into an ex-boyfriend of mine from a few years back the other night at the bar and we started talking. When the bars closed I invited him and a few other friends back to my place. While there he confessed to me that he "still loves me" and "made a mistake letting me go" and that he wants to "try again". I was a little shocked because he was the one who ended the relationship in the first place. He wanted an answer right then and there and I told him I couldn't give him one that very second. I said I wasn't ruling anything out but also not ruling anything in. We never fought, have the same friends and get along great. The reason he broke up with me is because someone put some horrible words in my mouth and he reacted the way anyone would in his situation. Once he realised the truth he felt it was to late to make things better and "let me go".

He is a wonderful person but I don't know if it is s good idea to get back together with an ex.

What do you say?

2006-11-29 07:16:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been having trouble lately. We both love each other but fight for stupid reasons. I hear a difference in his voice when he talks to me now. How do I know for sure when to call it quits? We've been together for 10 years and I don't know If I could start over without him!

2006-11-29 07:16:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-29 07:15:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

growing up my dad's side aunt and there kids always acted like they were better. OK, 10 yrs ago keep in mind I lived with my looser father, who is poor and abusive. They always blames my mom for him being a looser. She had divorced a long time ago and they blamed her. I findly got away and got to have a normal life with my mom. There related to him too. Anyways, they always act like I have do more than them. When I do something better than them they act like they don't see it. There so proud of my cousin who took 6 yrs to finish a 2 yr degree. Then my other 2 cousin need to go to rehab. I live a better life than my cousin now and they act like there still better than me. I don't do drugs and I'm not a idot. I'm wondering if there jealous of me? I'm not rich but I've got more money than my cousin. My husband is highly educated. Keep in mind I did once wear rags. I'm not snobby either. Is it hard for them to beleive it? That I could turn out better compared to them??

2006-11-29 07:15:33 · 9 answers · asked by Monet 6 in Family

We have been good friends for years, but lately, she told a group of little girls that I am her boyfriend. She then told me what she had done later, and kept saying "Isn't that sooo funny?" The thing is we talked about being more than friends about two months ago, and we decided to stay friends. I told her she was my type which is why we got along so well. She has done other suspicious things since - but nothing like this. Is she hinting at me??

2006-11-29 07:15:03 · 11 answers · asked by +TheEndIsInSight+ 2 in Singles & Dating

me and my girlfriend been together about a month, we fight alot but we aways get through it, the thing is it always seems ike i am apoligizing. I never get mad at her because i fear a break up, but she gets mad easily and seems like if we broke up it doesnt phase her. I fear that she doesnt realy want to be with me, am i wrong, and how to i stop fighting alot with her

2006-11-29 07:14:25 · 10 answers · asked by peter r 2 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy and I'm pretty sure he likes me but he hasn't approached me. My friends keep telling me that I have to be the aggressor with this particular guy. But I just don't feel like putting in the effort. In every relationship I was in, I had to be the agressor. I'm tired of being the aggressor. I want someone to come after me for a change. I do want to be in a relationship but like I said I don't want to put in the effort.

2006-11-29 07:14:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I know my bf is free, I always wanted to spend time with him. He was telling me that I am like a dog with a bone. I cannot help myself. I always feel better when I am around with my bf. What should I do?

2006-11-29 07:13:30 · 15 answers · asked by Crazy in love 2 in Singles & Dating

if a guy flirts with you in his text messages when he is drunk,is it possible that he fancies you and is really too shy to say these things otherwise?

2006-11-29 07:12:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wow, don't worry, I'm not Emo or too depressed, but I feel that I've been forgotten lately.. I talk to my family a lot, but it seems that they talk to my brothers and sisters and my other family relatives a lot more, I'm social most of the time, but they just say "Heh, hmm.. yea. Cool.. yea"

Also I know this girl Amanda at my College, well 3 months ago she dropped out because she was tired of school and looking for a job, but she said to me "Email me and we can keep in touch, I'll be there to talk to you." I was cool with that, but I emailed her a lot, and to see if we could hang out, but she didn't respond back to me in a long time... maybe she has a boyfriend, and even if she did I wouldn't be jealous one bit, we'll just be friends.

Went to my cousin John's party, and there were a lot of people there, and I was having a good time, and I was very social, not too talkative, but they ignore me, even my cousin John.

It feels like my friends and family have forgotten me.

2006-11-29 07:12:21 · 9 answers · asked by Randy S 3 in Friends

you both like the same guy and it's not easy, because he may like one of you more, but the other is usually more forward, so she leaves with him

2006-11-29 07:12:18 · 14 answers · asked by MAR 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 07:12:13 · 15 answers · asked by broctune 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last time I went to visit him in the nursing home I walked out with a cool 100 bucks and he didn't know any better. HAHAHA

2006-11-29 07:11:45 · 11 answers · asked by The Governor of the Chapped Star 2 in Family

Like I've drove by my ex house in another car

2006-11-29 07:11:25 · 12 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Singles & Dating

All this advice about moving on from one relationship to another doesnt' seem to be working. Me and my Ex have been apart for over 7 months now, I've dated other people, I even have a Girl friend, but every day my thoughts are crowded by my Ex and how much i Miss the little things about her. My head wants to move on to the next chapter in my life by my heart wants to go back :( any other advice?

2006-11-29 07:11:18 · 9 answers · asked by Globe199 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend are always together at school, recently theres this girl who always walks by us and stares as shes walking, so i told him about it and when he saw who it was he told me he didnt know who she was and i told him i didnt know who she was either. So today i told him to watch her look at us and i told him i was just going to ignore her as she walked passed... so as she walked pass she stopped and started staring and i could see this out the corner of my eyes, so then my boyfriend looked at me and began to smile because she was staring then i turned and looked at her and she smiled at me and walked off. Aint that kind of weird?? Why do you think she did this, we dont even know her!!

2006-11-29 07:11:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

if he/she told u 2 stop talking to this guy/girl would u?

2006-11-29 07:10:14 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in high school anyways today in my Math class my ex bf was sitting across from me and my friend Mike was saying that he'll clone me and I told my friend Mike no don't. And my ex bf said yeah. And he was glancing over at me and stuff and he kept listening in on my convo with my friend Laura and he was talking to my friend Mike about it. So why would he be doing all this?

2006-11-29 07:09:36 · 3 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Singles & Dating

This is from me lying to her about money a few times, I did't realize how much this hurt her. We have two young kids and she has a 12 yr old girl. I can't imagine not being with her or my kids. The hard thing is that when i met her I just had to be me. now hiw do I get her to love me?

2006-11-29 07:09:27 · 29 answers · asked by Ben S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am over 5,7 feet tall and I have difficulty in getting a date,Is there any way I can improve my chances in getting more women

2006-11-29 07:09:20 · 8 answers · asked by Sean S 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 07:09:06 · 3 answers · asked by tina p 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-29 07:09:04 · 8 answers · asked by confused 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Does anybody know who the person by the name Dave White is? I need to know more about who he is.

2006-11-29 07:09:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

When I am soft I am reall REALLY small. But when hard it is plenty big...not huge but not lacking. It way more than doubles in size and width. I get imbarrassed when its soft and try to cover. Do I really need to be worried? What would you think of it if I were your b/f? Would you laugh at me ? Would you care?

2006-11-29 07:08:12 · 22 answers · asked by idiot_for_a_day 2 in Singles & Dating

Every time I answer a question on relationships Dana Brown tries to get them to come to there web site for a relationship. Don't you know there are plenty of web sites out there for dating. Not yahooanswers. Im just wondering do you get paid for this if so tell me how.

2006-11-29 07:07:47 · 2 answers · asked by My two cents 4 in Singles & Dating

Should we get married or stay single for ever? At the end, is love what keeps people together right?

2006-11-29 07:06:42 · 27 answers · asked by Carmen R 3 in Marriage & Divorce