Family & Relationships - 30 September 2006

iz it wrong for a white girl to love black guys wit a lil bit gangsta in em?wit da flat billed hats ,baggy jean,an like rap music?oh and play sports?

2006-09-30 17:38:29 · 30 answers · asked by B#13 1 in Singles & Dating

my guy friend uses me...i think! how do i tell...what are the signs?


and i don't want to say' r u using me'

i just wanna know the signs so i know if he were still to be my friend

2006-09-30 17:38:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a friend who asked out a year ago and she said no but wanetd to be friends. we have hung out id say 5 times as much since then and have become pretty close. she never calls me to hang out tho. i aslways call her but we have a great time when we are together. we give each other long tight hugs and i kiss her on the cheek. im 19 and shes 18. we go to different colleges an hour apart. could her feelings have changed since a year ago? should i ask her how she feels about me? would she think im a weirdo for asking again?

2006-09-30 17:37:51 · 17 answers · asked by cronaldo17 2 in Singles & Dating

He has visitation in the divorce decree that states he gets even holidays and me odd and he get every other weekend for visititation. They have always picked up the kids on fri and i pick them up from them on sun. do i have to do this, or if he wants to see them does he have to drive both ways?

2006-09-30 17:37:45 · 7 answers · asked by humorme! 3 in Marriage & Divorce

How many women realize we judge you on you treat waiters , waitresses , customer service reps you name it .

I find Kindness to be one of sexyist traits a woman could ever have .

2006-09-30 17:37:28 · 16 answers · asked by bolounit1 2 in Singles & Dating

well my b-f was going to walk with me but he hooked up with his friend and did a drug deal and he said can you wait here while he went in the bathroom with his friends and got hi and he came out and i said r u going to walk with me and his friend said forget that b**** and then i left but i dont want to break up with him i want to help him and take care of him when he is down wut should i do?

2006-09-30 17:36:55 · 14 answers · asked by kaylee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am paying child support for two kids. If the kids come and want to be with me. can i do all documents for court and child support myself? Do I need a lawyer? Case is in Houston, TX. I am in TX also.

2006-09-30 17:35:25 · 5 answers · asked by mnk6 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Their Dad is an alcoholic & that's one reason I had to leave him last Nov. Our divorce was final in April. I couldn't take it anymore, although I still love him. Their Dad keeps telling them he's not drinking but they found out tonight he still is. They cried themselves to sleep tonight. (they're 16 & 17) I don't know what to do for them. I try to comfort them & tell them he is a grown man & can take care of himself, but that is not enough. They blame themselves for some reason. It's a terrible situation & I hate to see them hurting over him.

What do I do?

2006-09-30 17:35:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-30 17:34:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And I mean the snizz.....And plese leave out the C word...I hate it

2006-09-30 17:34:18 · 8 answers · asked by WonderTwit 6 in Singles & Dating

She's a girly girl
I have already sent her several things that are native to my deployed location

2006-09-30 17:34:14 · 8 answers · asked by tiggr817 1 in Family

ok. so im in eigth grade and hes in seventh technically he could be eigth but hes not. so idk
is it strange?

2006-09-30 17:33:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I get hit on alot by guys but I refuse to have a boyfriend. The reason is because I don't want to have sex. I think that having a relationship in college always leads to sex eventually. I don't want to have sex because of my Catholic religious beliefs. Also, I fear that a guy will lose interest once he has sex with you. What do guys think of me???

2006-09-30 17:33:05 · 14 answers · asked by lavender 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in Texas and need advice, my husband died and was living with his daughter at the time. I have been legally married to him for over 20 years. He is 78 Years of age and I am 56. Will I be able to draw off his Social Security? His daughter refused to let me see him at her address. I could only visit him at the day care center. I am disable status as well. He died 3 days ago and the family did not notify me. They have gone as far as to make funeral arrangements already without me. If I am his legal wife how can they go through these preceding without my approval. Please help?

2006-09-30 17:31:53 · 11 answers · asked by JoJoBa 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why did my ex used to cry when we were together and now that we broke up, he is still sleeping with me, but tells me he isn't interested in me anymore and doesn't want to get back together? He even said he was going to go watch me in a pageant and take time out of his life to do it. Sometime I think he likes to control me. If he loved me would he be trying to control me? He plays with my emotions. Why? If he wants me out of his life why doesn't he just let itbe and stop laying games (esp by sleeping with me). We;re not talking anymore, because last time we spoke he never wants to listen to my feelings or hrear me cry or tell me things to hurt me. I asked him if he loved me and he said he didnt want to say anything hurtful. So i go . ok come over and sleep with me once more and he goes no. And i go then you don't love me? and he goes. yes i do thats why i am not going to sleep with you anymore.......um?????????????????????????

2006-09-30 17:31:26 · 8 answers · asked by coochie1 2 in Singles & Dating

i need 3 reasons for why its so high...please no one word anwsers..and please leave your age ,marital status, and sex with anwsers...thanks

2006-09-30 17:30:58 · 11 answers · asked by willyo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-30 17:30:55 · 9 answers · asked by naughty_little_cookbooks 1 in Singles & Dating

i told my bf that im not into premarital sex when we first met that was also when he first made a move.earlyer today i was sitting on his bed thinkin about some thing and he comes and sits right next to me.we have some small talk then he started to kiss me on my shoulder and neck he almost got my pant off when his big brother whos staying for awhile walked by and trew a condom at his head and yelled i dont wanna be an uncle for any more kids.when i relized what happend i was shocked with my self hes never goten that close.my bf before him was reall agressive but my bf was really gentle.why is it that now all of a sudden he some how almost had sex with me most of the time i can just walk away from him or just say no.

2006-09-30 17:30:45 · 5 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 17:29:57 · 1 answers · asked by nick 1 in Family

2006-09-30 17:29:12 · 31 answers · asked by Naughtybutnice 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 17:29:11 · 13 answers · asked by C 2 in Singles & Dating

What are additional issues an inter-cultural couple face? What are good ways of dealing with those issues? And how do you make sure that the other person doesn't lose touch with their culture and that the kids dont lose their culture either?

2006-09-30 17:28:46 · 8 answers · asked by Freaked out 3 in Singles & Dating

What do u do if u like a guy that is ur cousins bestfrend,you all got to the same school, and the guy is always hanging out with ur cousin and u never get a chance to talk to him without ur cousin being there?

2006-09-30 17:28:12 · 12 answers · asked by Monica V 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 17:28:09 · 26 answers · asked by grazygoofyg 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-30 17:27:27 · 3 answers · asked by Cinderella 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why can't I find any nice guys? Where have all the real men gone? Ive always been picky that's why I didn't have my first boyfriend until I was 20, & he was so smart, sweet and caring. But, it seems like the guys I'm meeting since him all are not worth my time. It seems like I always get approached by guys that I would never date. Guys always tell me that I'm pretty and I know I have good personality so why is it so hard to find a great guy? Someone that just wants to get to know me and not just try to get into my pants.
By the way, I am a shy girl but not overly shy. Also, I wanna save sex for marriage so I feel like most guys would probably not wait or just see me as a challenge so I'm very weary and suspicious of guys.
I'm a pretty, smart, and fun girl, so why can I find Mr.Right? Is there something wrong me me or is it just the selection?

2006-09-30 17:26:43 · 34 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

Is this a good joke or inappropriate?

2006-09-30 17:26:40 · 16 answers · asked by lazerus1962 1 in Friends

2006-09-30 17:26:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am pregnant, due in 5 weeks. A month ago the babies dad my ex boyfriend kicked me out of his parents house told me he didn't love me or want to be with me anymore. Then he started playing these head games with me saying I want to be a family and then turning around and showing totally different. Recently I found out he is running around with a 34 year old married woman, and he is very far into an addiction of cocaine and alcohol. He denies all of these things of course. He still goes to my doctors appointments with me and yesterday he had a hickey on his neck. Then in the room he wants to kiss me touch my belly tell me he loves me. I told him not to because he obviously doesn't care for my feelings. Then he presumes to tell me he didn't like having sex with me because it is weird having sex with a pregnant woman. With my belly and he thinks the baby might know. This I have heard of before. Please help... what should I do?

2006-09-30 17:25:52 · 11 answers · asked by JB 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Line five read something like this.

Avoid loud and aggressive people for they are vexations to the spirits.

Line 6.
If you compare yourself with others you may become vain and bitter, for always there will greater and lesser persons than yourself.

2006-09-30 17:25:21 · 2 answers · asked by TM 1 in Other - Family & Relationships