Family & Relationships - 3 October 2006

I have been going through alot lately. I lost my father ( last year), my grandfather on my mom's side and my granpa little bother as well past 2 weeks later.I havent worked in 2 years.been by mom's side throughout the ordeal, helped her out.Mom got 2 discal injuries and at one point had pneumonia.Her mom ( granny) cant walk nor see. I take care of her too. I wish to start my life again, but nothing seems to work. Been looking for a job, no one calls,its like all the hard work i did in the past was worth nothing. Im totally discouraged. I had plans to get my MBA and go to harvard now i dont even know if that is possible... Heck im not sure that i can get a job. I dont know what to do anymore.Im fighting the urge of just letting go and stopping everything. A part of me dreams of getting married , having a family but yet it seems like nothing is possible anymore.Its hard to wake up cause everyone around me is negative, mom is never happy always complaining about everything. HELP

2006-10-03 18:19:08 · 10 answers · asked by Gina L 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is not me but a friend. She has been married for 18yrs. She recently caught her husband having an affair that had been going on for several months. When he left he told her about more than 10 one night stands with professional while he was in the navy. He had stopped for about 10yrs. but before he started with the girlfriend he had been planning to hook up with a wiman he met over the internet. She begged him to come back and he did. She now found out he continued to see the same girl and when she moved hooked up with a woman he worked with for what he deemed a "f*ck". She wants to stay. They are going to counseling. I don't think he will stay faithful but can't convince her. Any advice? I am also friends with him and can't seem to get him to figure out why he seeks out other women. He says he loves his wife and he loves the woman he had the affair with and would be happy to be with either one. What do i tell him about his marriage?

2006-10-03 18:18:59 · 21 answers · asked by Stephani 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The only way I've seen or known her is through one of my sister's friends. She often visits my court as one of her friends live down the court but I never catch them.

She always stares at me down the halls and holds a smile, I just don't know what to say and when I walk by without saying anything I really feel mad at myself about it later.

If anyone can please give me a rough idea of the perfect way to approach her I will appreciate it mostly! Please I don't want to lose this one.

She's a very shy girl and I don't want her to feel uneasy or uncomfortable when I approach her, Also she doesn't have many friends that are guys at all I guarantee she will shut herself out when I approach her. PLEASE HELP!The only way I've seen or known her is through one of my sister's friends. She often visits my court as one of her friends live down the court but I never catch them.

2006-10-03 18:18:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my husband for 6 years and maried for almost 4 and I am still as much in love with him as the day I said I do,and we have had some really rough times.People are always talking about negative things in this world,Id like to hear some positive things women have to say about their marriage and spouse.Lets hear some good things about your marriage and things you love about your husband ..or spouse,please,no negative answers,ok?

2006-10-03 18:15:57 · 15 answers · asked by luv2bawifenmom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi! everyone

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2006-10-03 18:15:22 · 5 answers · asked by Rohit_curious 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-03 18:14:09 · 20 answers · asked by Wini 1 in Weddings

My husband left for a deployment and today I found his will and he left his mother as his executive and he also stated in there if something happens to both of us, she gets the kids and if his mom and dad dies, the state gets them! (we have 3 ages 6, 4 & 2) What gives? What about my parents? What about my other family? I don't even like his family at all!!! I am soooo angry at him but he says I am overreacting! He left his mom in charge of everything and says it's because she does "taxes". Whatever. What do you guys think? Would you be angry or am I overreacting?

2006-10-03 18:11:38 · 28 answers · asked by Megan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've always been a big girl. The tallest one in my class, the chubby one in the family, I come from a family of a line of pretty thin cousins. Growing up an only child I was told to see my cousins as my brothers and sisters, Only I was the one they felt they could pick on. They called me horrible names like PIG, RHYNO, ELEPHANT, and other Fat names. Thanks to these cousins of mine I grew up with no self-esteem that I think is now enterfeering with my marrage. I constantly compair myself to other women, even my husbands ex's. I want to feel pretty and sexy for him, but when I try to, believe it or not but I still feel UGLY and FAT like I did when I was little. HELP PLEASE!! NICE ANSWERS ONLY...

2006-10-03 18:10:22 · 17 answers · asked by ~* Pink Princess *~ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-10-03 18:09:34 · 15 answers · asked by FatPussy MeowMeow 1 in Singles & Dating

Im thinking of getting engaged soon. When someone says you should buy a ring that you can afford. What does "afford" actually mean? Does afford mean if you have the amount in the bank that you want to spend on the ring and you dont have to finance it?

2006-10-03 18:09:19 · 11 answers · asked by bluenote12482 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to contac someone in Germany

2006-10-03 18:09:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i will going to alberta to search for a friend, my big problem is i'm only having his photo without any address of his hometown. But i do know he is living in alberta. is that posibble for me to search for him? he own a sports bar and a kickboxing trainer/kickboxer. are these information helps?

2006-10-03 18:08:31 · 6 answers · asked by asian babe 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 18:08:11 · 6 answers · asked by ZORRO 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a boyfriend and my family doesnt like him,w e are in love and are planning to elope, is there a chance our marriage will survive like any othe rmarriage? we have dated for a year now and are both 22 years..please help, i really love him and i knu he loves me too. i thot getting pregnant would be a sure way to get maried to him but i knu my parents wud rather take care of the baby than let me live with him..he is black (an african) and am white..but its not an issue but i believe its what my parents are against..hes here on study but i want to go back to africa with him and live with him for good..i really do love him!!please post ur views

2006-10-03 18:08:10 · 10 answers · asked by bettie m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-03 18:07:07 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've never been involved with a single mom before (actually she is divorced and her ex has the kids sometimes) and she has 2 kids... her son is 5 and daughter is 3. It's starting to get serious. So far she and I have spent some dates just the 2 of us, and sometimes we'd go hiking, to the library, or to chuck e cheese with the kids... just fun stuff mostly. I like her kids a lot and she and I are really clicking. What changes should I expect and prepare for as things get more serious? What is an appropriate role for me as far as the kids are concerned as things get more serious?

2006-10-03 18:05:47 · 17 answers · asked by Zloar 4 in Singles & Dating

everytime we go somewhere theres always older are rich looking white folks looking at us weired.and it makes me want to bust them in the mouth what kind of actions do u think i should take

2006-10-03 18:04:30 · 3 answers · asked by L42RAMI 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i took everyones advise and told the gypsies sorry all sales are final, no refunds and now they put a curse on me that makes me thinner and thinner and i lost 15 lbs since yesterday! what should i do?

2006-10-03 18:04:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just got a divorce and my exhusband has already found a new girlfriend (in a bar). I got in a chat room and that just wasn't for me. I don't have much free time without my son. What should I be doing?

2006-10-03 18:03:27 · 14 answers · asked by golden2 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-03 18:02:50 · 11 answers · asked by dingerdave01 2 in Family

I never had a girlfriend before and I am 22 years old already. I still do not have any female friends. How do I start talking to females? Any tips?

2006-10-03 18:02:42 · 4 answers · asked by Mr Guy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-03 18:01:38 · 44 answers · asked by Romeo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-03 18:01:18 · 6 answers · asked by latonya m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

so i been going out with this guy for 3 years when we met i asked him about his past girlfriends he told me about one for some reason i could never let that past relationship go and i always asked him questions about it .they broke up like 6 years ago.2 nights ago he gets a voicemail from her .the messages says hi its me ... im calling you because i need directions to the job because i have no idea how to get there .he says he doesnt know how she got the number i call her she says she got it from her brother and begins to tell me that she hasnt spoken to him in 6 years and was callin to see how he was doing .i dont believe it .she calls me today and begins to tell me that he use to stalk her and she was his first and that they where engaged for 8 months .he says this is bull and that she is crazy .he changed his number and his mad that i dont believe him .i dont think a person that you havent spoken to in 6 years would leave a message like that .what should i do ?

2006-10-03 18:01:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't know what to do, i want to tell them that i love him but my parents won't understand that, and i don't wanna leave him, he is my soul mate my, best friend, my life partner, i just love him sooo muchhh

2006-10-03 18:01:10 · 12 answers · asked by cindyosita 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother who was using this account killed himself because his wife divorced him which he knew for all his life. they know each other since kindergarten (our parents were friends). I am really sad. Is there any way for me to feel better? I really miss my brother. I wish I could have prevented him from suicide.

2006-10-03 18:00:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My brother who was using this account killed himself because his wife divorced him which he knew for all his life. they know each other since kindergarten (our parents were friends). I am really sad. Is there any way for me to feel better? I really miss my brother. I wish I could have prevented him from suicide.

2006-10-03 18:00:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My brother who was using this account killed himself because his wife divorced him which he knew for all his life. they know each other since kindergarten (our parents were friends). I am really sad. Is there any way for me to feel better? I really miss my brother. I wish I could have prevented him from suicide.

2006-10-03 17:59:59 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i don't know what to do, i want to tell them that i love him but my parents won't understand that, and i don't wanna leave him, he is soul mate my, best friend, my life partner.

2006-10-03 17:58:32 · 17 answers · asked by cindyosita 1 in Singles & Dating

I promis i am not the crazy ex-girlfriend 2 start off

My Boyfriend ended things with me on Friday, I called him told him to come over to talk cause he hadn't returned my calls for about 4 days and I was going to end things if he was going to cont. 2 stress me out.

He told me he though we should break up because he said I was right in the beginning that we just got to college and shouldn't have jumped into a relationship and it had gotten so serious so fast it scared him (7 weeks) (not 2 serious)

anywayz his away message today said:
"You don't really know what you had till it's gone"

I kissed a boy on his floor the night we broke up kinda as a coping method because i spent about 2 hours crying over him.

I havn't had him on my mind for about the last 2 days cause i am trying to forget.

It is awful though cause inside i really miss him

should i talk 2 him?

Or does he win if i do... I don't want to be the phyco ex girlfriend

please answer nicely and truthfully.

2006-10-03 17:57:33 · 15 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Singles & Dating