Family & Relationships - 3 October 2006

I go to school about 4 hours from Chicago.
My boyfriend from home would visit me on the weekends...just about every weekend.
We promised to be faithful to each other - but...for about 3 weekends in a row now ,he called with some lame excuse why he could not come down to see me.
I was getting mad - and frustrated!
Anyhow...a guy from the dorm who i think is a hottie, was flirting with me early Saturday evening. I know I should not have - but i ended up taking him to my room and we had crazy sex for about 3 hours.
Literally 5 minutes after he left - my boyfriend from home called. He was in the lobby...there to surprise me!
I had just enough time to throw some clothes on and do a quick 30 second tidy up in the room.
Of course - my boyfriend had not seen me in 3 weeks - so, he was really really ready to be alone.
I knew I could not say "no"...that would have for sure sent out a signal that something was wrong.
I ended up having sex with him too.
What would you have done??

2006-10-03 07:59:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have arthritis, sclerosing cholangitis and ulcerative colitis and have to use a wheelchair sometimes. I'm kind of scared that if a boy does ask me out, and we're still together in the winter months, what would happen if he saw me in my wheelchair? I don't know what boys think, but some people changed their minds about me when they found out that I use a wheelchair. What would you do?

2006-10-03 07:58:56 · 5 answers · asked by Boffdude 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband cheated on me, why dont I care?

2006-10-03 07:58:03 · 28 answers · asked by Christina W 4 in Marriage & Divorce

When you date a man what do you look for, looks, money, education, and status? Does it matter what the man looks like and how much money he make in a year. I believe that women are taught at a young age to go for the doctors and lawyers. For example, most women would rather date a doctor or lawyer rather then a construction worker. any comments

2006-10-03 07:57:51 · 36 answers · asked by Doug favors universal insurance! 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 07:57:19 · 30 answers · asked by cee cee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-03 07:57:10 · 2 answers · asked by kcw 2 in Family

2006-10-03 07:56:37 · 14 answers · asked by cee cee 3 in Singles & Dating

Hey guys, I'm thinking of getting blonde highlights. Do you generally like actual blonde, or more of a dirty blonde? Currently I'm more of a dirty blonde color.

2006-10-03 07:56:21 · 7 answers · asked by Morgan<3 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 07:55:56 · 25 answers · asked by AllisonLynn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This may be too personal,but the only thing he does sexual with me is kiss me and give me incrediable oral sex,and I do love it,but should I be worried in any way?(nuthing's wrong with his penis,I checked)I wanna go further,but should I just wait patiently?He's a great guy,but I do have my needs.

2006-10-03 07:55:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been married for over 6 years and have been together for over 9 and in the last two to three weeks, she has been practically ignoring me. We both seem to admit things don't seem to be "right" but we can't put our finger on it. I have spent the last four years going to night school and this is the first month that I have been home "full time" from it. Is this a normal adjustment period or is this leading to bigger issues (ie divorce)? Any help would be greatly appreciated.

2006-10-03 07:55:33 · 26 answers · asked by bdubya 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i asked a guy if he would ever go out with me and he said probably not.....

2006-10-03 07:55:22 · 15 answers · asked by Lizface 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 07:54:56 · 4 answers · asked by annagram 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

it my ex husban his name is Monarch Walls

2006-10-03 07:54:08 · 8 answers · asked by ALICIA L M 1 in Friends

I want some advice on the best way to help someone else, a really good friend of mine who recently opened up to me - i would love to have some advice on building her confidence a little, its mainly self image i think, she hates photos of herself - infact, she says it makes her panicy and sick if i say someone sent a picture with her in it.

I try and tell she looks great, i usually get - "yeah right" or "your crazy"
she seems negative to everything possitive i say.

shes amazingly kind, helps everybody, nothings too much for her, yet she still says she feels bad about being so selfish - selfish must be the las thting anybody would say about her.

In company she finds it hard to be herself, putting up barriers and being quiet, seems to have a fear of rejection - hates the idea.. in fact gets quite scared of the idea peopel would dislike her...

anybody gone through something similar? what can i do to help? how did you get passed these feelings? i know it will all have to come from her to change, im sure she wants to, but i would love to know how to help.

all the best, thanks for your time.

2006-10-03 07:53:54 · 6 answers · asked by stewie2277 2 in Friends

do you agree?

2006-10-03 07:53:00 · 5 answers · asked by karkondrite 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

A friend of mine is feeling that her 17 years of marriage as a housewife may have been a waste. She now is feeling rather unneeded and unappreciated. She has a spotless house and is a very creative cook. But her 14 year old son's relationship with her seems to be dwendling. Her husband does not want her to work outside the home. For him, homemade dinners and desserts and a clean house is all that matters. But she's still feeling purposeless.

2006-10-03 07:52:51 · 12 answers · asked by Angel L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-03 07:52:37 · 13 answers · asked by thedogwoofwoof 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

And don't just say IT DEPENDS - say what the hell does it depend on.

2006-10-03 07:52:19 · 14 answers · asked by GCRhino 1 in Singles & Dating

I ask this because I met a man who rocks my world sexually. i am 38 and have never felt the way this guy makes me feel. He is not available to have a relationship as he is married(my mistake). What worries me is that I will never again experience what i did with him. I was married for a very long time and never experienced anything close with my husband. So can you feel that spark with more than one person?

2006-10-03 07:52:11 · 17 answers · asked by Stephani 2 in Singles & Dating

we are friends and there are times that we get to have a communication through text.. those were just friendly talks, but there was a time that he told me that he wants to know me better because he likes me, but we never talked about it again.. i dont know why? but the communication is still there..

2006-10-03 07:52:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok i have friends but i cannot tell them my things that i would not tell no one that is why i need a best friend so i can tell what i feel about me. so help!

2006-10-03 07:51:31 · 4 answers · asked by 5779191 1 in Friends

Im asking this with a twist...most people have been on more than one date and lets face it the thrill of coffee,lunch,dinner,cinema,pub,club,etc wear a bit thin...assuming that many of us have done all these things before and it gets a bit boring and we would like to see something new and inspiring from our date what would you do orhere would you go to make it different?

2006-10-03 07:50:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm recently single and am looking for a free online singles or swinger site. I don't use credit cards over the net so I want a free one. ty so much

2006-10-03 07:50:41 · 4 answers · asked by pokerguy1983 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-03 07:50:32 · 6 answers · asked by To Remain Anonymous 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband and I have been fighting about money because i am taking care of all the bills and can't seem to make sure they are all paid. who do you think is better at taking care of money, men or women

2006-10-03 07:50:01 · 26 answers · asked by cowgirlbird55 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Congratulations on your marriage! We wish you many years of _____ and ________. fill in the blank...

2006-10-03 07:49:55 · 17 answers · asked by Nell ' amore 1 in Weddings

im so confused plz help a teen out

2006-10-03 07:49:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we have been married for three years now and my wife really has some trust issues. for example she says i am a flirt, last night a female marine that used to work for me came over for dinner cuz my wife babysits her kid, and i put on a t-shirt and some shorts, she said "you never wear that shirt unless we go out somewhere" and the only reason i put it on was cuz i usually just sit around the house in shorts and a cut off shirt, but we were having company. but it seems like whatever i do she thinks im flirting or looking at women, and i am not when she accuses me of it. i mean if i even look in the direction of another women she says i was checkin her out, she dosnt get mad but its just really annoying that she says that all the time. how do i get her to believe that i aint even interested in other women?

2006-10-03 07:49:21 · 9 answers · asked by justin c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

every time me and my b/f have sex i never climax. For a year and a half i had lied to him about getting off because i didnt want to hurt him or make him feel inadequate, talked to some friends they said stop lying, so i did, but i haven't told him that i had lied to him about it for that long. now i can only climax if i am doing it to myself, he always gets off, i dont know if there is something wrong with me(i have had bad encounters in the past) or what i can do to help him so he can get me off. i know he trys his best, ive run out of ideas. i am definatley attracted to him and he does usually do the right things, just isn't enough though. i try to tell him what i like but he always say that im criticizing him and bi***ing, im just trying to help. any ideas?

2006-10-03 07:49:15 · 3 answers · asked by WonderWhy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships