Family & Relationships - 30 September 2006

I meet a great guy about 2 weeks ago and he stood me up on the date he asked me out on. I ran into him again at the same bar we meet at 2 weeks ago again we talked all night this is the guy i can see spending the rest of my life with but he has already hurt me once should i trust him not to do it again. He did say it had nothing to do with me and everthing to do with him the reason he stood me up but when he left he kissed me again and said if i never call it was his fault what should i do. I dont want to spend the rest of my life alone.

2006-09-30 14:44:16 · 23 answers · asked by B P 2 in Singles & Dating

He quit when he got congestive heart failure last year. Age 49. After 2 operations defibillator placement, probes for leaky valves and heart stoppage several times, he seemed to be depressed. I left my job to nurse him back to health. He went back to work and started drinking again. Then a younger woman dangled herself in front of him even though she knew we were together. Says he loves her. She knew who I was, we spoke to each other once. He left me for her without saying a word to me. Found out 2 days later. I packed up his things. He moved in with her right away. shes an alcoholic too. She got fired for drinking on the job.
He still continues to pay my bills. Credit card debt. Rent,car payment, etc. Im driving the car. This has been going on for about 3 and a half months. Is this guilt that is making him pay the bills or does he think he can get me back? Is he keeping me on a hook? I have moved on, still have anger and hurt but making positive moves to go forward with my life.

2006-09-30 14:43:48 · 13 answers · asked by asuare1950 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had a really good friend named April, and she hurt me more than anyone and ive been hurt many times and thought no one could ever hurt me worse.Anyways the only guy i have ever loved her, my best friend asked him out when she knew that.Me and Tyler werent going out though. and a liit while later she called my b/f and tried to get w/him and he cussed her out.Well anyways tonight i whooped her *** three times 1st i walked up to her she said hi hannah! like nothing was wrong then i got in her face and her aunt came and then i ran up to her grabed her hair and punched her twice in the face.Then she got behind her aunt while like 10 people tried holding me back and she lifted her heada up and i stuck her 3 times in her nose and aint got one scrath on me .Anyways!! i feel better now that i did what ive been waiting to do and im not so pissed anymoe and im pretty much over it now b/c i beat that *** likei wantedtoo.butstill dont know ifi can4give her but mymoms havin herdadsbaby!

2006-09-30 14:43:41 · 4 answers · asked by tammyb752001 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-30 14:43:05 · 28 answers · asked by living it 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and this guy have liked each other for a long time, and we live in seperate states (don't ask), and i called him today, cause i haven't talked to him in a long time, and we're talkin and everything, and then the subject of homecoming comes up, and he say's "yea, it sucks that me girlfriend couldn't make it, she had trouble with her parents" and i don't know if i should get all offended, like he broke up with me, or just get over it and move on with life in the next 5 min. HELP!!!

2006-09-30 14:42:36 · 7 answers · asked by TexasGirl_300 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 14:41:56 · 7 answers · asked by manju s 1 in Friends

My girlfriend just died last week and I am very sad about it. We were very close. When I go to sleep, I dream about her everyday. And when I bring a new girl in my house, there usually spooky things that happen in my house. Like the door opening by itself and the window blinds turn by itself. I am really scared. Is it my girlfriend's ghost that is living in my house? I am serious about this. I need help! I am being haunted by my girlfriend.

Is there such thing as ghost or any spirit particles?

2006-09-30 14:41:04 · 20 answers · asked by Mr Guy 1 in Friends

My girlfriend just died last week and I am very sad about it. We were very close. When I go to sleep, I dream about her everyday. And when I bring a new girl in my house, there usually spooky things that happen in my house. Like the door opening by itself and the window blinds turn by itself. I am really scared. Is it my girlfriend's ghost that is living in my house? I am serious about this. I need help! I am being haunted by my girlfriend.

Is there such thing as ghost or any spirit particles?

2006-09-30 14:40:55 · 15 answers · asked by Mr Guy 1 in Weddings

i forgot to empty her trash can on her side of the bed and i left a mess in the middle of my brothers floor(sunflower seeds that spilled) and did not clean them up. so she came down stairs with her trash bag and i was in the bathroom. she came in there and tied that bag around my neck. it was so tight that it nearly strangled me. i was trying to pull it off and was struggling with it and she said . no, you are going to wear that all night stench and all! , i couldnt breath so when i went upstairs i pulled it off and threw it outside. a few minutes later she said, where is the bag?, i said i threw it away. she looked at me like i was her enemy and all of a sudden i told her to stop looking at me like that. i was going upstairs and she said, ill look at you anyway i want *****. she grabbed a night stick and came upstairs.... u know the rest. after the night stick was my dads belt.

2006-09-30 14:40:48 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i really like so what should i do? i told him 2 stop. how should i punish his ***?

2006-09-30 14:40:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

wot is the best way to make a friend, im a teenager..??

2006-09-30 14:40:15 · 2 answers · asked by nathan 3 in Friends

my fiancee treats me like crap(thats my say so anyway) he dont do anything with me or my son , and everytime i try to say something he says, here we go again, another night of bitching.. i dont know f he is trying to make himself look and feel better. i usually go out by myself because he is glued to the tv, i am tired of doing things by myself, and when i do go out he thinks i a cheating on him, i love him and would never cheat on him, but i am tired of him calling me a bar fly, and now calling me (whoring around) i cry and get upset and he says ... are you feeling sorry for yourself , go take a pill to calm you down,,,, i really dont know what to do

2006-09-30 14:40:11 · 21 answers · asked by wanda h 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my ex boyfriend and i went out for ten months or so....he was sweet..and kind, and took me a while to get over him..

we broke up cuz he got bored of me, and i was sick of being used pervertedly over the chatting online...yes, his family knows mine..and we were close friends before we started dating....i dont know what i should do about the whole thing.

should we still be friends?

2006-09-30 14:40:00 · 7 answers · asked by Bear 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 14:39:57 · 8 answers · asked by JANET S 2 in Family

I gave her the world every day i would tell her how amazing she is always did anythink she sead always there and what she want from me? just to be friends and go out wid sum one else after her were i go wrong??

2006-09-30 14:39:20 · 9 answers · asked by John 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a project for my Sociology class. I have to ask 20 people this question and once I gather all my results, I have to write a paper summarizing the information. If you choose to answer, you can just answer "Yes" or "No", or you can explain your answers if you like. Oh, also, if it's not too much to ask, could you please provide me with your first name, your location (just the state is fine), your age, and marital status. Thanks!

2006-09-30 14:38:40 · 32 answers · asked by Connie M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i already know alt

2006-09-30 14:38:16 · 4 answers · asked by female d 1 in Singles & Dating

I like a particular person in the company I used to work. We kind of wink at each other, and when walk by always glance back and have eye contact. Once I set up my car alarm deliberately just to attract his attention in the parking lot. However, he is a comfortable middle class, and I am struggling to do a lot of things, also I am trying to start a small business myself. He might just want to play, but I only have time for serious stuff. A lot of different issues there. Time passed and I left that company without dating him even once. His spirit really is haunting me now. I think of him almost at least once every day. It drives me nuts. Today at gym it suddently came to my mind and he is very much into gym too. Can I get rid of his spirit? Should I just call him up, tell him everything, to provide him the chance to laugh at me----then I will be hurt and stop thinking of him no more?

2006-09-30 14:38:13 · 9 answers · asked by yabst@yahoo.com 2 in Singles & Dating

Your girlfriend cheats on you behind your back the day a family member passes away and then tries to withhold the information from you.

2006-09-30 14:38:07 · 11 answers · asked by Legend_in_progress 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a project for my Sociology class. I have to ask 20 people this question and once I gather all my results, I have to write a paper summarizing the information. If you choose to answer, you can just answer "Yes" or "No", or you can explain your answers if you like. Oh, also, if it's not too much to ask, could you please provide me with your first name, your location (just the state is fine), your age, and marital status. Thanks!

2006-09-30 14:37:25 · 14 answers · asked by Connie M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-30 14:37:25 · 2 answers · asked by destiny 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

to my mom if i want to start wearing pretty underwear (thongs and the silky kind)

2006-09-30 14:37:12 · 2 answers · asked by im lost come and find me 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

do guys like it when they can ask a question like"who won the lakers game yesterday"and the girl can answer it.or do they think dat iz weird?cuz i know stuff like dat cuz i love sports!!

2006-09-30 14:36:55 · 16 answers · asked by B#13 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a registered nurse at a very respectable hospital, I am 35 years old and so is the man that I am pregnant for. I have loved him since I was 17 years old. He has been on drugs for 10 years I have done everything to keep him clean and sober I have put him in the finest rehab centers across the states, I have got him out of jail so many times. I am 7 months pregnant and I lost a baby 1 year ago. I have been in and out of drug houses looking for him and when I do find him I bring him home and sober him up and then it goes back to the same thing. I love him so much I'm loving him from the streets.

2006-09-30 14:36:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I really Like her but i am too shy to talk to her. Im afraid that she knows that i like her coz i always stare at her. I seriously dont know why i am so afraid to talk to her. Plz show me a way to overcome this DISEASE of mine.

2006-09-30 14:35:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 14:35:08 · 21 answers · asked by kitkat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-30 14:34:51 · 3 answers · asked by liverandonions2004 2 in Singles & Dating

im 14 and in highschool(freshman)

2006-09-30 14:34:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how do i ask her out? - i think shes interested she kept looking at me

2006-09-30 14:34:15 · 5 answers · asked by Adam2222 1 in Singles & Dating

i miss her
any one lost someone special to them
someone you can talk to anything about
well thats wat happened to me
she was only 12 when she died
this day is bringing me alot for memories

2006-09-30 14:33:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family