Family & Relationships - 27 September 2006

My husband's best friend kept giving me the "I want to have sex/make out hand shake" (taking his middle finger and tickling the palm of my hand) on Saturday night. I just figured out what it meant. I told my husband and he thinks that he didn't mean anything by it, that he was just goofing around. It bothers me, whether or not it was a joke or not. I find it disrespectful and obnoxious. I'd like to hear others perpective. How should I handle this if it happens again?

2006-09-27 03:29:25 · 27 answers · asked by 10 pts for me? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i have it on my mind nearly all the time

2006-09-27 03:28:52 · 2 answers · asked by graham f 3 in Singles & Dating

That is when two friends commit themselves to each other, they stop interacting with their common friends in a manner that they used to.
That is once they become 'safe' in the new relationship or probably in their lives, they overact to prove that they are now 'mature', 'choosy' and so on. Got my point.

Why do they become selfish and self centred? It hurts me a lot to interact with such kind people. How to interact with such people?

It happened to me actually. I was a very good friend of one girl and then she became comitted to one common friend. Now I dont even know her newly changed mobile number. It pains me a lot. I had no feelings for that girl. But it hurts to have such kinda behaviour from a good friend. Isn't it?

Your views on this one.

2006-09-27 03:28:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

101 Most Romantic/Passionate/Sweet Things To Do For Your
Girlfriend/Boyfriend
(101 steps to having a good relationship)

1. Watch the sunset together.
2. Take showers together.
3. Back rubs/massages.
4. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or w/ blacklight.
5. French Kiss.
6. Hold her w/ hands inside the back of her shirt.
7. Whisper to each other.
8. Cook for each other.
9. Skinny dip.
10. Make out in the rain.
11. Dress each other.
12. Undress each other.
13. Kiss every part of their body.
14. Hold hands.
15. Sleep together. (Actually sleep with each other, not sex)
16. One word: Foreplay
17. Sit and talk in just underwear.
18. Buy gifts for each other.
19. Roses.
20. Find out their favorite cologne/perfume and wear it every time
you're
together.
21. Wear his clothes.
22. Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars.
23. Incense/candles/oils/blackligh... and music make for great
cuddling/sex.
24. Kiss at every chance you get.
25. Don't wear underwear and let them find out.
26. Kinky is bad; Blindfolds are good.
27. Lightly kiss their collarbone and their jawbone just below the
ear,
then whisper I love you.
28. Bubble baths.
29. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.
30. Make love.
31. Write poetry for each other.
32. Kiss/smell her hair.
33. Hugs are the universal medicine.
34. Say I love you, only when you mean it and make sure they know you
mean
it.
35. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry etc.
36. Tell her that she's the only girl you ever want. Don't lie.
37. Spend every second possible together.
38. Tell her that she doesn't have to do anything she doesn't want to.
And
mean it.
39. Look into each other's eyes.
40. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you
love
her, and kiss her lightly.
41. Talk to each other using only body language and your eyes.
42. When in public, only flirt w/ each other.
43. Walk behind her and put your hands in her front pockets.
44. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren't looking.
45. Clothes are no fun.
46. Buy her a ring.
47. Keep one of her bras somewhere where you see it everyday.
48. Sing to each other.
49. Read to each other.
50. PDA = Public Display of Affection.
51. Take advantage of any time alone together.
52. Tell her about how you answered every question in math with her
name
53. Draw. (If you can)
54. Let her sit on your lap.
55. Go hiking and camp out together in the woods or on a mountain.
56. Lips were made for kissing. So were eyes, and fingers, and cheeks,
and collarbones, and hands, and ears.
57. Kiss her stomach.
58. Always hold her around her hips/sides.
59. Guys like half-shirts.
60. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deal.
61. Spaghetti (Ever see Lady and the Tramp?)
62. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it
over
your heart.
63. Unless you can feel their hear beating, you aren't close enough.
64. Dance together.
65. Sit in front of a roaring fire and make out/make love.
66. I love the way a girl looks right after she's fallen asleep with
her
head in my lap.
67. Carry her to bed.
68. Waterbeds are fun.
69. You figure it out.
70. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have
to
look in a mirror to read it.
71. Break every one of your parent's relationship rules for them.
72. Make excuses to call them every 5 minutes
73. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to
call and say I love you.
74. Call from your vacation spot to tell them you were thinking about
them.
75. Remember your dreams and tell her about them.
76. Ride your bike 8 miles just to see them for a few hours.
77. Ride home and call them.
78. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears.
79. Somehow incorporate them into any kind of religion or worship you
have.
80. Be Prince Charming to her parents. (Brownie Points)
81. Act out mutual fantasies together. (Not necessarily sexual)
82. Brush her hair out of her face for her.
83. Stay up all night to think of 101 ways to be sweet to them.
84. Hang out with his/her friends. (more brownie points)
85. Go to church/pray/worship together.
86. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.
87. Cuddle together under a full moon on a clear night.
88. Learn from each other and don't make the same mistake twice.
89. Everyone deserves a second chance.
90. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her.
91. Make sacrifices for each other.
92. Really love each other, or don't stay together.
93. Write a fictional story about how you met/fell in love, etc. and
give
it to them.
94. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren't
thinking about them, and make sure they know it.
95. Love yourself before you love anyone else.
96. Buy her a charm bracelet/necklace w/her name on it.
97. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.
98. Fall asleep on the phone with each other.
99. Sleep naked together.
100. Stand up for them when someone talks trash.
101. Never forget the kiss goodnight. And always remember to say,
"Sweet
dreams."

2006-09-27 03:27:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she thinks that i should do everything for nothing and i dotn think it is right, she walks over me

2006-09-27 03:27:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have been married a year have a 3 year old my husband works all day i stay at home with her when he comes in he goes on computer and doesnt want to be bothered with her he pushes her away and ignores her, on weekends he wont even take one hour on sat when hes not doing anything to take herr to play group and play with her, on sundays he goes golfing and wont do anything with his kid, he expects me to do it all. he wont play with her he wont help give her a bath everynow and then he complains if i ask him to dry her off and gte her clothes on, he makes no effort with her and shes starting to misbehave beyond my control because the only way to get his attention is do misbehave and she bites kicks screams and scratches and she thinks she has to do it with me but she gets more attention then i give myself. what can i do i tried asking him, i ttried getting public health involved i ttried getting social services involved and nothin has worked ive even treid talkin to him doesnt work

2006-09-27 03:26:50 · 13 answers · asked by Margaret 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-27 03:26:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A few days ago, I accepted a dare where my friends were able to e-maila friend of mine, who I happen to like. After she received the e-mail, she flipped and blocked me from MSN Messenger. how do i get back on her good side??? And take into account that We are in different countries for one year.

2006-09-27 03:25:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you get ful satisfaction

2006-09-27 03:25:38 · 13 answers · asked by sanjay 3 in Singles & Dating

I live with my partner and have done so for about two years,lately we just go to bed and i initiate sex at times but she says she is tired.we have sex about once or if im lucky twice a week now.What causes this, ladies please help!!Is it time to leave?

2006-09-27 03:25:34 · 30 answers · asked by mielo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 03:25:01 · 25 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Friends

There's this saying that says that the bigger and wider a man's hand means the bigger and wider his manhood and vice versa? Also, if a man is tall and skinny, does it mean his manhood will be long and if he's short and fat, that his manhood will be fat. Em....what's your view?

2006-09-27 03:24:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mate was close to me, he decided to make me a scapegoat infront of all college mates to fit in, what do i do

2006-09-27 03:24:54 · 37 answers · asked by Hunter 1 in Friends

She lies and steals constintly. Nothing my boyfriend and I are doing seems to be working. We have grounded her, taken things away for periods of time, made her clean, spanked, etc etc. This is not all done at the same time, don't worry. It's just getting really frustrating because neither myself nor my boyfriend lies. He is her father, I am not her biological mother (and I realize genetics don't make a parent). We're at our wits end. He's actually agreed to let me take her to Sunday school which is a huge step for him. We're out of ideas. Help!

2006-09-27 03:24:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well she was my best friend but we've grown apart then we got back to our old ways then now we are growing apart once again.
the way it was with her one boyfriend "George" was that she would spent all the free time with him. she would stay up to late hours and he'd stay over. or she'd say something is wrong and there he is. if i'd ask if she wanted to do something she'd be like "oh 'george' and i have something planed"
i told her from day one i didn't like him but i'll support the relationship. they broke up because "i don't have time for a girlfriend". Now he's back with his ex.
now her current boyfriend "Joe". She lives at his appartment at his college with his cousin and her friend. She never has time anymore...again.Just because we go to different schools it doesn't matter. we live less than 3 min. from one another. But she'd rather be with him.
why would someone chose a guy over a friend? we've been friends since we were very little.....

2006-09-27 03:24:09 · 9 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Friends

She was nice when we started going out, then she moved and has been very mean to me. When she first moved she called me a two-faced a$$hole and i have been told i am one of the nicest people ever. What should i do? She has been like this for awhile. She says that she will try to stop bt hasnt. I dont know if i should break up with her or not. She also has heart problems and she is not allowed to drink caffine but she does it anyway even tho i asked her to stop. i could use help.

2006-09-27 03:23:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How did you know when you had found THE ONE??

2006-09-27 03:22:26 · 24 answers · asked by BeautyMark 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-27 03:22:00 · 23 answers · asked by pewnee 2 in Family

when i look at our picture together, i think we look good. i really don't care what people think about my dating a younger man, but i'm curious to know if people feel kind of shocked when they see us together. :) thanks for your answers.

2006-09-27 03:21:57 · 28 answers · asked by curious 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 03:21:27 · 10 answers · asked by on the verge 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I meet a man who is 53 year's of age and I fell madly in love with him, and I just wanna know if it's possible and if you think it will work?

2006-09-27 03:20:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

As I was answering my e-mails for the day my seven year old asked me to get him something to eat as I only usually give him cold cereal on the weekends. I thought why not let him have cold cereal today so I said why don't you fix some cold cereal? he said Can't I have the stuff you fixed yesterday? Wow what child actually prefers good food over junk food I ask you? I am impressed that some of my teachings are actually getting through.How about you guys any one out there with children who prefer good healthy food over junk food?

2006-09-27 03:19:57 · 4 answers · asked by rahlyd swamp muffin 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-27 03:19:20 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-27 03:17:50 · 21 answers · asked by jack m 1 in Singles & Dating

101 Most Romantic/Passionate/Sweet Things To Do For Your
Girlfriend/Boyfriend
(101 steps to having a good relationship)

1. Watch the sunset together.
2. Take showers together.
3. Back rubs/massages.
4. Listen to classical music and cuddle in the dark or w/ blacklight.
5. French Kiss.
6. Hold her w/ hands inside the back of her shirt.
7. Whisper to each other.
8. Cook for each other.
9. Skinny dip.
10. Make out in the rain.
11. Dress each other.
12. Undress each other.
13. Kiss every part of their body.
14. Hold hands.
15. Sleep together. (Actually sleep with each other, not sex)
16. One word: Foreplay
17. Sit and talk in just underwear.
18. Buy gifts for each other.
19. Roses.
20. Find out their favorite cologne/perfume and wear it every time
you're
together.
21. Wear his clothes.
22. Find a nice secluded place to lie and watch the stars.
23. Incense/candles/oils/blackligh... and music make for great
cuddling/sex.
24. Kiss at every chance you get.
25

2006-09-27 03:17:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Why won't this guy stop calling me? One date and I owe him some big f-ing explanation? I think not. Guys never call and nobody ever harrasses them....geez, unfair.

2006-09-27 03:17:06 · 18 answers · asked by sasha 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-27 03:15:35 · 13 answers · asked by brandon_fargerson 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok I really dont like my name- I prefer to use my nickname, which many believe is my real name. Can you NOT use your name on invitations, during the vows and whatever else, instead using the name that you go by (unless it is ridiculous like bunny or peaches?) My nickname is Lori, so its not a bad nickname- what is the general rule of thumb?

I plan on changing all of my bills and license over to my real name and his last name, but for all other purposes, I would rather my real name not be said or shared.

2006-09-27 03:15:12 · 18 answers · asked by mixedchick4blkguys 2 in Weddings

2006-09-27 03:15:09 · 22 answers · asked by jb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is always pissed at me anymore. Nothing I do is good enough for him. When he is angry he tells me I am a worthless *****. This morning he told me it would hurt his feelings at all to see me walk out the door and never come back.

An hour later he said he was just angry, and was calm now. "That's all the apology your getting" He blames me for everything that goes wrong (ex: car brakes go out, I barely avoid a wreck: MY FAULT) Do you think he means it when he says he hates me or that he loves me??? Do all men treat women this way?

2006-09-27 03:14:10 · 24 answers · asked by Doll 2 in Marriage & Divorce