Family & Relationships - 30 September 2006

2006-09-30 08:27:12 · 16 answers · asked by jojo 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My G/f fancies Brandon Flowers from The Killers. I don't get it.
He's good looking, talented, wealthy, has scores of women posting befouled underwear to him.
I myself am fat, lazy, unemployed, no prospects, skint, unhygenic, and shake in fear everytime she comes back from work in case i have to turn off my games console which i play on all day everyday. It seems there really is one rule for the rich and famous and another for us lazy no-hopers...sigh!

2006-09-30 08:26:03 · 11 answers · asked by Troubled Joe(the ghost of) 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

My parents are divorcing and it's turned nasty, I'm finding the whole thing hard to deal with but have tried to remain unbiased.
The main problems have been financial and there's lots of bickering, my Mum ran up a lot of unknown debts and spent alot of inherited money promised for me and my brother.

My Dad has found out and to his credit tried to do something about it, but has ben unsuccessful, yesterday he sent me a copy of his new will.

He has changed it to share out his estate between me, my brother and his new girlfriend of 4 months, who he ran off with, who has financial issues.

I was quite upset, he made out he was going to try and protect my brothers and mine interests and then has done this, to top it all he made me executer.

I didn't want to react irrationally, but the more I think about it, the more I'm upset, Should I say something? Am I justified in being angry? Is he being a bit insensitive?

Do I question my mum (volatile control freak) about the lost money

2006-09-30 08:24:18 · 25 answers · asked by Jenny 3 in Family

Anymore when my boyfriend and I go out he doesn't show me affection that much anymore.. we have been together for 2 years and all he wants to do is shoot pool. I don't get hugs from him much anymore.. just makes me feel like he doesn't love me anymore..

2006-09-30 08:24:06 · 12 answers · asked by Jen 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so i like this guy, and he's like my really good friend, and he knows i like him and i think he likes me bc he flirts with me alot. one problem: he has a gf. they don't talk, i've seen them hug once. i'm confused. does he like me or not?

2006-09-30 08:22:10 · 11 answers · asked by that-one-girl-with-nice-hair 3 in Friends

a few days ago my sister had a baby and called her Trisha, well, my husband who has a hard time remembering names, so he tried to associate the baby's name with something that will help him remember it.

The best he came up was the "trash", he told me so and I got hurt but decided not to make a big deal, so I didn't say anything. A few days later while shopping at Costco, I asked him to pick up a gift basket because we will be going to visit my sister on Sunday.

Well, my husband said that he bought a new TRASH basket.

I don't understand if he is doing it on purpose or it is just a coincidence, it feels like he is, but then why would he want to hurt me? What do you think? And if he is doing it on purpose why?

He is always doing stuff like that, it's making me think he wants me out of his life?

2006-09-30 08:22:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

this girl at my school 1m 19 and ah senior but this freshman i really like her but shes dating someone
but everytime she sees me in the hall she will look at me and give me the biggest smile and follow me with her eyes till im outa site lol i just wondering if she likes me or maybe thanks im really cute but no farther cause shes with someone or maybe im just on crack haha no not on that no more but anyways ....

2006-09-30 08:21:59 · 15 answers · asked by LiLHuDNaLL18 2 in Singles & Dating

This is just one of so many questions about love that is quite difficult to find an answer for. I hope you know which one seems better, because I don't even know which side should I really take.

2006-09-30 08:21:41 · 15 answers · asked by Grifter Heavenspike 2 in Singles & Dating

I split up with my ex after a some serious problems in my life. We tried to keep it together for months but i felt cold to her and wouldn't even sleep with her. We talked about this and I knew i loved her. I split up with her and told her I'd be back in 6 months and she was to live her life without me. We did see each other but it was really just friends and not that often. I did sort my self out and had sent her a txt saying i was missing her. I didn't get a reply and thought nothing of it until i bumped into her & new bloke. I get upset and over txts she was trying to explain and ask if we had any chance. I said no but then i started begging her back to the reply of "i love you but you hurt me to much and now i have a wall up". "We have a special connection but maybe in the future". We spoken a bit over the txt but she keeps saying she can't. Ive been a bit over the top in reassuring her and its pushed her away. A quote "for now can we just go out as friends" i'm lost

2006-09-30 08:21:32 · 7 answers · asked by neil1427a 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 08:21:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I have gone through some difficult times over the last few years. From health to money problems and most recently his mom passed away very young (10 months ago) since then he has become even more distant. He says he doesn't knwo what he wants (whether to leave me or stay) and whenever I ask he says he needs more time. He says he has never felt close enough to me to relax or enjoy himself ( apparently other than when we made those kids ;) and he wonders if he has made a mistake. We have 2 small boys. He has never cared for (looked after) the boys or for me for that matter. He says he doesn't feel connection with them either.

He has had months to think...he has agreed to go to a psychiatrist (someday) because he was doing a little better when he was on some anti-depressant medication but he is still dragging his feet.

The question is...should I call him on it and tell him to decide whether he wants to stay and work on things or go...or do I wait out ?

2006-09-30 08:19:56 · 33 answers · asked by Sandra C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

last night was my high school homecoming, and when i went to the game i saw my ex-boyfriend with his new girlfriend. he goes to my school but his girl goes to another school and that was the first time i saw them together. we were together 3 years ago and i still cant seem to get over him and we dont talk at all anymore! i was soo upset when i saw them together. they've been together since the end of january and i miss him soo much. everyone tells me to get over him and move on, but i cant. i try to and it never works. what do i do?!!

2006-09-30 08:19:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong for someone to be attracted to the same person as her friend? What do you do in this situation?

2006-09-30 08:17:52 · 27 answers · asked by italia_azure 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 08:17:02 · 6 answers · asked by SG 4 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl and she likes me. The problem is that I'm to shy to talk to her. What can I do to be less shy?

2006-09-30 08:16:35 · 12 answers · asked by punkrancidnofx 1 in Singles & Dating

Take for instance, an adult guy looked alright (i don't know, maybe a 7 out of 10 for looks) and had a good sense of humor. Would that be better than a serious type of guy who looks great (probably a 9 out of 10 for looks)? I'm just curious. Is humor the most important trait?

2006-09-30 08:14:39 · 33 answers · asked by cannonball 1 in Singles & Dating

This bloke i have been out on a few dates with has said to me, could you remove the stubble around your mouth as it is noticable and i am soft and smooth and i want you to be the same, what a weird thing to email someone about. I could not believe it, i honestly do not want to see him anymore and i am going to choose to ignore him. Who does he think he is. its so rude.

2006-09-30 08:12:14 · 15 answers · asked by guysmithdenise 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

a few days ago my sister had a baby and called her Trisha, well, my husband who is 49 years old (and I am 40) has a hard time remembering names, so he tried to associate the baby's name with something that will help him remember it.

The best he came up was the "trash", he told me so and I got hurt but decided not to make a big deal, so I didn't say anything. A few days later while shopping at Costco, I asked him to pick up a gift basket because we will be going to visit my sister on Sunday.

Well, my husband said that he bought a new trash basket.

I don't understand if he is doing it on purpose or it is just a coincidence, it feels like he is, but then why would he want to hurt me? What do you think? And if he is doing it on purpose why?

2006-09-30 08:11:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

theres this guy that i really like and we are just friends right now but i really like him. i'm not sure if he likes me though. how do i ask him casually for his number or email or sn?
don't be mean please
and thank you for answering!

2006-09-30 08:10:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if anyone knows some good ideas to do for a date.. All we do is eat out and we never really go anywhere. We work at a bowwling alley/skating rink so thats out of the question cuz we're around it so much. He also has a bad knee so swimming is out of the question.. I jus want some creative ideas to do... I live in CT so its already starting to get cold for outdoor activies.. but I really just want to do something fun unique and NEW!! Please help mee...

2006-09-30 08:09:58 · 14 answers · asked by Jess 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife talked me into it. So we went. After the 6th session, at $150 a pop, they came to the "realization" that they loved each other, moved to Napa and are living the blissful Lesbian life style.
Some deal, huh? And I'm stuck with her cat, which hates me and craps in my shoes.

2006-09-30 08:09:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

but my mum won't let me. she says we aren't even dating yet, but we've already planned a date, and kissed a bit, too. she says there is nothing to tell her. i always share stuff with my gran, and it feels bad to not tell her i have a boy freind. i am thinking of telling her when my mum goes to ny with dad for a week and i go to gran's house, but i don't think i should. then i would be lieing to mum. so, as you can see, i'm in a sticky situation.

2006-09-30 08:08:13 · 22 answers · asked by rozz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love a girl.From past 3 months she is always with another Guy.
She likes him very much.I want to come out of love .Please help.

2006-09-30 08:07:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 08:07:06 · 17 answers · asked by rabbit 1 in Singles & Dating

WORD

2006-09-30 08:06:20 · 9 answers · asked by Medicine Eddie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 08:05:24 · 28 answers · asked by danny100 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-30 08:04:31 · 18 answers · asked by rabbit 1 in Singles & Dating

flicking someones ear, jumping them, tackling,hugging and playing with someones hair. because i know i dont not flirt.

2006-09-30 08:04:16 · 8 answers · asked by gangter_mami_04 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 08:02:56 · 9 answers · asked by rabbit 1 in Singles & Dating

My brother and his x-girlfriend have a 3 month old daughter. They have ben living together. Two nights ago, they got in an argument and she acalled her mom to come to their house. She decided that she was going to leave him. Her mom and step dad went into my brothers home and took his daughter away from him without even letting him say goodbye to her. Her mom punched my brother in the face 4 times while she was holding the baby in her carseat. My brother didn't lay a finger on her mom. His x-girlfriend is bi-polar and has always abused my brother. He has never hit her back. She has broken his nose with a glass bottle before. Anyway, after she leaves with the baby, he gets papers served on him. It was a 50B. He now has to wait 10 days before he can see his daughter again in court. The question I have is...how hard will it be for him to get sole custody of his daughter? What will be considered in the custody decisions? His ex is psycho...how hard will it be to prove that to the courts?

2006-09-30 08:02:49 · 4 answers · asked by daughtry_fan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships