Family & Relationships - 30 September 2006

Here is the story. I am a college freshman, and I believe I have a crush on this girl, who is very classy, nice, and always smiling. Both of us are in ballroom dancing club, and that's how I got to know her. I have known her for only 10 days, but I feel that she is the girl I really like. Whenever I meet her and talk to her, I try to find some common grounds and talk about them. However, I'm a little worried because I am not so humorous. I have recently noticed that some dudes have started talking to her. I can see they are trying to hit on her. My best friend tells me that they are ugly scrubs and that I should be able to "get her" as long as I have confidence. I am still worried though. I wrote on her Facebook wall several times, but she never wrote back. I wonder if this indicates her lack of interest. I know I should take some time to get to know her better, but I don't want to see someone else becoming her boyfriend. I need some advice. Thank you.

2006-09-30 03:13:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How come they cannot just spend the rest of their lives together without the marriage? Couldn't they just be like husband and wife without the marriage? I do not understand why people marry each other.

2006-09-30 03:13:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why my heart becomes so hardenned? I don't seem to feel anymore for anybody... Am I out of God's mercy? I also masturbate a lot eventhough I am married... I am confused what is the life goal?

2006-09-30 03:10:57 · 8 answers · asked by Zooooooooooooooooooooooommmmmmmm 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-30 03:10:29 · 21 answers · asked by wolf615 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am going to homecoming tonight, and i need a few tips. My date is hard to be around. He is loud, immature, and has never had a date before (something which i found out after he asked). I had known him for a week and a half before he asked me and i thought he was a nice normal guy. A week after this he changed dramatcally. I now can't even stand to be in the same room with him, much less dance with him. I found out last night that he is bringing me flowers, he is picking me up (i already arranged a ride), and his parents want to meet my parents. I have told him we are just going as friends. He can meet me at my friend's house for pictures, go to dinner, and the dance. I can take myself. I have told him it's ok for me to take myself, he doesnt have too. How do i handle this? This is his first date, so i think he is tryign to make it sometihng like in the movies in the 50's. I have had numerous dates, and i dont feel tha comfortable getting treated like a flower! i am independent! Help!

2006-09-30 03:10:28 · 2 answers · asked by kitty 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Let's say there are two people that fell in love in 1st sight. Is it still possible that they can break up and divorce? What are your insights of the concept of "Love at 1st sight?"

2006-09-30 03:09:26 · 18 answers · asked by KHCOM 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Let's say there are two people that fell in love in 1st sight. Is it still possible that they can break up and divorce? What are your insights of the concept of "Love at 1st sight?"

2006-09-30 03:09:19 · 10 answers · asked by KHCOM 1 in Singles & Dating

Let's say there are two people that fell in love in 1st sight. Is it still possible that they can break up and divorce? What are your insights of the concept of "Love at 1st sight?"

2006-09-30 03:09:12 · 4 answers · asked by KHCOM 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Little Johnny is taking a shower with his mother and says, “Mom, what are those things on your chest?”
Unsure of how to reply, she tells Johnny to ask his dad at breakfast tomorrow, quite certain the matter would be forgotten. Johnny didn’t forget. The following morning he asked his father the same question. His father, always quick with the answers, says, “Why Johnny, those are balloons. When your mommy dies, we can blow them up and she’ll float to heaven.”

Johnny thinks that’s neat and asks no more questions. A few weeks later, Johnny’s dad comes home from work a few hours early. Johnny runs out of the house crying hysterically, “Daddy! Daddy! Mommy’s dying!”

His father says, “Calm down, son! Why do you think Mommy’s dying?”

“Uncle Harry is blowing up Mommy’s balloons and she’s screaming, ‘Oh God, I’m coming!’”

2006-09-30 03:09:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Let's say there are two people that fell in love in 1st sight. Is it still possible that they can break up and divorce? What are your insights of the concept of "Love at 1st sight?"

2006-09-30 03:09:04 · 8 answers · asked by KHCOM 1 in Friends

I hear about italian men and their familys?are they based on fact or fiction my husband is Italian american and currently trying too see if any of the sterotypes fit him?they dont seem too

2006-09-30 03:08:45 · 5 answers · asked by kelly v 1 in Singles & Dating

She has physical health problems, she goes to school, she spends lots of time trying to get a job, she does the household chores (even ones that make her physically ill), and she tries to guide her family, but the unemployed husband does not clean up after the kids, does not keep them clean during the day, has to be reminded to cook or clean something, and will not protect the wife's purchases for the family. Example: there are blinds required by the apartment manager, and she has bought FOUR sets of ten window blinds this past year...because the husband does not watch out for the blinds getting torn up by the kids. He will not wash off stuff they write on the walls and thinks if he stands to do some dishes or change a diaper, then he is "helping." He needs to do so much more. And she needs to too, but cannot even get basic things working right under those apathetic conditions. What can she do to restore order, or have it in the first place?

2006-09-30 03:07:52 · 3 answers · asked by casual observer 2 in Family

I lost my best friend, due to a big argument that we had last week. I'm a female and he's a male, and we've been really close for a year now. We've gotten into several arguments and said that we'd just call off the friendship(so childish), but after a couple of days, we'd be back together again. But, not this time. After we got off the phone, he sent me a text message that said to leave him alone. I love him to death and there's nothing that I wouldn't do for him. It's been a week and 2 days today. We've seen eachother out in public twice, and didn't even speak. I thought we were making progress because on Tuesday he sent a text asking how I was doing, but, he never responded when I wrote back and asked how he was. I even sent him a heart felt e-mail on Sunday. What steps can I take to get this stubborn friend of mine back. Life seems so hard without him, because I'm use to him being around 24/7. Do you think that he's really gone, or is it just something that needs time?

2006-09-30 03:07:44 · 5 answers · asked by DaBossLady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Should it be based on the looks? should it be based on the personality? or should it be based on both looks and personality? Would you date a good looking girl with bad personality? Would you date a ugly girl with very good personality? How would you based your girlfriend/boyfriend?

2006-09-30 03:07:25 · 6 answers · asked by Daft Punker 1 in Singles & Dating

Should it be based on the looks? should it be based on the personality? or should it be based on both looks and personality? Would you date a good looking girl with bad personality? Would you date a ugly girl with very good personality? How would you based your girlfriend/boyfriend?

2006-09-30 03:07:18 · 6 answers · asked by Daft Punker 1 in Friends

Should it be based on the looks? should it be based on the personality? or should it be based on both looks and personality? Would you date a good looking girl with bad personality? Would you date a ugly girl with very good personality? How would you based your girlfriend/boyfriend?

2006-09-30 03:06:52 · 7 answers · asked by Daft Punker 1 in Friends

i really2 nid an advice...

2006-09-30 03:06:38 · 18 answers · asked by kireiicutie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 03:05:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 03:04:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was thinking go out with the boyz and find a nice loving girl as quickly as possible.

I was also thinking of getting blind drunk, Any suggestions welcome

2006-09-30 03:03:22 · 26 answers · asked by Fox Hunter 4 in Singles & Dating

How far would you go to get back someone that you truely loved a long time ago, would you... travel?...write?...ect. Even if it meant that you come to find that they are with someone else. Is it worth the risk to rekindle the flame or to find some sort of closure to something that once was a long time ago?

2006-09-30 03:03:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend's birthday is coming up, and i want to give her a map similar to the one in Elizabeth Town where Kirsten Dunst gives Orlando Bloom a highly specific and personal roadtrip map. The map i plan to make is in accordance to the difficulties and lessons one learns in life in general. I want my friend to have this map since we're most likely we're not going to see each other the next year....i want her to have something to help her when she goes through the smooth and tough times that life offers.

so, in relation to the question, what are the lessons that you have learned in life? what difficulties have you encountered and how did you get through it? or you can tell me anything you like and enjoy about life. anything goes...just give me serious answers please.

thanks in advance.

2006-09-30 03:01:56 · 12 answers · asked by abstemious_entity 4 in Friends

I am just wondering - to see how I should do mine right now. So you liek them shaved? trimmed? or 100% untouched?

Does shaving make yoru p*nis look bigger?

any tips?

2006-09-30 03:01:37 · 4 answers · asked by ENDUREZ 1 in Singles & Dating

I know one of my female friend likes me. One time she was drunk and was passionately kissing me. I, of course, reached under her shirt. What's the most romantic way to ask a girl out? I think she is really hot.

2006-09-30 03:00:46 · 7 answers · asked by Kevin 2 in Singles & Dating

There was this couple who had been married for 50 years. They were sitting
at the breakfast table that morning when the old gentleman said to his
wife, "Just think, honey, we've been married for 50 years."
"Yeah," she replied, "Fifty years ago this very day, we were sitting here
at this breakfast table together."
"Hmmm," the old man said, "We were probably sitting here naked as jay birds
fifty years ago this morning."
"Well," the old lady snickered, "What do you say...should we?"
Whereupon the two stripped to the buff and sat down at the table.
"You know, honey," the little old lady breathlessly replied, "My nipples
are as hot for you as they were fifty years ago."
"I wouldn't be surprised," replied the old man. "One's in your coffee and
the other one's in your oatmeal!"

2006-09-30 03:00:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 02:59:32 · 38 answers · asked by rebeldina 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean in the long term.

2006-09-30 02:59:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm shy. And I think, its a fcukin mistake being 1. But thats the way I am. I am coming outta the shell but at the same time I can also see a fcuking Mr Fresher is being mobbed by girls and I'm not. Ok, he looks good but I dont look bad either. Moreover, a complete loser has a girl and I dont. He can talk with the hottest girls in college and I cant. Why cant I go and talk to the girls as these idiots do? Moreso, whats that 1 small formula I'm skipping? How do I sweep the girl off her feet? Is looks all that matters? How do I become outgoing?

I wanna be surrounded by HOT chicks too. Plz help me out

2006-09-30 02:57:49 · 9 answers · asked by Stanley 2 in Singles & Dating

I really want to sleep with this man i met, i have waited a few week, i don,t want him to think i am easy, but i would love to spend the night with him, how long should someone wait do you reckon, i havent had a realationship for 7 years.

2006-09-30 02:55:42 · 7 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3 in Singles & Dating

the sexyest boy asked me if i had a B/f i said no then he asked if i wanted one i said no so he was like " so if i asked you out what would you say?" i said no he said i was stuck up how is that being stuck up im in the 7th grade and it is a honor to go out with a 8th grader but in middle school its against the rules because all the 8th grade girls want to fight you and plus i goota keep my head in the books. what do you think do you think im suck up for saying that.And then yester day he seen me walking with my sister and he came and put his arm around me and we was just walking and he got a call from one of his friends he said he was goin to my house so when we go to my house he thought he was getting a kiss and i slammed to door in his face i already told him i dont have time for a b/f i need advise please

2006-09-30 02:55:35 · 14 answers · asked by kierajanee 1 in Singles & Dating