Family & Relationships - 26 October 2006

married i have not spoken to his family due to things they have done, now we seem to argue about me not going over there to see them and he does not understand how uncomfortable they make me feel. He said his family will always come first. Do you think i should stick it out and deal with it or leave b/4 we go any further?

2006-10-26 02:57:30 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

From personal experience/opinion:

What is "scandalous" to you? (meaning in a sexual sense) Are you adventurous and open to new things or are you reserved and pretty much stick to "missionary"?
What would be too "degrading" to you? (aside from incest, beastiality and pedophilia of course....)

2006-10-26 02:57:26 · 4 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Singles & Dating

I am single after spliting with my partner of 5 years, almost 10 months ago now. I am up for meeting someone new, but don't really want to settle down again so soon. I am having lots of men chat me up and asking to take me out. Is it wrong to go on lots of dates with these different men. I'm not sleeping with any of them...and if they asked if I was seeing anyone else I would be honest.

2006-10-26 02:54:05 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My granfather passed away last friday and his funeral was yesterday and my three girls went with me of course 8,6,and 4 and now they feel really bad about things but wont talk and when they do its hard to explain to them so if you have any advice on how to talk to them about it let me know please!

2006-10-26 02:53:09 · 11 answers · asked by mom of three 1 in Family

i m in love with my friend's boyfriend so is i m being very selfish. As how can i?

2006-10-26 02:53:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The only relationship other than my own that the man is almost completely happy is one where the woman knows how to fill his needs and he does the same. The needs are different, but women just dont understand that one of the nedds/wants of any man is to get daily satisfaction. My wife and I have intercourse about 2-3 times a week but she takes care of me everyday and I take care of her whenever she asks, which is about 1-2 times a week other than the intercourse. Why don't you women understand that when a man is satisfied every day we think very little if at all about sex with other women. Otherwise, we usually size up every woman we see just to imagine in our head if we would have sex with them. I kow it's barbaric, but that's the way we were made. Most women were made to vent about things, and it is our job to just listen and not to try to fix it. Other than me venting here, I don't have that need. So can you women just go pleasure your men today and everyday?

2006-10-26 02:51:24 · 24 answers · asked by Jon O 4 in Marriage & Divorce

People putting higher value on some things in marriage than others.
such as:
It's more immoral to betray than to raise your children without a father?

2006-10-26 02:49:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been together for 9 years. We have been married for 5 years. We have two children together and I have a daughter from a previous relationship. I feel like the reason I married him was so I would not be alone and my family hated him. They tired to tell me but I wouldnt listen. He will not keep a job to support us. In the last 9 years the longest he has kept a job is 8 months. I think he has worked every place in our town. He also used to be very selfish. Well there is more to this, long story short, I have fallen out of love with him. We have been trying to fix it, and I have been trying to find my feelings for him but they just aren't coming back to me. He wants me to just forget about all the hurt and pain he has put me through because he is trying to change for the better. And he is changing but I am thinking it is too late to find that love again. I had given up on him. I shut my heart down to keep it from being hurt again.

2006-10-26 02:49:33 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-26 02:48:29 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and a friend have alot of these kinds of convos. And this time its:

Heres the Scenario.

Girl is weary if the guy is faithful
After a small arguement, the girl looks at him with a serious face
"Do you love me?" she asks?

You look up- you dont know
you look down- your not confident enough to know
look to the side- your not sure
say it to fast- you just want her to shut up
say it with to much delay- you had to think about it??!?!
You change the topic- it obviously means no- and your gonna die
You smile- Your not serious
You sigh- Your tierd awnsering her
you dont awnser- your screwed.

Weird convo, anything to add?

2006-10-26 02:48:25 · 14 answers · asked by Mr. D 2 in Singles & Dating

Am I a cold hearted *****?Is he a selfish sexist man?

2006-10-26 02:48:07 · 43 answers · asked by Amy Lee J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi,I am 5 foot 5.5 Inch long and will get married after some months,can anybody suggest is height of co-partner a factor for having a better sex life.If yes of which height I shall chose a girl to make my life partner which will give both full satisfaction while having sex

2006-10-26 02:47:39 · 3 answers · asked by saurabh s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Sorry for the long qs.... I have included my earlier qs at the end of this one

we ended up sleeping together n afterwards when i asked him if he likes me he said yes but he does not want to get into a couple situation....i told him tht i like him n he said he doesn't want to hurt my feelings...god am confused..i like him, i dnt expect him to start loving me but i thought he liked me more than a friend...what is going on...this is going nowhere rite...i'll end up hurting myself :(

any thoughts???

Original qs:does he like me?

at times i get the feeling he likes me n then he'll do something that is quite the opposite. he tells me that he is very comfortable with me n that he is himself, he also says that he has never been this comfortable with any other girl. we spend a lot of time together

if i have late evenings at work he'll come to pick me n we do a lot of things together. he still talks about other women, or how he wants to meet someone.

2006-10-26 02:47:17 · 11 answers · asked by lancse 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

One I am with and the other we considered ourselves to be homies, lovers, and friends even though we are not together and our relationship is now a platonic relationship. The one I am with we plan on spending our lives together and the other wants to spend his life with me, but I am with someone already. I know one day I will have to chose utimately and let one go. Any advice will be appreciated and is it possible to be just be friends that are in love with one another without ruining my relationship.

2006-10-26 02:46:55 · 7 answers · asked by PurpleMoon031 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Beach wedding gowns....please

2006-10-26 02:46:30 · 11 answers · asked by vinnyzgrl 1 in Weddings

i loved a person but some time back i came to know that he was playing with my emotions so i have stoped talking to him but now i cant live without him,i m waiting for him to come back and call me.should i wait for him?

2006-10-26 02:46:12 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you have a nickname you really like? What about one you hate? Funniest or sweetest or most awful-one of them is worth 10 points!

2006-10-26 02:45:35 · 9 answers · asked by laneydoll 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Say the woman is ten, fifteen maybe even twenty years younger than the man? Maybe even more than that!

2006-10-26 02:45:30 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got involved with someone 6 years younger than me, he is 22 I am 28, my 2 brothers found out and went mad, they said I was a pervert and don't want to even talk to me...what should I do??

2006-10-26 02:44:26 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who will be made poor and fatherless?

Should people automatically file for divorce when they want to cheat even if it means tearing a family apart with small children and taking the father out of the house?

2006-10-26 02:43:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well he is in prison and we agreed on a divorce and I've heard he could file but he wil not do it. plus it could be cheaper for him to do it. also i need to know what to do . and if i can do it file it myself without a lawyer then how much should it cost me to do this. please help me.

2006-10-26 02:41:55 · 8 answers · asked by stay.stil 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we have a regular and simple sex life with my gf....we decided to make it excited....she wants someone must join us....we are agree about someone but we are disagree about a man or a woman?can you help us which is better and why?

2006-10-26 02:40:17 · 22 answers · asked by sonruyaa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-26 02:39:47 · 10 answers · asked by Dominic C 1 in Family

i've dated my bf almost 1 year and i really love him a lot.but there's a problem.I think he's ex still likes him because she goes around asking people if he has a gf.Then,she soon found out that im his gf and keep asking people about me.It's so damn annoying.whenever im with my bf she will keep looking at the both of us.sometimes she will take an oppurtunity to talk to him even though she knows that im his gf.her action has cause me and my bf to fight really often.i really hate her and my bf too hated her.i feel like slapping her and telling her off.should i do that?i hate people who mess up with me and my bf.i will let that person pay for what he or she does to our relationship.should i go ahead and slap her??

2006-10-26 02:39:45 · 15 answers · asked by chic 1 in Friends

Okay time to fuss up you guys, what are your dating no-nos? Meaning, what turns you off FAST..?

I'll start, my no-no is when a guy orders food FOR me.

2006-10-26 02:39:42 · 13 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

what qualities do you think makes a girl a *****?? Besides these
Beautiful
Individual
That
Causes
Hardons

2006-10-26 02:39:02 · 12 answers · asked by dallas 2 in Singles & Dating

He decided to cross genders? He chopped off his "manhood" and took hormones... wanted to become a woman?

What if you couldn't leave him because you deeply love and care about this person,

Would it be ok to "cheat" for sexual companionship and gratification?

2006-10-26 02:38:55 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My sister-in-law is bound and determined to go to another state and bring home her 19 year old daughter. The girl did nothing wrong, she's with her boyfriend, she's of legal age. Am I wrong to tell her mom that she needs to let her daughter experiance life? I understand the mom is heartbroken and worried, I would be too, but she no longer has the right to control her daughter. The mom has gone so far as saying she'll try and get the police involved, and the only way she can do that is to lie and say that the child is younger than she really is, say she was abducted agianst her will, or call the daughter mental. None of which is true. How do I get this mother to see that her actions are going to drive this daughter even further away?

2006-10-26 02:38:03 · 9 answers · asked by puzzleraspie 3 in Family

i know that honey is better than viagra but is there any fruits or a vegitable

2006-10-26 02:36:47 · 12 answers · asked by violently_happy85 2 in Singles & Dating

the great hubby to be is as wonderful as his ever-needy bro is not. hubby to be knows he can't give any more $ to bro but is in denial to a certain degree about all the help he has given already, which is extensive. i have 2 children in 20's that i want to protect and help out when i can (i am very comfortable $-wise) but don't feel the 50 yr old brother should still be sucking off the family teat...am i wrong...how do i let it go and shut up about it...wedding is in one month. help me....!!!!!!

2006-10-26 02:35:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships