Family & Relationships - 30 September 2006

I really like him, an dI thought he really liked me 2, but I heard a story that he told his friend he doesn't really like me, he still likes another girl. The story said that he pretends to like me, but he is constantly asking another girl out.... I can't seem 2 believe either one anymore. My boyfriend and my friend who told me the story are both really truthful... Which should I believe?

2006-09-30 06:26:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

um he always talks and says he loves me but how do i really know for shure>.......?

2006-09-30 06:26:31 · 8 answers · asked by lil chic 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom hates my style. everytime we go somewhere she always says go up stairs and change your clothes. she says i cover up to much. and that i have no color in my life cuz i dont wear bright colors like orange and pink. that draws attention and i dont want attention from everybody. i just want to look cute. she should be happy im not leaving the house looking like a ghetto girl.

2006-09-30 06:26:23 · 3 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Family

Just curious 'bout?

2006-09-30 06:25:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My Dad goes overseas next Tueday through the first half of Nov (he works for an oil company). He said it's too long for me to go with him and I would be not be happy because of the country he is going to teenage girls arent treated well. He told me to pick a friend to stay with so I chose my friend Tamara's and they said OK

I don't have a Mom anymore so Dad is all I have and all of our relatives live too far away or cant take care of me. We live in Texas now and while her family is very nice they very Christian and strict. Her Mom does not like that I backtalk and dress revealingly or whatever and deserve to "get it". Would have any of them have the right to actually spank me? my Dad does not believe in that but he gave her Mom, not Dad, permission to as last resort.

I'm worried. Dad told me to just deal with it and if I behave I have nothing to worry about and if I don't I will get grounded for a long time when he gets home and that's what I should worry about. What should I do?

2006-09-30 06:24:28 · 13 answers · asked by Lori 5 in Family

i have been with my bf for a year and lately we been lacking "romance"..acutally he has.. for our one year he didnt do anything for me! and i made him a big collague..he also yells/cusses at me i hate it!..my bfs very rich and its nice that he buys me stuff, but he doesnt make me sweet stuff! well my coworker made me realize something because..hes very poor =/ but hes VERY NICE! we had a good convo and hes such a great hearted person..i offered him a ride home because he normally takes the bus and he has to walk 20 mins home..and he lives right by me..so i offered..he was VERy appreciative..and it made me realize..gosh..for someone who doesnt have something,,they are REALLY NICE and dont take things for granted..he was really nice to my mom too.. on the other hand..my bf is very quiet..and my mom likes the guys who go like..OOH HI HOW ARE YOU aldfj..but my bf just goes hi..or is blahblah there on the phone.. what should i do?..ami just staying with my bf? just to be with him?

2006-09-30 06:24:27 · 4 answers · asked by girl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Fell free to write as much as you want.

2006-09-30 06:23:47 · 25 answers · asked by nighthawk_revelations 2 in Singles & Dating

My daughter is 17 and she has never been on a date. She is an extremely attractive girl - tall, slender/healthy build (I am not saying she is attractive because I am her mother - she honestly is a very attractive girl). She complains that no guys seem interested in her (but I have seen them looking at her before). She is rather shy, and insecure about herself - but extremely sweet, mature,smart and caring.

My sister-in-law told me that her step son told her one day that all the guys at her school must really like my daughter alot - because she is pretty and nice. I also have many other people compliment me on my daughter's attractiveness and sweetness.

I am really hurting for her, because it is really bothering her. The other day she said she felt like such a loser because "no guys" have ever asked her out. I tell her that her time is coming - and that when she goes to college it will be better. That is all I know to say - what else can I tell her?

2006-09-30 06:23:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a boy on a gay website...we chatted a little bit and when we met each other, we kissed each other at the end of the rendez-vous...what do you think ?

2006-09-30 06:21:28 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

. he is ayear older then me and in highschool hes in ninth im in 8th? I like him alot......and I rele think he likes me? Should I be able to trust him? like since we r at d ifferent schools and stuff

2006-09-30 06:20:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dated this sweet guy for a short time but then he ended it saying he was "busy". He was my first boyfriend, and my first kiss, all at age 20. I'm really picky but he seemed so great I gave him a chance. It was a beautiful and innocent relationhship (it never went past kissing). But after he ended it he would still say hi to me on msn, but he has stopped doing that. I finally decided to block and delete him on msn, and I'm trying to forget that I even met him for the sake of my own sanity. The problem is that I still have dreams about him. In some dreams I just see his face but in other dreams: I pinched his butt once, or saw him kissing another girl, or I saw him when I was vacationing with my friends. The relationship ended 8 months ago but I still see him in my dreams, WHY???

2006-09-30 06:20:23 · 12 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

Help me please?
I need serious answers please. How can I make myself not annoying? Most people at my school don't like me, and I need to know how to make myself nicer, less annoying, and more popular. Even my best friend admitted to me that she thinks I'm annoying! Recently, we were walking home, and I asked this boy a somewhat rude and annoying question, and she said to me "You're not very nice...". I even hate myself. How can I remind myself to stop being so mean, weird , and annoying? I would love to be the kind of person that most people like; the kind of person who people say "Oh, her? She's such a sweetie!" or "She's realy nice, I like her." Or something like that. Please help me I really need this. All I need is to be nice, less annoying, honest, and a little popular. Please give me some real tips. I need serious answers,and serious help. I try to be myself, but people don't seem to like it when I act myself. I try to conform to wut ppl want, but ineed help. Id rather live someone elses life

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4 days ago
not my own life. I'd rather be happy than be myself, because everyone hates the way the real me is...

4 days ago
I know I am supposed to think about what I want to at like, but I hang out with a group of a lot of different people. Some of the girls I hang w/ are emo/goth, some are mainstream, and some are preps. I'm not completely sure which of them are real friends, or just aquaintances. I need to know- what actions can I take besides just sorting out what i need to do- I need to know what i can actually do to actually remember to be nice and not annoying. Do I just think about what people would think if i said this, or if i said that? Do i just keep quiet and let people just walk all over me like they already do?I need some serious, good advice and help...

2006-09-30 06:20:01 · 19 answers · asked by Amy Hakey 1 in Friends

2006-09-30 06:19:56 · 2 answers · asked by musonic 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

if a guy teases you and flirts.....
if he looks at you a lot and he stares into your eyes for a long time.
??
but he pretends to not-like you

2006-09-30 06:19:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a dream that at first I was beiing chased by 3 physcos and the third one was a ugly monster then it turned out to be a real monster the first two were fake...and I met up with a stranger I guess he was chasing her too, and then we ran until we got to some stairs that were very larged and curved like a castle, on the very top of the stairs were we saw a whole line of national manichens the`re was one manichen that was a mixture of me and someone else and then we turned around and saw a weird looking man and he was talking to us,then we ended up hiding again under a table and she asked me why I was thinking about a boy I liked and she asked me why I still liked him because of the way he acted I said I dont know
I just do I told her about the way I feel and how he held something special about him,so then out of nowhere the boy I like appeared and he was like what you say you felt about me and I told him how special he was to me then he explained why he did what he did and a few minutes later we were on a boat in the same place sailing off kissing it was weird and I need serious help because I dont understand it

2006-09-30 06:18:59 · 12 answers · asked by cleanheart 5 in Friends

i was talking to my boyfriend on phone and suddenly my mother came and started shouting that because of him i will fail in my exams n he is diverting my mind from my studies but he is the person who always motivates me to study and get good marks... he felt very bad about it and i can understand how he must me feeling... i told him that it wasnt my mom it was my sisters plan to irritate you but still he told me to study and not talk to him till d exams... so what should i do to make him feel happy???

2006-09-30 06:18:56 · 11 answers · asked by loved one 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this guy, but I'm pretty shy. I want to flirt with him, but i'm not really the flirting type. How can I hint to him that I'm into him without coming on too strong or making myself look like an idiot?

2006-09-30 06:18:38 · 4 answers · asked by crazyjen 2 in Singles & Dating

Mine is blue, black, purple n' silver...............

2006-09-30 06:18:30 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-30 06:17:51 · 11 answers · asked by rusty h 2 in Singles & Dating

Just askin'...................

2006-09-30 06:16:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what is something i can say to the guy i like
he teases and flirts ..he sits next to me in one class but he acts really immature he plays too much.
he stares in my eyes for a long time, then i look away
i dont know if he likes me but he got me liking him =(
what should i say to get some indication out of him?

2006-09-30 06:15:31 · 6 answers · asked by twopointseven 1 in Singles & Dating

I know this man who I can't explain but we just seem to click and we flirt constantly. I love to be around him and yet I am almost uncomfortable as I feel there is a lot of sexual tension?

Can anyone explain those words to me?

2006-09-30 06:14:35 · 3 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it normal not to have ur period by my age???...I'm 13

2006-09-30 06:14:34 · 23 answers · asked by Rammer 1 in Singles & Dating

is it normal not to have ur period by my age???...I'm 13

2006-09-30 06:13:53 · 21 answers · asked by Rammer 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me, instead of giveing her space I begged her to take me back and pushed and pushed her further away. Now she will not speak to me at all.

2006-09-30 06:12:09 · 5 answers · asked by stephen 1 1 in Singles & Dating

When ever i am around people, i cant think of anything to say, i am not shy, just cant start "long" conversations, only like 10 second ones >.<

any tips or pointers on how to solve this problem?

2006-09-30 06:11:30 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, so I started talking to this girl last Friday and I started to really like her. I really wanted to ask her to homecoming, but at first I was too nervous, but I ended up doing it anyway on Thursday. I asked her "Hey, do you wanna go to homecoming together?" She replied "Sure...can we go as friends?" I said, "Oh sure, of course." But now I don't know what to do. The only other times I've had a date to homecoming was with my then girlfriend, so I don't know how I should act since I guess she doesn't like me back and we're going to homecoming together. What do I do?

2006-09-30 06:11:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 06:10:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A girl I like in my office keeps telling people she works with she wants a boyfriend and that she only dates older guys (I am older) - I know this 'cos I sit a couple of desks away from her (but work in a different team doing a different job). Her team-mates tried to set her up with their friends but she says quite loudly that they're not her type.

She is outgoing and so am I (except around women) but we don't talk to each other much - maybe because I'm a bit shy, or maybe she just doesn't like me (or thinks I am weird)?

She flicks her hair a bit when I walk past and sometimes I catch her having a sneaky look towards me - but I just don't know, I could be imagining it.

I think I'd like to ask her out but it's not easy. I'm not too bothered if she says no - but not sure I'd enjoy the whole office finding out and then sitting near her if she still continues to complain she can't find a boyfriend - she is very pretty & could easily find someone.

Any ideas?

2006-09-30 06:10:17 · 7 answers · asked by Young Man 3 in Singles & Dating

cigarettes,,and have some sort of tattoo that is visible to them...like on the lower back....shoulder ankle or something they can see....have any of you other women notice this...and if you do dress sexy, smoke cigarettes, and have a tat...does it make you feel better and more sexy about yourself....I know I do?

2006-09-30 06:10:06 · 6 answers · asked by darrin_8734 1 in Singles & Dating